>tfw you begin catching women stare at you
>mfw turn away pretend I didnt notice
>imagine flirting with them
>cant wake up
>>34906972
Mostly just ugly girls for me
>you can't tell if they're staring at you because they think you're attractive or just because you look weird
>they still stare nonetheless
>>34906995
>not sleeping with them anyway
>>34906986
>>34907016
r u me
I feel like girls try hard to NOT look at me, like I have a deformity or something. I don't think I'm too weird looking so I don't know.
>>34906986
i then smile while staring at the wall and I know they're feeling embarrassed af
>>34907045
same. its only gay men and fat chicks for me.
>18
>still can't tell if a woman is flirting or just being nice
JUST
>>34906972
>be fat most of my life
>Left alone by everyone. Literally only spoke to my family
>Make the change starting last year
>Cut 145 pounds off me through food restrictions, running, biking, lifting and swimming. Maintain at 140 pounds
>Spring of this year comes
>Weather is warm now, get off the treadmill and go for runs every day
>People smile and engage me in conversation whenever I pass them by
>Between May and September I am stopped 47 times and asked for directions.
>Have a truck full of qt country girls pull over to the side of the road just to ask if I'll be at the river this summer
>Car full of gays honking as I run "Nice ass!"
>Have a dozen times where men and women have pulled over and asked if I would like a ride even if I'm clearly running.
>No longer drive to get my groceries, so I'm making frequent trips every other day.
>Cashiers are no longer keeping their interactions with me at a limit. Even the smallest of comments I make gets giggles and fluttering eyes.
tfw I do not know what to do about all this social interaction. I still feel like the awkward as fuck fat guy inside. I'm hoping I'm getting better at it though.
>>34907016
They're probably trying to figure out the same thing you are
>>34906972
Has nothing to do with their level of attraction towards you. I bet men and grannies stare at you just as much. Some people are more interesting to look at than others, can be anything from how you dress to your veiny biceps. Unless they hit on you, it means nothing.
>>34907132
Mirin that progress
Are you handsome tho? Because just not being fat shouldnt give you that many mires
/fit/ please help me with this problem, after going from an obese turbo-manlet to a well-built normal sized young man i often get mires. this is great and all but i have no idea what to do about this attention,flirtatious behavior and what not... i was always friendzoned as a fat kid or made fun of so im still autistic when it comes to females.
srs help? does it just take time?
>>34907132
>Between May and September I am stopped 47 times and asked for directions.
Anywhere else I would assume this was just a hyperbole.
>>34907132
do u run with a shirtoff during the middle of the day?
i bet u do.
>>34907214
>does it take time
yes, but it might never happen ever.
Basically you've just gotta jump in the deep end so to speak.
Im two years in and its never happened.
Im going on another bulk fuck this
>>34907192
I have no idea if I look good. I always avoided mirrors because I assumed I was ugly or whatever and even to this day I still struggle to look at myself for any decent length. I keep myself groomed and try to dress well, but honestly I don't own a camera... or anything to take pictures for judgement.
>>34907224
Yeah, I kept a count because it was getting over the top. That was when I was counting.
>>34907227
Never done that. I still have a couple noticeable stretch marks that I got when I was 15 a decade before the weigh loss even happened which I am trying to minimize. Far too shy to run shirtless.
>>34907255
That was when I was counting, in the preceding winter-spring I was being stopped, so I started keeping a count.
>>34907255
Post pic Anon.
>>34906972
>tfw receding hairline at 21
>tfw no amount of aesthetics will make up for my 40 year old hair
>>34907132
>qt asks for directions
>immediatly forget all geographical knowledge
>just mumble something about not knowing
>run away
Send help
>>34907132
>Have a dozen times where men and women have pulled over and asked if I would like a ride even if I'm clearly running.
Is this a real thing? I can't believe how lazy Amerifags are. As a Europoor shit like this never happens, where I am running is extremely common.
>>34906995
Stepping stones, lad
>>34906972
>tfw you begin catching men stare at you
>>34907911
>>tfw you begin catching men stare at you
>>34907132
I hope they arent pulling over to offer you a lift because you're one of those weirdos who runs in dress pants or some shit
>>34906972
>tfw you begin catching women stare at you
The difference between muscle twink and buff roider is pic related
>>34907214
I don't understand people like you. When I was younger I got made fun of, beat up, friend zoned, you name it. The complete recipe according to you guys for becoming an "autist". I learned from my mistakes. I learned how to laugh off the teasing and give it right back, I signed up for self defense karate, I stopped being overly nice to women.
When these things happen to you guys do you just think everyone else is the problem and just lock yourself in your room? I mean what the fuck? You thought "I don't like this, I'm going to make sure it doesn't happen ever again"
>>34908552
No, I have gear.
>>34908651
>Stopped being overly nice yo women
>Not being overly nice to all of humanity so you get this friendly aura where nobody dislikes you and even the ones you thought "meh" you talk nicely at your back
>Being free to just hate somebody but engage in social interactions because it will always serve best to wathever cause
Being alpha it´s not about making yourself alpha, it´s making always the best for you and transforming into the general wellbeing.
Also being nurse helps with this.
>>34907016
If you are weird they won't stare.Trust me on that one.Don't be so hard on yourself you got others for that.
>>34906972
How?
I never make eye contact with wimminz.
Too risky 2bh
>tfw senior in HS
>i catch girls staring at me all the time
>i'm in the process of cutting and still fat currently
>some of them even start conversations with me
>i'm too autismo to approach
What do? I have crippling social anxiety do to my fatness yet people say I have the face of a model all the time. How do I into approaching grills?
>talking to girl way out of league at uni dining hall
>she says something that sounds like the end of the conversation
>don't say anything
>she repeats it
>say ok
>tfw unsure if she wanted to talk to me more
>>34907911
>tfw you begin catching yourself staring at men
>>34909659
what did she tell you?
>>34909646
do they know you or what?
Doesn't really matter what you say.If they like you they'll like you.Though too much spaghetti is bad.
>last night at smallish get together with bros
>bi dude and this one qt start touchin my abs and mirin
>later on a different qt says 'holy crap look at his forearms'
>>34909697
we were talking about her getting something and she was like "all right, i'll let you know if i do!"
the whole conversation just had a weird vibe desu senpai
> Wearing glorious tight tshirt
> Talking with collegue on friday evening
> Going to a friend's birthday in the gay area of the town afterwards
> Say something alongside the lines of "I hope not too many dudes hit on me tonight"
> She says "With that shirt I'd be careful if I were you"
> I ask what's wrong with my shirt
> She says "N-nothing" and looks away smiling
> Later that night she's tipsy and keeps making comments about my pecs and not too flex too much
> I still go to that bday
> Get approached by a guy telling me how his gf wanted to know if I was bi
> Proposes a threesome
> I look around and can't find his apparent gf anywhere
> N-no homo
>>34909747
Oh yeah forgot to add, those were my first real mire ever. Like damn it felt good. I've had some friends comment on progress before, but never a mire from someone I didn't know. Felt fucking G R E A T
>>34907612
Just fucking shave it, grow a beard, and get jacked
>>34907132
>Weighs 140 lbs
>Mired that much
How? Are you like 5'8 and manage to actually look somewhat big?
>>34909787
did u fug right? you walkin' boypussi
>>34909854
Lol I'm 5,5 @ 160lb and only started looking buff, guy is either twink or turbo-midget
>>34907132
>tfw I'm so hardcore when I notice people giving me friendly micro expressions I can shut them down immediately and make them not want to talk to me without saying much
Avpd for years, son
>the first time you pick a girl up by the pussy and tits then jerk her over your head
Feels good brehs
>>34909771
Jesus you're an autist.
>tfw went out drinking at the pub last night and drank 7 beers 2 hours after squatting
I used to get mires all the time for my facial aesthettcs but now I never do. I don't understand what's changed. I weigh the same. I'm only 26 so not exactly past it
>notice grills staring
>notice guys glaring at me
>no one talks to me
>never go out of my way to interact with people at gym
>one day older man comes up to me starts saying how i look like a top tier athlete and how he wishes he could set me up with his niece.
that actually really helped desu senpai idk why.
I find that the bigger I get and the "better looking" I get, more and more of my male acquaintances who I used to have small chat with have stopped talking to me all together. Jelly haters?
>>34906972
>be qt grill sitting in class
>suddenly feel someone's eyes on me from the side of class
>look to see who it is
>it's that weird ugly dude who recently lost a bunch of weight
>he quickly looks down at the table with some weird satisfied grin like i was checking him out
>mfw
>>34909582
I never considered this. Is it true?
>>34909937
>picking up a girl and jerking her off over your head
>>34910289
No. I do this.
Guys, where do you find girls?
Tinder seems like a shit option 2bh
>went to gym before class acquired pump legs and shoulders
>one gay ass class the whole day
>walking to car after class like a fucking mile away because lol parking spots
>lrgs pump plus tight joggers which are basically leggings for men and you can show off legs gains without being labeled a faggot makes legs look musucularand skinny imo
>pass by athletic blond qt that is taller than me
>she looks me in the eys and smiles
>glance at her and smile a little say nothing and keep walking
>imagine cuddling next to her in bed
>imagine life together
>imagine what our kids would look like
>can't talk to anyone because 100% aspie with conversations
>even have some stories I can share from work if you guys ewant
>jdimsa
>>34910048
Post pic
>>34910170
Kek
>>34907108
No fats just gays for me.
>been catching looks for the past few months
>decide to go full cocoon mode for a few months
>shave head as a way to remind myself of dedication to cocoon mode and to just focus on bettering myself for a bit
>suddenly catching even more stares and mires
god dammit
>>34910404
Please share
>>34909542
I really don't give a shit if I'm "alpha" or not. All I'm saying is if something bothers you, fix it. Don't sink farther down into your bullshit
>>34909854
>>34909904
I'm not buff, I'm somehwat bordering between skeleton and swimming/running. I don't imagine they'll be impressed if they see me without a shirt on or anything. It's just a sudden upswing in attention that caught me off guard.
I guess it helps that my area is packed to the brim with fat rednecks who let themselves go by my age, and so I look better in comparison.
>b-but they l-look at me now
>all that l-lifting finally paying off h-hehe
Spoken like a true beta. If girls aren't starting conversations or hollering at you or trying to find just any excuse to get closer to you at least as a weekly occurence (because a lot of them are indeed beta themselves, but they have a vagina for an excuse unlike you..) you're not that attractive.
Approach them or stay virgin.
>>34910404
I have a lot but not sure which ones you will like
>work with around 30 females on an everyday basis at an upscale restaurant
>uniform is a tuxedo so don't really get any mires at all until I get a fresh hair cut which is when my facial aesthetics look good in, still kind of ugly from the side but from the front I look great
>nothing to do so basically just standing around and cleaning some things
>one specific day this girl comes up to me at least 20 seperate times across the whole day while I'm alone or talking to my friend
>always tries to start a conversation or something but I don't know how to talk to females
>either mumble something or say something that is just agreeing with her like "ha-ha yeah" or ignore her and keep talking to my friend
>later overhear her say to the same friend I ignored her for the whole time "I don't fucks with anon" (nigger talk for he's not cool or something)
Jokes on her because she's a dark skin Spanish and is objectively ugly compared to all the polish/italian other girls that work there I didn't spill spaghetti but I still had nothing to say
>tfw can only talk about work and sports
>and women don't talk about sports
>>34910629
I also work with almost exclusively women, I don't get how you can work with them daily and not know how to talk to them. They're just people bro.
How often do you jerk it to any of them?
>>34907016
>tfw
I need to see a therapist about this. I overhear girls whispering about me occasionally, it's both negative and positive, but when it's negative it's always that I look angry or stiff, which I do because I'm always worrying about why people are staring at me and what they are whispering to each other.
>>34910678
Every now and then like once a week or month
Some hotter girls at my uni that I prefer thpugh
>walking down a narrow hallway where we store plates and shit
>walking behind polish girl
>she just slows up to block my path
>just slightly push her forward to keep walking
>she eventually kind of trust falls and I catch her
>"shit did I make you trip"
>"no" and giggles and we go on with our day
>>34910422
not posting pic. maybe it's my angry depressed eyes. or shitty clothes.
>>34910370
Suck less at it. I'd have fugged 1/4 the women I have without that wonderful app
>>34907016
I mean I love weird people so of course I'm going to look at them. I know this is /fit/ but it's still 4Chan. If someone is staring right at you, I definitely think it indicates interest. Good or less so.
>>34909606
Catch them looking. Women try to be sneaky so don't be too obvious and you will notice it more. Lots of side glances and peak sneaking. Don't just stare, smile or do something once you get that bit of tension. It's important to do something even if it's subtle. This is important if you want to talk to them later.
>tfw chicks at rowing club mire me when going shirtless in the boat, even though i'm DYEL
I even caught a chick who I used to have a crush on stare at me, from the other side of the road.
>>34906972
>been going to the gym for a month now
>trainer asked what I wanted and I said I wanted to look like Ryu
>took me seriously and has me lifting hardcore
>nothing but chicken, rice, and veggies
>was a skelly when I started
>already starting to have my shirts feel snug
>mfw girls are more polite to me and stare at me sometimes
>mfw this is just the beginning
>>34910170
WHY
WHY DESTROY OUR DREAMS
>>34909669
kek
Been lifting for 3 months and definitely caught girls mirin a couple times
bitch i'm just starting, normies are easily impressed
>>34912678
fuck yeah bro, 3 months old here too. Same thing happening.
>Been lifting for 4 month now
>Been doing No Fap for 3 months
>I'M A FUCKING ANIMAL
>Catch girls staring, stare back as in my eyes, there is nothing wrong in eye fucking them
>Example went Tesco Express for grocery shopping, some qt in glasses is there with her mother
>She's 5'3 probably so she has to look up to me
>Catch her eye in the frozen section, kept eye contact until she walked by
>Catch her eye again in the Cereal section, this time she smirks, whilst walking past
>Tfw I didn't do shit
>>34906972
> Even if they were I wouldn't notice because I'm an oblivious shitbag.
>>34907108
me too. d-did we make it, bros?
>>34909669
>>34910442
are you me
>>34910629
Nigger talk for he's not cool or something?
Nahh boy It means she doesn't talk or associate herself wit you... White boy lmao
>>34907045
post a pic
>>34913282
Good.
>>34907016
They won't stare at you if you're weird.
They are mirin.
>>34907132
You fucking made it brah
Happy for you
>see girls looking at me
>don't do anything
>kinda wish they were looking at me in disgust, at least that way I wouldn't be missing out on loads of opportunities
>>34910170
MY DREAMS!!!!
>>34912860
Tesco masterace reporting in.
Fuck sainsburys
>be ottermode
>Still ugly as fuck so women don't even look at you
>>34906972
>>34907911
>>34909669
>tfw you begin catching government agencies staring at you because you left humanity behind
>>34909646
>people say I have the face of a model all the time
don't believe that shit.
girls have a limited vocabulary, so the only word that comes to their ind when they see an attractive guy is "cute".
hes so handsome or he looks like a model is shit they hear from their older peers so they say those things to be nice.
>>34907125
if they work at mcdonalds or w/e then they're just being nice
>>34914125
Wow... That's actually true asf. Didn't really think of it til now.
>be handsome and tall ottermode
>women look at me and then play with their hair
its qt
>>34907132
You live in a place people really values looking good and working out, and that's great
>running, biking, lifting and swimming.
how do you even have the time?
>>34910727
same here..
i have that thing where anytime i hear or see someone laughing, i automatically thinking about them mocking or shitting on me.
>be in 7th grade
>mention to one girl in my class about the name of the girl i really liked
>she gasped and rushes over to hear
>i look away like i dont care
>i can hear them talking tho
>"her anonette, is there a boy that you like?"
>"yeah, why?" my heart began to beat really fast
>"is it anon(me)?"
>"EWW NO!!"
>the other girl laughed and laughed, and the girl i liked joined in
>i stared at my desk for hours, devoid of all emotions
it was then that my confidence began to plummet. 21 yo ugly virgin who thinks about blowing his brains out every other night
>>34914275
Are you me?
>Be constantly bullied as a kid, looked like Neville.
>8th grade give Christmas gift to a girl secret Santa shit always set up in class.
>She dumps it in the trash cos it's from me.
>Just loose hope.
>Find /fit/ many years later loose all weight, get shredded at 24.
>Unable to get close to any other human being, since i am still a fat insecure kid deep inside.
>3 years latter still Kissless Virgin who wants to hang himself.
>start of cycle 10/29/2015
>157 lbs
>now
>144 lbs
Fuck
At least i have abs now whatever
5'9 turbomanlet skeleton btw
>>34914557
Shit meant to post in dnp thread
>>34912860
I too enjoy eye fucking women
>>34910736
You're over thinking things you autist. Just go with the spic. Seems like the best chance you got.
>tfw you catch a girl staring at you
>you smile and hold eye contact for a moment
>she smiles and you start talking
guys I'm making it
>>34914275
Same thing happened to me in 6th grade
You will make it brah
>>34912176
>i want to look like Ryu
fucking kek nice breh
>>34912176
>tfw I asked fit how to look like Sagat
>all they said was to shave my head and run a hot spoon across my chest while lifting trees
can you get me your trainers number, he sounds legit
>Tfw supervisor dies of pneumonia
>go to his wake with coworkers
>his wife approaches us and thanks us for coming to pay our respects
>share our memories of her husband with her
>she starts to cry
>starts touching my pecks for some odd reason
>tell her I'm there for her if she needs anything
>continues randomly brushing my chest with her fingers while telling how nice it'd be to have a strong guy help her around the house with some chores before winter comes.
>Tfw it's giving me a hard on in the middle of a room full of people that are mourning
>Tfw his wife is 64
>solid
>>34914987
Yeah dude, I said it as a joke, and he was just like, "Alright, let's go."
Been lifting ever since, and I like the results so far.
>>34915003
[spoiler]I could give you the number of the gym but unless you live in Texas, it wouldn't do you much good. They only train if you can go there.[/spoiler]
>>34909669
>>34915074
she killed her husband
don't fall for it
>>34915087
i don't actually want the number, it was just a joke about how I wish I had your opportunity
>>34915118
O-oh.
>normally dress in clothes which don't enhance gains at all and since i'm unemployed right now (feels) i never style my hair. when i walk around like this, most girls actively try not to look my way.
but when i wear revealing clothes and style my hair i get near constant staring and miring and the occasional arm squeeze in bars/clubs. glad to know that my recent gains are paying off in this way.
>>34915087
>and he was just like, "Alright, let's go."
People like that are rare these days.
>>34915174
I've known him for a few years now, and he's pretty fucking cool. Married this Hawaiian chick, and she's badass. Wrecked this feminist's ass one time in an argument too. Dude's built like Broly though, goddamn.
>>34914144
you're saying the qt3.14 at bk is just being nice to me?
>meet up with my best friend
>his gf tags along
>gives me a hug and then squeezes my arm for a while
>throughout the night she keep doing this as well as rubbing my back
>mutual friend is a gay dude
>always talks about my arms and says he's gonna take me to my first gay bar
Am I making it or something?
>>34915277
I'd think so m8, but don't let your boys succubus try to tear you apart. She's a gains goblin and she's gonna steal your gains by ripping you two apart and then you'll have noone to spot you.
>>34915277
>>34915333
Yup, bros b4 hoes
>>34914259
In the summer and spring I made time, now not so much.
>>34907132
post pic of face and bod. please anon i need to see
>>34909646
post pic
>walking to supervisor to give a small briefing
>dude that I havent seen in awhile is there with him
>giving the brief as normal, reporting shit
>suddenly the dude stops me
>damn nigga you been workin out?
>uh yeah
>dude you're massive, you were a twig last time I saw you
making it
>>34909787
solid
>>34906972
>tfw when your crush stares at you and you catch her
>tfw when you stare at your crush and she catches you
>tfw when you now both give awkward stares then looking down when ever you pass each other at work.
>>34910170
>Be qt grill in class.
>start the post office with self gratification.
Can't be London cuz not even a male anon isn't that vain.
>>34913282
Similar shit
I just interperated it as salt because she still tries talking to me
>>34914867
Chance at what? Not a virgin just an aspie alcohol fixed that shit up
I'm tfwngf also partly because I'm extremely picky on top of not having anything to say
>>34915277
Gay dude has a gf?
>>34906972
>grills avoid eye contact
>seem to avoid me in general
I am become Frankenstein's monster.
>>34906972
>>tfw you begin catching guys staring at you
>>34907045
Smile faggot
>>34906972
>mfw 5'6 manlet
I will never know that feeling.
>>34910149
Yes. Move on.
Unless you've turned into an arrogant beta, who Noone wants to be around
>>34907132
I know how you feel brah.
I still feel like the 130 pound skelly
yet I am built 170.
>>34920690
How did you do it. How did you get bigger. Please help me.
>>34914383
Are you the grinch?
>>34919928
Not with that attitude you fucking faggot
