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My boyfriend of seven years just broke up with me citing that I got too muscular for him. It fucking sucks because he's the one that got me into fitness three years ago and I started losing weight because of him. I suck at talking to men so no clue how to go on from here...


Plus, I have to move out and find a new apartment which is shitty.
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It was a shitty excuse to leave you OP.

I just got a GF who lifts, it's amazing.
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let's be honest here
Too much muscle on a women is fetish tier, he simply didn't have it in him
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>>34928448
>I suck at talking to men so no clue how to go on from here
You are a woman this doesn't matter. Just be pretty and smile lol
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>>34928448
If you're a shredded cunt, you won't have to talk to men unless your genes are -1/10-tier. Just know how to dress well to flatter your bod and men will approach you. Basically just go out on Saturday nights and shit and this'll resolve itself.
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>>34928448

LONDON
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>>34928448
See, when you post stuff about your "boyfriend" and then post a picture of a girl without including a timestamp...
it makes me think that that picture has nothing to do with you and that you're actually just a gay guy.
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>>34928477
Thats me in the picture, but face wise, am a 5-6/10
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>>34928472
I don't even think I'm very muscular! He does not lift tho, so he probably doesn't like me being stronger
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Judging by the fact youre here on fit, you probably have a really terrible personality.

The fitness thing is just an excuse to keep you wondering.
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>>34928448
why try to be anonymous by hiding ur face when u have a tattoo
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>>34928490
Reverse image search it? lol idk what to say
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>>34928494
bitch I'll take you.

I'll get you into fitness

>fitness diq in ya butt
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>>34928504
am pretty ugly. idc about the tats. don't want to be made fun of
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7 fucking years.

Be honest OP, how often did you fantasize and consider fucking one of you male friends?
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>>34928494
You know you have scoliosis right
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>>34928502
I'm kind of boring I guess. Don't know how to keep convos going irl
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>>34928521
The lower half of your face seems pretty nice. Post face and/or tits so we can properly assess your attractiveness and determine what you need to do to get a boyfriend.
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>>34928466
He is 5'3 and I am 5'8

I guess it was okay when I was fat because he felt like he was doing me a favor, but not anymore
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>>34928511
>lol idk what to say
How about, "oh, here's one of me WITH A TIMESTAMP."
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>>34928448
>im a grll btw
>i need a place to stay
why you guys keep falling for this kind of b8?
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>>34928538
tits are pretty saggy from losing weight aha
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>>34928544
>He is 5'3 and I am 5'8
>He is 5'3
Oh, you're trolling us.
We are being trolled.
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>>34928530
This desu. It's pretty advanced too.
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>>34928550
where do i get a timestamp?
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>>34928448
Make an account on match.com or okcupid.
Go out and date some guys.
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>>34928494
I assumed you were a gay man because of where we are. As a woman who isn't horrendously ugly or disgustingly fat, you have to put zero effort into getting men. Literally just being present is enough. Good luck.
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>>34928544
>>34928521
>>34928498

Youre giving yourself away too easily mister troll. Going all in and its not even 3am yet? Pathetic.
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>>34928565
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>>34928448
Is pic related? Because that's not that muscular. He's just afraid you were out of his league after you worked out
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Honestly op, just stop eating bread. Now I know what you're thinking, but the only way to win him back is to stop eating bread.

>>source?
I smoke, drink and do a lot more, but you know what I don't do? Eat bread.
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>>34928544
>Used to be fat
>No stretch marks
>No loose skin
Mhmm. Methinks you might be a rusemaster here to rile up some Jonathans.
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>>34928448
So, is this a real thing? I mean, I've started lifting about 6 months ago and I already feel insecure because my shoulders are wider than ever, even my closest friends noticed it. Does it really intimidade guys? If that's you in the picture and he claimed you to be 'too muscular' then I'll never leave my room again desu, I look a lot more "buff" because of higher body fat percentage

why live brehs
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>>34928593
Women's version of fat is vastly different remember. She was probably 5 pounds heavier
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OP, how much do you weigh. I am 5'8 too


>>34928552
Not op, but I'm a girl and I was homeless too

>inb4 ugly nigger
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>>34928494
You muscular? Sorry to tell you, but you are not. Look great for a women tbhfam
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>>34928536
Just show effort and interest, or guys will move on
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>>34928610
Nice tummy, but do you even lift?
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>>34928608
She is probably the elaborate concoction of a devious trickster's imagination.
My Jacobs are all sorts of scrambled right now.
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>>34928538

no she doesn't. the lower half of her head looks like the grinch so i can't imagine the part she cut out is any better.
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>>34928610
would fuck
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>>34928623
just started!
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>>34928610
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>>34928610
Are you girls really that insecure that you cannot take a picture with your face displayed in a normal way?
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Serious question:

When you live with a your gf/bf do you both pay rent?

must be weird
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>>34928610
>Still would blow bubbles in tummy jizz.
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>>34928610
fuck! im 5'9 and i look way thinner! You're hot!!!

>>34928561
I dated a guy three inches shorter than me once. It's more common than you think

>>34928550
>>34928490
I screenshot and then crop my photos from Facebook so maybe thats why op doesn't have a timestamp...?
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>>34928662
how?

if you're old enough to live together you're old enough to talk about shit like that.

>being 14
>must be weird
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>>34928684
face
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>>34928655
Yes. I feel like people making fun of a dumb face is better than them making fun of my normal face.
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>>34928693
you're fine.

you remind me of an oblivion high elf lool
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>>34928693
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>>34928693

You look fine.
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>>34928684
IM 5'9 AND I WISH I LOOKED AS "LONG" AS YOU (160 lbs)
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>>34928737
let me rub your
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these photos come from reddit or something?
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it's weird, when I see threads about women with self esteem issues it makes me sad, but with men I just think they're pussies and have no sympathy
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>>34928737

is this a high test thread now?
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>>34928717
Die Allah Akbars töten hier eh bald alles Bruder.
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>>34928684
>>34928693
You're hot but you're skelly as fuck desu. DYEL?
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>>34928745
kuck mind
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>>34928684
>I screenshot and then crop my photos from Facebook so maybe thats why op doesn't have a timestamp...?
Oh, laziness. What an excuse.
That's no substitute for a goddamned timestamp.
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>>34928494
why dont i see any muscle then?
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>>34928684
>>34928693
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>>34928772
lol Salt Lake City
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>>34928772

>Cant pull a average Asian whore in GasLamp

breh you're never going to make it
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>>34928494
he dumped you because that was intimidating..? I mean you look good but not intimidating. maybe he was gay.
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>>34928789
never been to gaslamp
only been to pb and north park for night drinking
and north park was only for meeting up with friends to hang out
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>>34928610
>>34928684
>>34928693
>>34928737
MOAR
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>>34928746
nah. needs more fatties
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am i the only one who thinks women like these are hot, but prefers softer ones with a little more meat on their bones?
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>>34928610
Take my BWC cutie
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>>34928841
this is the most attractive one imo, both face and body
>>34928737

absolutely wouldn't mind a few kgs more though
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>>34928860
no mate
>>34928684
>>34928693
best in this thread
like a 7 or 8 irl
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>>34928880
Your opinion is wrong and bad.
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>>34928880
Too fucking skinny. Literally a skeleton
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>>34928889
youre saying the chubster with a belly crease from where her fat sits all day is better?
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>>34928899
Y E S
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>>34928810

shit is cash breh bunch of late night drunk chicks its very easy to pull one if you go, most are tourist & wanting to just whore out for a night.
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>>34928904
who would you list as a 10?
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>>34928693
UR FUCKING FINE HAHA
UR SO GOOD LOOKING
ha- fuck off attention whore scum
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>>34928912
well im austistic as fuck in a club setting
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>>34928915
Not a big fan of the 0-10 rating system. But women like this make me wanna become a hardworking member of society, build a house, breed, and have lots and lots of offspring.
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>>34928684
That pointy elbow... do not want
Eat and squat a little for fuck's sake
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>>34928932
>Not a big fan of the 0-10 rating system.
>Likes ugly fatties
I
WONDER
WHY
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>>34928932
well im asking for your 10s cause most guys can agree their 1-9 rating are similar -/+ 1
but the 10s imo are niche picks
>chubby chaser
>yellow fever
shit like that
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>>34928938
It's alright senpai. You can have all the skinny bitches. I take the high test dames.
Everyone's happy.
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>>34928530
lol. I was about to say that. And also, her torso looks like an ayyy lmao in that pic.

But she still looks good.
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What the fuck is happening with this thread
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>>34928932
yeah great, overpopulate the world with your shitty kids baked in an estrogen and glucose factory so I can have a bunch of delicate fuckboys to step on in the future.
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>>34928494
Bitch ffs. Just dress pretty and head to the nearest bar/club/library/fucking anywhere and just wait.

Droves of men will come trust me.
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>>34928947
>Everyone's happy.
Your children won't when you'll die at 50 for an heart-stroke whilst marching for fat acceptance
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>>34928955
It's 4am, girls are posting and being body positive toward one another. It's like opposite /cgl/ up in here.
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>>34928958
>>34928970
Enjoy your DYEL bro-split kids senpaitachi.
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>>34928976
>girls
Yeah sure
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>>34928984
this >>34928932
is land whale mode or borderline
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>>34928991
[spoiler]THAT'S THE JOKE[/spoiler]
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>>34928997
You wouldn't see beauty if it eyefucked you.
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>>34928984
Healthy and fit parents have healthy and fit offspring
(the one on the right is the father)
(she's 19)
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>>34928747
Genau. Wir brauchen für uns mehr türkische schlampe fotze gepoppen.
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>>34929014
hmmmm
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>>34928717
>>34928747
>>34929022
Unterschicht
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>>34929014
I really hope this is a lightning issue.
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>>34929034
Was just about to point that out. Top fucking kek dad
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>>34929008
i think you've been eyefucked by "beauty" too many times and need lasik
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>>34929040
Miron his arms but...
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>>34928448
Post pics? How much muscle are we talking about?
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>>34929024
>>34929034
>>34929040
>>34929045
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>>34928693
>face
no thanks
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>>34929068
>out-angling his own fucking daughter
>still pretty much the same leg size
>>34929045
indeed not bad, but tricep development is really lacking. Noice forearms tho
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>>34928684
>too muscular

Are you trolling?
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>>34929088
hers are pretty overdeveloped imo, plus she's probably got more adipose on her thighs. Even so, it's embarrassing having smaller legs than your female kid
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>>34929088
>>out-angling his own fucking daughter
he's always there for her
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>>34929113
>almost a half squat
NONONO people like that should not have children.
>that tilt move from 0.07 to 0.08
If that was huge weight she could have had her back snapped in seconds
holy shit what is this man teaching her?
>probably: my wife left me so I will take it out on my daughter by sending her to back-snap club
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I'm actually actively trying to make my gf insecure to make her finally commit to proper nutrition.
She lifts well, but doesn't care much about portion control.
I really want her to make it, but I'm afraid I might push her away with being a douche.
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>>34928494
That's definitely not too muscular. If you're not trolling, which is doubtful, your bf was just insecure.
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>>34929134
She was squatting 80kg, a personal record for her.
Here you can see how she squats.
By the way, she's a certified personal trainer, so I think he's just spotting her, not teaching anything any more.
Yes, he's single but he doesn't seem to be too sad for that, her daughter actively seeks new gfs for her father.
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>>34928693
You should eat and lift, girl.
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>>34928604
>Does it really intimidade guys?
Only insecure dyels. Shoulder width is mostly genetics. You won't add 10cm to it just by working out. And you thinking 6 months into training and being a woman, that your shoulders got wide is ridiculous.
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>>34929167
>her daughter actively seeks new gfs for her father.
How to get qt daughter?
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>>34929134
>Half squat
PCL forces rise consistently with every flexion angle beyond 30 degrees of knee flexion,
peaking at approximately 90 degrees, and declining significantly thereafter (10). Beyond 120 degrees, PCL forces are minimal
(12).
http://www.lookgreatnaked.com/articles/the_biomechanics_of_squat_depth.pdf
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>>34929134
>>almost a half squat
what the fuck are you saying
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>>34929196
What's PCL?
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>>34929143
Then stop being a douche. Unless she's really fat, I don't see why would you do that. Muscles + some fat give girls a great look.
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>>34929207
Posterior cruciate ligament

http://www.webmd.com/fitness-exercise/guide/knee-ligament-injuries
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>>34929199
the truth

>>34929196
Are you implying this was 90 degrees?
>>34929167
It might have been a personal record for her, but doing things like she did from 0.07-0.08 with the weight already on your shoulders is just plain out nasty dangerous.
>certified personal trainer
This means nothing, trust me. She might be a Good personal trainer (if she doesn't let her clients squat like her ofc) but just saying a personal trainer doesn't mean a lot.
> her daughter actively seeks new gfs for her father.
Damn, what a champ. Makes me want to have children one day.

Also:
>Nautilus equipment
Dang son, reminds me of temple gym everyday. Jelly
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>>34929091
I'm not op
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>>34928745
I feel sad for everyone with self esteem issues because I know that feel. I think that's why so many people numb themselves with drinking, smoking, and drugs.

Me, I have dedicated myself to a goal, I am lifting now to fight in the upcoming final crusade to rid the free world of evil muddies
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>>34928693
He didn´t break up with you because you are too muscular that is for sure. You look fine. He left you for other reason(s) which we can only speculate. With that body you can easily find a new boyfriend. Hopefully you have a good personality too.
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>>34928448
you look asian. That's gross. bye.
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>>34928610
ur not a nigger you're a no poo in loo'er
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>>34928684
>>34928693
GOMAD
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>>34929265
>He didn´t break up with you because you are too muscular that is for sure. You look fine.
You don't know that, he might have wanted a H I G H T E S T girlfriend instead
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>>34929014
girls with quads like that are just the female equivalent of curl bros
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>people falling for this bait
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>london: the thread
AMSTERDAM
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>>34929014
They look like brother and sister.
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>>34929380
I was just pointing out that she isn´t muscular as what was pointed out for being the reason for the break up. It might have been that he has an affair with some hightest or whatever.
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>>34928610
>>34928693
>>34928684
>>34928737

WAGGA WAGGA
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>>34929224
Well it's not a "half-squat", Still 2-3in lower would have been more ideal.
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>>34928544
>I am 5'8
post pics
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>>34928494
>muscular

where??
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>>34928448
You're a woman. You don't need to talk to men.
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>>34929561
You live in odd places, desu senpai.
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>>34929836
Yes she does. I have the same issue. qt face but fucking autist behaviour. Usually leads to epic fuckups.
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>>34928932
Looks like the kinda girl you wife and go camping with and disciplines the fuck out of your 9 kids.
>>ayyy mami
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>>34928932
....ew
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>>34929785
Fuck you crease of hip not lower then top of knee you are all ass backwards thats not a backsquat for depth now go unscrew yer head and get yer shit right
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>>34929880
If youre a physically above average woman you need to be really fucking autistic to get a guy to not want to fuck you
Maybe op is just ugly in the face
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>>34929113
>>34929134
That form
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>>34928494
Well those small titties are wank worthy.
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>>34931837
>really fucking autistic
Yeah.. thanks...
Maybe op should post her face so we can see.
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>>34929167
>She was squatting 80kg
Wow nothing 16 yr olds can do more.
>By the way, she's a certified personal trainer
Anyone can become one.
Small as fuck rom "lower faggot". shes alsosquatting with the bar on her neck.
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He left you because you're a chest/asslet. You weren't born with feminine features so you can just give up on getting a nice looking bf.
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>>34928448
>>34928610
>>34928684
>>34928693
>>34928737
I wish I was as tall as you all. It's so hard losing the last 10lbs when that is 9% of your body weight...
>tfw azn femlet with fat face
a..at least I can be your loli, senpai?
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>>34932661
I have good news for you, you're white
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>>34932661
Would take under wing/10
Would coerce into taking massive amount of steroids/5
Would keep in trophy case along with my other creations/43
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>>34932708
You caught me!
I'm half desu :^)
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>>34928610
OONGA BOONGA LAND
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>>34932661
That is an awful photo...
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>>34929907
Underated
Top lmao anon
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ITT - no one answering op questions
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>>34928947
you fool, there's a difference between thick/hightest and borderline obese
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>>34928610

Are you posting from Somolia?

Because you're a fucking skeleton.

Pic related, its your dad Mr skeletal.
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>>34928448
Can't relate, always been /fit. Post pics of ex-bf.
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>>34928693

BACK TO THE GRAVEYARD

HALLOWEEN ISNT FOR 350 MORE DAYS!
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>>34928693
Would call mistress and let dominate in bed
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>>34928807
cheekie will you be my gf
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ITT: Virgins derailing a thread because there are 2 or 3 autist woman are in here. dumbasses stop putting pussy on the pedestal.
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>>34928448
>you look fine o'dandy
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>>34935903
>Lotus is gay
Omg #surprised
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>>34929167
>certified pt
>that squat form
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>>34928693
O S L O
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>>34928448
woMAN
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>>34936281
Just wonder what kind of shape her ex-bf was in to think that she is too muscular for him. I support the gay community openly.
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>>34928610
Dont make that face and pose with your spread and just maybe I will think youre actually a biological female.
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>>34928880
>>34928889
wait a second WHO GOT THAT
>>34928888
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>>34928604
Honestly I find muscular girls attractive. if you're looking for a muscular dude, then keep lifting and don't worry about it. Now I'm not talking roided out obvi, but girls who lift are hot.
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>>34936272
>glassmane/10
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>>34928448
im dont even lift yet, just concentrating on losing weight. went from 25-28% bf down to about 19% right now and my gf is getting so insecure. she's a fatty and she keeps trying to lose weight with ridiculous starvation diets, which she sticks to for maybe 2 days then binges like crazy. just today she said "i'm done trying to lose weight -- at least i'm not gaining any."

she's 21 years old and has a FUPA. strongly considering breaking up with her desu.
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Led to my divorce. I lost 100 lbs, she quit after going for a month and not seeing results. I lost 4 lbs in a month and I was ecstatic, as it was following a schedule someone on /fit/ gave me for body recomp.

After I lost the first 20 lbs, she said to me in passing while I was putting on some jeans I hadn't been able to wear in a while, "Anon I'm worried you're going to Outlook me."

It didn't really hit me what she said so I just laughed and said, "Let's go get lunch."

Lost another 40 lbs and she was no longer "in the mood".

Lost another 20 and she pretty much refused to be in the same room as me, instead choosing to hang out with this dude that had bigger tits than her.

I'm not a stupid man, I knew what was going on at that point. Called her out on cheating in a bit of manipulative way, because that's how she works, and kicked her out of the house. Got piss drunk, had the best sex I'd had in years with an old fling from high school, and when I woke up I went and filed for divorce.

Once I got all of that taken care of I joined the Navy and learned a good trade and am just cruising around the world, enjoying beautiful sights and women I could only dream about before.

It gets better.

And to that one /fit/izen that responded to my thread with encouragement and said I had potential... thanks man. You kept me from doing some stupid shit, and kept me on the right path. I owe all the good things I've experienced in the past few years to you.

/fit/, remember this, your posts and words do have power. Being encouraging to some random fatty could have an amazing impact on their life. Think about it next time you're about to shit post someone's thread about self improvement. Because some random person on this board saved my life, and I doubt they'll ever know.
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>>34937780
Do you have many male friends interested in fitness? If not, get some. Do group exercises outside of just lifting weights, some of my best bonding experiences have been doing 3 mile runs with a 45 lb sandbag resting on my shoulders screaming about my cheating ex wife while all my Bros cheered me on and told me not to give up.
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>>34937884

i want to believe :')

power to you anon
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>>34937906
Here's a photo of me and her, can't really see how fat I was, but I was 240 in this photo, heaviest I got was 260.
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>>34937943
heh
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>>34937906
And here's me after dropping down to 160 and then putting muscle up to 180 in the navy. Not a shirtless shot, but you can tell there's a difference. Also, family photo, I'm in the middle
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>>34937963
damn son great progress.
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>>34937980
Thanks m80
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>>34937943
you on the right or left?
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>>34937884

Dude, I feel my marriage is going the same way. I've lost 60lbs this year, gotten some nice gains on the way. Wife is always bitching about my diet or how much I train etc. Always making these vicious comments and being generally insecure as fuck.

"Yea, like you're gonna want me after you start looking like a greek god"

"I bet you're gonna just dump me and get someone younger"

"I bet those bitches at your work love how you look"

"I think you're just trying to prove something with your training and shit"

And one time, after she asked me how much I'm going to be cutting and I answered that after I get visible abs I'm prolly gonna lean bulk, she asked in a pissed off tone: "Yeah, what are you gonna do with abs? Who the fuck are you trying to impress?"

Also we haven't had sex in a few months bc she "Doesn't like sex anymore" which is fine by me bc shes really letting herself go, doesn't shave or take care of herself anymore.. That and the bitchiness is making her very unappealing.

Would divorce, but hey, kids. So waddaya gonna do.
Maybe just get some 19yr old cardio bunny to pump on the side and see what happens, I dunno.
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>>34929068
Dear lord someone needs to swap their legs
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>>34938022
Kek. Left

>>34938033
Have you tried taking her with you? Making it a fun couple's thing? I know I used it as me time after unsuccessfully trying to get her to start coming with me again, but try and exhaust all of those options. And since you got kids dude, I'd recommend some couple's counselling. For some reason when we're in a relationship with someone we can't say the things that truly matter unless it's to someone else.
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>>34937963
Nice mate you are living my dream.
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>>34938085

Yea, I've tried, she doesn't want to go to the gym. She just doesn't like it. Not interested in any kind of sports or exercise.
She has an aversion to anything I'm remotely interested in.
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>>34938136
Three options.

>counseling
>divorce
>wait it out

I'd go for waiting it out a bit, since this is a relatively new change for you she's still adjusting, albeit in a horrifically bitchy way.

>>34938131
Get to it man
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>>34938033
theres feels hidden in your response here. Its why we all post to this anonymous image board b/c we can say how we truly feel with no repercussions. What you might want to try is discover the feelings that caused you to write this post and talk to your wife about. Thats not to say tell her you think shes letting herself go and needs to shave, rather tell her the feeling behind that. It sounds like you are worried/upset that she is becoming this way? And half-kidding/joking about having an affair on the side is not the right answer and you know this. For the sake of your kids and the continuation of your marriage, please put some effort into resolving the issue.
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>>34938033
just get a side piece man
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>>34937339
>based oldmanglsman
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>>34928693

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>>34938170

Shit mang, you're right about the feels, it kills me that the woman I loved enough to marry and have kids with doesn't appreciate me enough to at least be happy for me getting healthier.

Our marriage has been declining since we had our first kid tbqh. I started to finally deal with my shitty childhood and find ways to get over it, she wasn't interested when I tried to talk about it, so I had to deal with it alone.

Its the same thing with everything in life, its normal for parents to shift their focus from their spouse to their children, and somewhat ignore the actual marriage, but she has taken it to new heights.

I've tried talking to her, I've lost count of the times I've set up a "lets sit down and discuss the shit going on" -sessions. Always end up with her brushing me off and changing the subject.

I guess this whole bitchiness about me getting fit is just a new symptom of a disfunctioning marriage. It's not like I haven't already been putting effort into this... I guess I still kinda love her and hope it'll work out but I'm starting to doubt that.

Thanks for reading my blog, be sure to upboat and subscribe to candito training.
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>>34938085
>Have you tried taking her with you?
Anyone who says this has never been married, has likely never had a girlfriend, and might not have ever spoken to a real live woman
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>>34938159
>I'd go for waiting it out a bit, since this is a relatively new change for you she's still adjusting, albeit in a horrifically bitchy way.
Fuck off m8.
Take her aside, and tell her straight. No if's, butt's, maybe's; tell her you're unhappy with the state of the relationship. Tell her why. Tell her you're better and she know's it. And tell her if she doesn't quict the attitude and start improving now you're worried you'll have to do some "serious thinking about our future and the future of our child".
Giver her six months, then apply for divorce OR tell her you'll stay with her only if you can bang other women.
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>>34928693
SS + GOMAD
Thank you hungry skelly
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>workout
>eat well
>skin routine
>read good books
>good job

but now
>want to go out and meet girls/guys at bars/clubs to network and expand network

gf hates it. I don't care.

Do you /fit/ don't let anyone stand in your way.
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>>34937884
im glad you made it man
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>>34928448
If my boyfriend did that then I'd probably start wearing booty shorts to the gym.
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>>34928448
Pic plz
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>>34928737
Looking
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I just got back from jiu jitsu and have testosterone pumping through me. I'm horny as fuck. Screw you qts posting in your underwear.
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>>34928693

B A T A C L A N
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>>34928737
Disgusting body.
>>34928610
UGLY face.
>>34928684
>>34928693
7/10
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>>34928448
It seems unlikely that was the only or the real reason.
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>>34935901
Watch your mouth, white boy. Plus it's Somalia not somolia
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>>34928693
certified qt3.14
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>>34928448
>woman
>having to to talk to men
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>>34928610
DINDU
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Just lost my virginity last week, here we go

>>34928448
Very meh

>>34928610
Repulsive

>>34928684
>>34928693
Would ask to stick a finger up my ass/10

>>34928737
Average

>>34928932
That chick is way too fat to have those itty bitty titties

>>34932661
Below avg
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>>34932661
shame about your teeth
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>>34931837
This. When guys see cute girls act autistic they think it's adorable as fuck.
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>>34941877

DOOT DOOT DOOTY

BLOW YOUR HORN MS SKELTAL
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>>34936845
>what is human pattern recognition tuned for and what is machine pattern recognition tuned for
If you knew a thing or two about pattern recognition, you would know that the argument you present is void due to the basis the two different pattern recognition machines are based on.
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>>34938033
these posts remind me of American Beauty so much desu
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>>34938852
It's too early for the ultimatum. If he's serious about saving the marriage then he needs to try some other stuff before he nukes it.

>>34938033
You're already fit and she's noticing; that's good. Now start building a social life outside of her. Say once a week you go hang out with some guy friends at a bar. If she asks you just say "going out with the guys". If she presses further, you repeat "i told you, i'm going out with the guys". Nothing else. She already thinks you might get some other girl, so the idea here is by building a social life that she's not privy to, she'll put the idea into her own head that you're out with other women. She'll respond one of two ways: sex will either be back on the table, or she'll accuse you of cheating. If it's the latter, then just tell her she's being silly and keep doing what you're doing.

Point is, the reason she's lazy and not fucking you is because she doesn't have to. You've proven to her that she doesn't have to contribute to the relationship to get you to stay. You need to show her that you can have a life away from her because that cause her to put the idea of you being wanted by other women into her own head, at which point she'll step her game up instead of risking losing you.

It's manipulative as fuck, but let's be honest here: it's not like she told you on your wedding day that she'd stop fucking you on the regular after your first kid, so you're just driving on a two-way street.
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plz be in london
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