Both in fitness and in life?
When I finally open my own sports performance facility and can coach full time rather than do personal training on the side
>qt gf
>stable satisfying job
>time for hobbies
> 190 lb 10% bf
That's it
There is always something to work on, so you've never truly made it and the ride never ends.
But even if you could make it and be done with it all and magically maintain it would you? of course not, it will always be your set.
When I have female friends who aren't my male friends girlfriends but actually like me personally for me.
I will probably kill myself before it happens
when the rest of my love handles melt off and i finish up my arm sleeves. other than that i just want to be happy, don't care about gf or jobs or anything at the moment
>>34854455
>>34854426
dis
>>34854384
>fitness
When I can The Press for 225lbs, been trying to do this for years. Getting closer slowly but surely
>life
When I have a successful business and a gf that I love
>>34854491
>Bench 2pl8
>10% bf
> 8/10 qt3.14 gf
> Financial stability
Have a relationship with a girl who loves me.
I'm still working towards that but in the meantime time to get fit.
I don't want the person I love to see my fucking red tomato face during sex.
>>34854521
>8/10
>settling for less than a 10
you can do it anon, don't sell yourself short in a fantasy, jesus christ
>>34854521
this desu senpai
When I can look in a mirror without being disgusted. Probably never.
>>34854517
>>34854574
I think I've become too accustomed to the feeling of self-hate.
literally just being happy and being able to be independent with no problems
at this point I just want friends. I have a few friends, but they either live in a different city or they have a wife and kids. I never knew being alone would feel so bad.
2pl8 bench 4 pl8 dl
10% bf or visible abs
6.5 inch dick (I do pe)
Finally have a good haircut
Qt desired but not required
>>34854384
>Life
When I earn my Age x 5 in wages.
>Fitness
When I earn enough money to get the gyno removed and have a body that doesn't look "Average" when on holiday in America.
>>34854865
Love is an important part of happiness you mong
Whenever i will master self-sufficiency on every level
Atm i estimate i'd survive about 3h in the wild. Pretty good if you ask me
>>34854384
You'll never make it. Nobody will. There's always mountains to climb and goals to achieve. Never settle.
>get professorship
>get tenure
>have something named after me
Being in graduate school pretty much crushed these dreams.
>tfw I'll never be the next Witten
>>34854384
>front lever
>earning above £60k
>qt GF/wife
>genuinely happy
when
>I'm so good at something people will want to pay good money for my time AKA when I get a degree and a real job
>I'm interesting and attractive enough to make people like talking to me
>I have the ability to be social and make friends like a normal person
>>34854384
When I stop hating myself.
>>34855434
4974
When I hit 83 kg ;_;
>>34854384
>a job that is enough to get me to live comfortably
>family
>hobbies
>fit
never bothered with this gf thing for the past 20 years and cant really see it changing
>>34854574
>>34854517
>>34854491
>>34854686
>>34855434
>>34855466
>>34854426
T H I S T B H
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>>34855516
having a gf is a meme t bh
the only real answer https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hedonic_treadmill
>>34854426
solid, achievable goals.
>>34854426
This
>>34854992
loving yourself is.
not relying on the way your companion makes u feel
when i don't want to die every day
>>34855790
This man, how does one let go of the feels and transcend humanity? I dont like these feels bro's...
When I can finally be happy with myself and not feel nothing but anger and hatred towards myself.
I don't care about life anymore to be honest. I'll ship out for Hospital Corpsman in the Navy in May, and hopefully become a combat medic. From there, I can hopefully die in combat saving other people's lives.
Otherwise, I have nothing to come home to
>lose gut
>get 3.14 gf
>financially stable job
>finally love myself
In all honesty ill pretty much happy if i just lose my gut. Maybe then i can actually love myself enough to get a gf.
>>34856275
Fucking gut is so difficult to get rid of. Mine is very resistant to abs.
>Fitness
When I can make a girl cum 7 consecutive times. Current is 5.
>Life
When I get a male friendbro
>>34854455
I think the same, won't have my dream job due to debts and crisis...therefore i can't have a real women to have a life...
At least i'm good at lifting and mentally aware of world/life afairs.
>>34856308
Im skinny fat, but it just bothers me so much. Trying to get rid of the love handles are also difficult. These two things bring my self esteem down severely.
>when everyone mirin
>breaking deadlifts goal of 650 (and seeing how much farther I can go)
>when my wife decides to hit the gym and stop being lazy
>look great naked
>>34854384
>married a year
>fit and get told by dudes and girls, old and young
>doing great financially with 80g's in the bank and growing every week
>own my own house , car etc.. car paid off house isn't
I wouldn't say ive made it as of yet due to still having some debt in terms of a mortgage and still having goals and aspirations. For a 28 year old though.....I think im ahead of the game and on the way to becoming a truly free man.
Don't get it wrong though people, no matter where you are in life there are always stresses and turmoil..... to truly have made it is to adapt a mindset of such...
Making it is a state of mind not a state of being.
>>34854384
right now ive made it
feels great
when i get hired as a bouncer
>in marriage with beautiful, loving wife
>two gorgeous children
>own multi million dollar business started from scratch
>essentially debt free
>bench 435
>still feel inadequate
I don't know bros, sometimes I still don't feel like I've made it.
>>34856385
It's even worse for skinnyfats because you are relatively small all over and you've got a protruding beer belly out of nowhere that fucks your proportions
>>34856577
much worse when you're a manlet
>>34854384
I'm pretty close. I just got my first real job post grad school, I'll be debt free in about two to three months, and the girls are mirin my body hard, and I'm decently strong and losing fat consistently.
>confident enough to take off shirt in public
>obtaining an attractive girlfriend who lifts
>get side job doing some sort of modelling
>general all-round feeling of satisfaction with my body and life
I know none of this will be attainable for maybe 3-4 years, but I know the time will come.
Don't give up on your dreams guys.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-HdW0AFWIZc
>Reaching my natty limit with a 10% bf
>having at least 100 million
>speaking 5 languages
>moving to some nice 1st world country(srsly fuck brazil)
>making good social gainz
>Finally speak seven languages (learning fourth)
>not hate myself everytime i look in the mirror (Skinnyfat is hell on earth)
>Get enough money to finally work with somenthing i love without worrying about money(either open a jazz cafe/bar or get a farm and play with blacksmith)
>>34856817
>moving to some nice 1st world country(srsly fuck brazil)
also this, brazil is a shithole
>>34854438
This bth senpai.
>>34854438
Not everyone has BDD.
For instance, I'd be more than happy with sticking to maintenance with this.
>>34854455
When I can look in the mirror and be happy with just maintaining it instead of getting bigger
Goodness fucking gracious. Stop with these shitty cancerous feels thread. Get the fuck out of here with your depression. If you have depression then go seek therapy and stop shitting this board with your "feels".
Physically 160lbs like 10% fat
When I'm officially independent, and have a stable income, and never ever ever wait on tables ever in my fucking life ever again
>>34857651
>>34854384
When im 200lbs at 10% bf and have 23 inch shoulders
>>34857787
How about you kill yourself you self loathing faggot?
>>34854384
>in fitness
when i look and the mirror and like what i see
>in life
when i no longer need the gym and have a stable job with my hun
tfw i look like i've been in cryogenic storage compared to all my friends because i've been sick and basically in bed for 2 years
>>34854384
When my parent retire without a care in the world.
When they are proud of me.
When I can go to bed without needing to distract my self from my own self loathing thoughts.
when i get a girlfriend and look like christian guzman desu senpai
When I look like I lift with clothes on.
When I'm a successful freelancer.
>when you're finally happy
>job that pays for my own house
>aesthetic enough to pull sluts easily
Pretty much that's it
>>34854384
>Run a 5k (had achilles and knee injuries)
>Move out of my house, live on my own
>Pay back my student loans
>Find a consistent hobby
>Continue exercising for next year
Just some short term goals for 2016, although paying my student loans off will take longer.
So I've been going to the uni therapist for a few months. She has asked me if I ever thought about being on meds. I've kinda wondered if my life would have been better if I was on pills, so I made an appointment to see a doctor.
Do any of you guys take meds just to feel normal? How has it helped/fucked up your life?
>>34854749
>(I do pe)
Any luck so far?
>>34854426
thick. solid. tight
>>34854749
>>34858874
Is that penis extensions?
>>34854384
When I can finally make myself do something again.
>>34858873
I do.
It's still up and down, but I mostly avoid staying in bed for 3 days at a time.
>>34859009
What do you take?
>>34854384
When I was a kid I loved playing football(soccer for muricans). I moved to other house in other part of city and stopped playing it. Never trained at a club.
I realized that's the only thing that I ever liked to do. I'm 21 now going to college and not doing so well, have no hobbies nor social life. I spend my time on 4chan.
I'm too old now to really make it.
When I'm fit enough and rich enough to find a girl that sees past my shitty height and face genetics.
>>34854574
>>34854686
>>34855434
yeah I feel those...
I have other goals, but the criterion for making it is being genuinely happy
>>34854384
>Fitness
I want to complete an iron man someday
>Life
When I'm happy
When I no longer feel the need to apologize for my existence.
>>34859434
Its only a problem if you make it into a problem senpai
>>34854384
>fitness
Look like I lift, get mired, be a big guy for you, etc.
>life
Making around/over $100k, enjoy my job, own a house/apt, be happy in relationship
>Health in order
>175, 10% bf
>Don't feel self-conscious anymore
>Well paying, stable job
>Actual female companionship with qt
>Fitness
5 plate deadlift, 4 plate squat, 3 plate bench and 2 plate ohp. Also being able to run properly again
>Life
House, wife and 5 kids. Own a successful gym and be a personal trainer for the stars.
>>34859192
>21
>you're basically still a fertilized egg
You can make it in like two years, faggot
When I'm as cool as I think I am.
>>34859847
>That trigger discipline
>>34854455
how you holding up there anon?
>>34854384
>185 10% bf
>want to sing but if not then stable engineering job when i graduate
>qt non degenerate gf
>no acne
>most importantly to finally be happy with who i am
>>34854540
this, dont let your dreams be dreams
>>34860070
>you will never experience this
>>34858886
>>34858874
penis exercise/enhancement.
and as far as gains my erections on the same day feel a lot harder but that may just be me thinking about it. I'm mainly doing them to maintain an erection for longer in sex (dick is really insensitive). I'll measure in a few weeks and report back any gains, although gains don't really come until you hit a sweet spot of mastering the proper jelq (combined in with heating etc.)
Doesn't matter what I do.
I could have the dream job, a great family, keep my friends, and accomplish everything I want to do along with continuing to do the things I like to do.
But it wouldn't matter, because at the end of the day I'm still Anon. And there's no cure for that.
>>34854384
>finally feel happy when I'm alone
>dont have to take meds everyday to help me concentrate
>dont consider suicide as an option for my future
>qt3.14 gf
>When the little family i do have in my life stop tearing each other apart
>>34858873
I've noticed taking stuff like Ritalin and experimenting with Noopept provides a noticeable quality of life improvement. Unfortunately, it's also made me more aware of the aspergers when I'm off them. Double edged breh.
I'd say give them a go. If you have side effects or dislike them, you don't have to continue.
I found mindfulness pretty helpful as well. Not necessarily full mediation, but spent a bit of time in your own head thinking about you and what will make you happy. Maybe helpful if you're wary of drugs.
>>34859065
Venlafaxine.
>14% BF Thin
>Eat healthy
>Acne gone
>Make it in art
>If not, then get a semi enjoyable 9 to 5 job
>Then art in all that nice spare time
>>34860110
don't remind me
>>34854384
>When will you consider yourself to have made it?
Now.
Rationale:
>Strong
>Happy with body
>Dedicated wife
>Own a home and a car
>Child on the way
>Job in civil service
>Respected in my community
>Home gym
Feeling pretty good. Work hard, friends. It's worth it.
>>34854384
If I ever actually got a job that actually has a future in it. (No fast food shit)
But the way its going its going to be
>>34854455
Thought I was at least 60% there. Not even close.
>>34860220
Completely manageable goals with enough motivation. Keep at it and you'll reach em anon...and set some crazy ones for once you do.
>>34854521
>2pl8 bench
>Made it
Pretty good one, man.
3.5/5/6 bp squat dead at 190
earning my first milion
having friends that sometime call me, instead of me always calling my friends to do somthing
>>34856528
>owns multi million dollar business
>posts on Malaysian bread making forum
k.
>>34854426
this is only for those who dont care about the future
if you would care about the future then your goals would change, because youd see the larger picture of what future holds when you study it
You have to make it within before you can truly make it without brehs
>>34854384
I dunked today a few times
And I'm short
I'm pretty proud of myself
>Graduated
>Ottermode
>Able to speak to women properly
>>34854384
>fitness
I want to eventually be able to press over 300lbs
>life?
An income big enough to pay all the bills and still leave me with a decent amount for fun
A qt high-test grill who'll cook for me and touch my benis frequently
A job that's actually enjoyable most of the time
A son that I can raise to be a badass motherfucker who can deadlift 3plate before he turns twelve
>>34854384
When I can fuck the girls I want that know I'm married.
>>34860070
After watching Get Hard I cannot see her as anything other than a golddigging whore any more
>>34859847
No club would take me at this age so no, I can't make it. You either start as a kid or you don't.
>Fitness
I've already made it as far as I'm concerned. I have people coming up to me at the gym asking for advice all the time (inb4 trainer joke, I'm not a trainer)
>Life
If my acting career ever takes off in any meaningful way. The odds of this happening are about the same odds I have of winning the lotto and getting struck by lightning on the same day.
When I'm no longer overweight/obese and when I get over my social autism and get friends
You can never truly make it. There will always be more to achieve. If you believe you have made it, then you have not made it; that would mean you have become complacent. Never stop improving.
>engaged to grill my friends say is above my league
>make 140K doing an interesting job
>lift 1/2/3/4
>known as the buff guy among social circle & work
Still don't feel like I've made it. Honestly you never will. For ex right now I wish I made 200K/yr, was married, and had a hot side piece mistress. I'll probably get there in 3 years and still be unhappy.
![rage-comics-fuck-yea-forever-alone-4chan-reddit-f7u12-poker-face-troll-actually-herp-derp-2[1].png](https://i.imgur.com/mTrPJDF.png "rage-comics-fuck-yea-forever-alone-4chan-reddit-f7u12-poker-face-troll-actually-herp-derp-2[1].png")
>>34860526
MAYYOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! XD
>>34860656
You can "make it" more than once. Once you've achieved your first set of goals then you just make more.
>>34860866
and to add to this, once you're in the groove of always achieving goals, you've technically made it
>>34854384
When I'm the undisputed master of the universe.
>>34854384
Never, there is always something I am unhappy with.
School is going good, gym slips and I get fat, go to the gym and have a gf, school starts suffering.
there there is always the point in the year when I realize I hate who I am and that I am becoming my father...... Life is a viscous cycle my friends, there is no winning.
>>34855434
That will be the day when someone shows you that they love who you are. When that happens hold on to it and don't push it away. In the mean time just be better then you were yesterday, soon you will be a whole new man.
>>34860183
You can do it man, just keep going
>500 wilks
>qt powerlifter gf
>travel
i feel like i'm close
>>34861185
thanks anon, that means a lot to me. I'm trying my best
>tfw nobody ever sits next you in trains or buses
I must be ugly as fuck
When I have my own home gym, engineering firm, Turkish wife with big ass, and exactly 0 kids
>>34854426
Take qt gf off the list. This shouldn't be part of your life plan, because if you over value women you are destined to fail with them.
Get your shit in a pile and women will come, but don't get your shit in a pile so that they come. There is a difference.
>>34860661
why isn't your wife enough/:
>>34861415
>wanting a qt gf is over valuing women
What does /fit/ do for a living? I'm struggling to find a fulfilling career and have a persisting neck injury that seems to limit my prospects.
Anyone here a pt? It seems most things require several years of study before you can even begin them.
>>34861436
Yes it is. You don't go out looking for a gf, you simply have to be open to having one. Then it's up to some girl your seeing to earn her way to a higher level of commitment.
>>34854384
When I stop being comforted by the fact that I will die someday and it could be any minute. I'm not obsessed with dying but often times thinking about my, and everyone else, true insignificance and eventual death is soothing. Like knowing no matter how shitty a day is you'll always get to sleep.
>>34861484
This is the correct way of looking at things. Life is short, you are insignificant and nothing you do matters. So get out there, stop hesitating, stop worrying and start living it. Every day is special
I've been having horrible mood swings and my confidence hasn't really picked itself up after a breakup I had a year ago.
It still hurts and I haven't gotten laid yet, even though I was SO close to fucking a /lit/ qt with an amazing ass. She didn't want a one night stand which is understandable.
I've been incredibly suicidal the last two days as well. I wish you all the best, and one day I hope I can work out with some of you. I hope you don't mind my baby lifts since I'm dyel.
Making it is when I don't feel misery like this nearly as often.
I miss feeling safe in love and sex
>>34861528
Just stick at it. I love you anon.
>>34861528
hold your head up anon. You'll make it through. We're all in this together. We're all gonna make it
>he fell more the making it meme
Happiness is just a moment before you need more happiness, you will never be truly satisfied
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iTJrNHdzm0k
When people stop laughing at me and judging me for my looks.
General life goals:
>Pseudo-Ascetic/Stoic lifestyle.
>Able to contribute to FOSS projects.
>Master concentration and discipline in all things, like programming and reading.
>Get good at mathematics.
Fitness goals:
Continue to improve ad infinitum.
Will castration make me asexual?
>>34854426
We all gonna make it brah
>>34855578
>having a gf is a meme t bh
>>34861704
You are right. You just don't realize it until you had a true moment of bliss in life.
That being said, depending on your standards, you can put yourself in a position to experience such feels regularly.
Its human to always want more brehs
Even when we all make it, our goals of what 'making it' are, will change
>>34856356
>When I can make a girl cum 7 consecutive times.
God, what length?
>>34861804
My anxiety over 'making it' does become less extreme though. 2 years ago 'making it' meant 'not wanting to commit suicide'.
>>34861819
Sounds like good progress to me friend
Within 2-3 years I think I'll have made it fitness wise
If I can constantly be happy and not hate my job I'll be happy.
If I have a decent amount of free time to do things i enjoy.
I want to find more hobbies I enjoy.
Maybe become an English teacher in Japan or some other country
>>34861812
This is more down to the grill than you. Some women can come multiple times, other can't. Others can hardly come.
That's not to say that he isn't doing something right by making her come 5 times, but he could do the exact same thing on another chick and get no response.
As a former fatass 15kg from goal weight for me making it is abs (basically 12%bf or so). I'll reasses when I'm there.
>>34861912
QFT. Been with girls that can cum after 20 seconds of penetration and girls that find it difficult to get off even from a ridiculous amount of stimulation. And then there are the girls who find it 'too intense' to cum and stop you just at the brink every time.
>have one of the qt's i like
>bench 455 1rm paused
>ohp 315 strict
>190-220
>moderately good job
>>34861924
>girls who find it 'too intense' to cum
I fucking hate these girls and they seem to be the only ones I'm ever involved with. I love seeing reaction during sex, I just wanna see her cum brehs ;_;
>>34854426
>190
Besides that ye I guess
>>34854384
When you're happy
>>34855322
what happened anon?
Im getting ready to apply to graduate school but I'm still trying to decide if its really what I'm meant to do. Any advice?
>>34860367
>>34861415
This but this is a great base for stuff. I want kids, for this i need cutie gf and a stable job. About the bodyfat, i dont care i dont need to be ripped, just healthy(well maintained body).
Once I get my blue belt in BJJ. Before that though, I want to have gone to my BJJ/MMA gym for at least a year.
Once I can squat, bench and barbell row 2pl8.
Once I can deadlift 3pl8.
Once I have visible abs
Once I've progressed from SL 5x5 to 5/3/1
Once I've been at my job for at least 2 years
Once I've been promoted to intermediate level at my job
Once I've fixed my Posterior pelvic tilt/Lumbar hyperlordosis, and postural kyphosis
Once I've fixed the way I walk so I don't wear down the heels of my shoes
Once I've pulled off a one night stand after talking to a woman at a bar
Once I'm earning at least 6 figures
Once I surpass six figures in my savings
Once I've learned how to drive, gotten my restricted license, and own a car
The ride never ends, boys and girls.
>>34854426
Yes this.
>>34856920
>fat
>>34861583
Thank you man, I appreciate it. I love you too.
>>34861653
I will. Mental illnesses are a bitch and I'm unmediated/not in structured therapy so I'm borderline at this alone. I just want to be strong, the one others look up to for guidance and inspiration. It also really sucks not knowing whether my weaknesses come from mental illness or just myself, and I don't want to pin all the blame on illnesses because I want to take responsibility. This shit's crazy.
I wish you two the best.
>>34854426
>gf
no
>>34854384
5/4/3/2 around 10-12%
Making money to support myself, family and charity
Wife who is honest and loyal
5+ kids
Work to better myself everyday
>>34854521
Lol I bench two plates and wanna kill my self
>>34861330
500 wilks nigga waat
what totals are thqat
>>34862236
and your problem is what?
>>34862373
probs a fag
>>34862437
There ya go.
>>34854384
>5'10"
>175lbs
><10% bf
>9/10 scandinavian gf
>$75,000+ salary usd
>Reach 15 or less bf%
>Gyno surgery
>Own a new and a motorcycle
>My own place
>Happy enough to not want woman
I'm not a greedy man
>>34862932
Wanting a woman is normal. Being very needy or begging shows a problem, but genuinely wanting love and sex is incredibly human.
>>34859995
Can't blow your nose off if you don't pull the trigger, bro.
>>34854384
>fitness
85 kg 10% strong as i can be at that weight
>life
decently paid sastisfying steady job
qt gf
still have friends, not just acquaintances
>>34863651
>10% strong
>>34863657
kek, my bad
*10% bf, strong as i can be at that weight
>>34860532
I'm the same age as you and played at a decent-ish level. Some lads I played with went on to get trials at Premier League teams/contracts at lower league teams.
I started playing for a Sunday league team recently with my brother after about 5 years out and it's been great fun. I recommend you do the same. Remember, just because you won't be Arnold or Klokov doesn't mean you can't go to the gym and make progress
>>34861415
>>34862236
>>34861466
Fuck outta here with your /r/Redpill bullshit. Everybody wants somebody to love and be loved back. If you don't your a fedora tipping cynic in denial.
>>34854384
when i win triple jump gold at the olympics
>>34864031
Can't believe you're this mad, top kek
moving out of my parents house and actually finding who I am on my own terms
But my parents need my help with bills, food, and help since my mom is going through chemo
It helps the family overall, but I really fucking hate it being 20yrsnold , having to follow there rules like I'm 15, while giving them half my paychecks
1 2 3 4. That's when I've made it. Then it's time to set new goals and make it again.
>>34862932
are you me?
>tfw look at gyno in my left nipple everytime i look in the mirror.
fuckin sucks
>>34864046
Do it. I cheer for you.
>>34854384
Never.
>>34856385
This to be honest, on top of my cripplingly large gynecomastia. I won't be able to lift on a surplus for another half of a year and then I'll face surgery to get rid of these fucking tits
>>34860162
Routine? I'm kinda interested
>mfw got some bitch from my old school to send me nudes just sending her a couple of shirtless pics
>mfw I'm barely ottermode
I like this feel
>>34867077
That aint no nudes son. Let us see them.
>>34867077
taking pictures of your phone?
>>34854426
you forgot
>6'2
>>34860279
Joining the army after High School to take a leader education and maybe join the specialforces if I'm able to.
I hope to have a career within the army or security after that. Get wife, kids, nice house, keep on lifting. Would be nice. I wont stop working hard..
>tfw I'm only 5'4...
>>34854455
Please do
>>34867134
So she can't see he screenshotted it
>>34854384
When I finally finish my degree.
I lead a happy, balanced life with people I enjoy being around while following my interests when I can.
BUT HOLY FUCK, NO FREE TIME, NO MONEY, ENDLESS STUDYING
JUST GIVE ME MY FUCKING DEGREE SO I CAN ACTUALLY LIVE LIFE GODDAMN
>>34854384
When I catch one of the popular chicks that used to laugh at me mirin.
one paper in cvpr, one paper in pami. fitness-wise, 4/3/2/1 for 5 reps is enough.
when my son does better than me
he will train from child, i will show him the light.
No. Because human nature will never allow me to be satisfied.
Once I dig out this fatty to prove I have high test. Heh, that'll show you fags with your attractive partners.
>>34868116
no wonder he has erectile dysfunction
>>34868132
keked hard
>>34868116
>Earline
Wtf is that name
>>34868116
That's spam. Tinder is filled with bots, I've gotten a couple of those exact messages.
I feel like i can't relate with someone that easy.
will never make it.
>>34868177
Bretty sure this anon is right. Did she say anything before you sent her that message, anon? >>34868116
a gf who likes me more than I like her
>>34868210
Something like, What are you looking for on tinder. I also refuse to believe anything with ham hands like that could belt all those words out in the same minute.
>>34868236
Why would the guy who coded a bot pic such an ugly bitch though? To make it more believable that she's not a bot?
>>34868307
I believed it at first. She looks like the type who would send that...
>>34868116
Holy fuck, do you fall for the ones that say "wow ur a hottie call me at xxx xxx xxxx I'd love to talk to you more" too?
>>34868452
Just thought it was funny desu.
>>34868116
HAHAHAHAHA
>>34860661
>wanting a mistress
Never gonna make it brah
>>34867287
>I wont stop working hard..
You'll b fine breh.
Time to let go of the fact that you're a manlet and just deal with life.
>>34868116
>Looking forward to pounding your pussy :)
Jesus christ. why are you writing to her like she's your employer
>>34854384
in fitness:
>as long as i keep doing it, i've already made it
in life:
>finish university
>find a fulfilling profession
>financially stable/prosperous
>can pursue all interests
>make things right between her and i knowing full well we both have feelings for each other even though we're scared of being hurt
>tfw that last one
love hurts.
>>34868529
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>>34870406
I have a better one, but it won't let me post it because it thinks it is spam.
>>34868177
These bots confuse me, how do they look so deceptive, or so human in what they respond with?
>>34860110
>tfw when you have experienced this and everything was perfect, but now it's lost forever.
>>34854426
I try not to judge. But when someone says "making it" is exactly what you have currently.. it makes you realize some people have 0 ambition.
to have girls want me so I can shoot them down like they did to me in the past
to make other guys jealous of me physically
>>34870484
What do you consider making it
>>34870636
I didn't want to believe it but you fit guys are fags
When i look forward to what the next day brings
When I get my first girlfriend. I don't even care about losing my virginity. I just want a qt girl to cuddle.
>>34867287
I know you can make it anon
>>34870467
This is the worst feel of them all , brother.
>making enough money off music to support myself
>>34854384
When I'm happy.
At the start of September I weighed 315
Now I weigh 282.4
Is it possible for me to get down to 200 lbs by march?
fucking emotional faggots getting sad over a girl thread
>>34868116
That's a fucking bot you idiot.
>>34854384
When i'm jailed as a political prisoner for my journalism in Russia China or the Middle-East,
Then break out of said jail.
>>34871156
If you are real about this; Do us all a big favor and start with some Sand-Niggerese nation, i.e. 1 in the G.C.C. Not a democracy amongst them and all a bunch of Sunni royal monarchic dictatorships.
>>34855412
Good ambitions. Some notes.
1. Skill does not always correlate with income. Reputation, schmoozing and politiking are much more important.
2. Your perception of yourself and how a group responds to you is key to attracting other people. People use the signals that you send them to judge you - most people are really poor at judging attractiveness and intelligence and you can manipulate this with practice.
>>34870652
Self employment and financial freedom. Once that's done, who knows? Life's exciting that way! I just see it as depressing that people prioritize finding a gf as one of their 4 criteria :( The world is so vast and I'm excited to experience as much as I can.. I just don't see a gf as a prerequisite to happiness rather than supplementary. If you're an unhappy person without a significant other and you think it'll vastly improve by having one, chances are the relationship will suck.
>400kg total
>qt GF
>stable job/running my own busieness
>>34854852
Gyno isnt permanent is it? isnt it just fat like every other spot on your body, so itll go away at a small bf%?? Can someone please answer so I can pull out of a filthy bulk
When I'm A rank.
Current goals that I consider making it;
-Get a job following graduation and completion of 2 degrees this semester that allows me to live on my own and do some nice stuff for my parents
-get a third degree online while doing the above
-Actually move out on my own, or at the very least pay my parents for absolutely everything it takes to maintain my existence
-consistently keep up with my activites (kickboxing, rock climbing, crossfit*) while also doing my traditional lifting/cardio 5 days/week
-learn a new language, I don't even care which one (which is a problem when picking one to commit to) I just respect people that do it after the age of 6
-learn to snowboard (i just want to)
-learn to play an instrument like a piano(see above)
-find a qt gf to spend some time with who is actually balanced and nice
-stop visiting 4chan and most gaming/computer usage outside of work in general
-start my own private digital forensics lab on the side way down the road
I'm 22, work part time in IT, and am taking 18 credits this semester, which is beyond miserable. God that's a big fucking list when I write it out, but it's not like I expect to get this all done soon or even in my 20s. Just fuck my shit up senpai
>she cant handle the long distance thing
>wants to be together when were together and not when were not.
>no thanks
>just got dumped by the girl i wanted to spend the rest of my life with
>still look fat
Goal was to get a great body so she could enjoy it, now i'm going to get ripped as fuck for the first time in my life, land a position at a university and become a badass
desu senpai
>>34873916
It can go away in adolescence but if in adulthood you have it, it is solid breast tissue that needs to be surgically removed
>>34854384
>725 deadlift, 650 squat, 400 bench, @ <15%bf
>Compete at IPF world's
>Get into professional school
>Satisfying career
>qt wife
>2-3 kids
>
>Win an olympic gold medal.
>Make an NRL or super rugby team.
>Expand the family business all over Australia
>Make a mobile app that grosses 1 mil
>Get a bachelors or masters in STEM preferably Mech Eng. Physics or BioChem. (I'm not the sharpest so this is the most unlikely goal, but I'll work my as off so I fully believe I can do it.)
>8BPEL x 6MEG
>Being financially stable enough where I can just live by the beach and have enough money to never work another day if I dont want to and just lift and read for the rest of my life, eat nice food and just enjoy it. That's the dream brahs.
Basically enough money to say "fuck you I don't need any of you."
Life
>A better career, doing something that's not just dicking around and lying to customers. I actually want to DO things
>See my two sons grow up to be successful and happy
>Own a large house with home gym and woodworking shop
>Have time for all my hobbies
Fitness/ sports
>Squat twice my bodyweight (would be 418lbs now)
>Look reasonably aesthetic
>Be successful in my sport
>Maybe become a coach
I don't think these are too much to hope, but of course if I ever achieve these things I'll just set new goals even higher.
randomly picking out posts:
>>34854407
how boring
>>34854452
c.u.c.k.
>>34854438
words of wisdom
>>34854455
feel ya bra
>>34854529
the only way you achieve this is by being an asshole to women, which apparently you wont be ever
>>34854686
thats a turning point in your life, work towards your goals, even if they are unrealistic, push yourself visualizing how you will be in x years ahead
>>34854716
you will make it
>>34854992
stop watching hollywood romance movies
>>34855434
stop believing people dislike you. work on your popsitive attributes, everyone has some.
>>34855502
you make it, ez.
>>34855751
that guy gets it
>>34858854
probably gonna make it, it isnt that hard (its fun for a while but i doubt that will make you happy)
>>34864031
deluded human being, you will facepalm hard in the love department, maybe it will make you wake up then
>>34867848
you sound like a good dad
>>34870636
thats easier than you think, however, you will soon enough realise that wont make you happy
>>34870738
you project your own genuine character on a female. thats what makes you fail in it.
>get technically proficient at what I'm doing now
>move from the current shithole
>work for a top-tier company
>acquire personal skills
>be healthy and fit
>make decent money
>climb up the ladder of the company
>quit after I have experienced everything
>start my own company with a strong underlying idea (no bullshit startup, something useful to humanity)
>put my whole experience
>have kids (marriage or not depends on the person)
>work on idea till 45 or 50
>make an impact or not, quit when it's time
>live peacefully with family on the woods (something like Nathan's house on Ex-machina)
I know this isn't exactly goal-setting since it's so vague and not descriptive enough. But that's the general idea of what I have in mind of 'making it'. I don't care whether I make it or not. Life is uncertain and I may die tomorrow, but that's not the point. Point is make a meaning out of your life.
