Advice To Young Men (18 years old) – How To Be The Best You Can Be
http://becomeuberhuman.com/advice-to-young-men-18-years-old-how-to-be-the-best-you-can-be/
What did I do? (current age: 28)
Hit the gym and got stronger. I have been lifting weights habitually for 6 years now.
Adopted Patrick Bateman’s sense of dress style and hygiene
Went from a dumb pleb to an educated uber human by reading books every day
Traveled the world and go on vacations for months (I stayed in Japan for 2 months, had 2 Japanese girlfriends)
Approached and fucked more woman than the average guy (26 women and counting – my goal is 100)
Became a professional poker play for 3 years (played high stakes poker with rich Chinese business men in Macau, played in Vegas etc)
Shot guns and drove a Lamborghini in Las Vegas
Living a minimalist lifestyle
Started a self improvement blog
(Attempting) to make six figures with mobile marketing
In contrast to my 18 years old self …
Did not lift weight
Did not read books (dumb and ignorant)
Poor social skills, very few friends
Didn’t lose virginity until 19
No sense of fashion and bad body language
Chronic masturbator
Hobbies were watching TV and playing video games
Suicidal (thought of killing myself at 19)
No hope, no future, no self respect, no discipline
Wanted to live in a van (what the fuck?)
>good luck brah
>HERE I AM IN MY GARAGE
you sound like every-other self development hipster fag with an art of manliness blog/twitter/youtube channel/etc.
>>34818330
Obligatory:
https://youtu.be/0GIwTG8V-Ko
>>34818142
On a scale from 1 to 20, how much does physical appearance matter for:
- Women
- Making friendly relationships with other men
- Making connections in work
- Giving good first impressions
?
If there is one book you can recommend to an 18 year old, trying to be the most alpha alpha alive, what would it be?
>>34818639
Right here, friend:
http://becomeuberhuman.com/self-improvement-books-recommendation/
Patrician books only.
>>34818583
I would say 10-15, the rest is about charismatic and being a competent man (having money, charisma, accomplishments in life)
>>34818440
Yeah I know, but it's better than threads like
>lol manlets hate
>fat shaming!
>steroids??
/fit/ used to have a /self improvement general/ thread until the mods repeatedly delete it. It means the /fit/ is about entertainment, not improvement. It's about catering to the plebs who like to hurrrr durrr.
>>34818529
>>34818330
Yeah, except ... there is no ads, donation box, affiliate links, consultation package or ebooks on the website. It's strictly a PSA.
>>34818529
>>34818330
I don't get it. Is that guy a sort of self-proclamed guru?
>>34818811
meh, im already doing most of the shit you listed in your blog, good read for people who arent self aware though
You do not come across as intelligent and your life goals are very undeveloped for a man 28 years old.
>>34818971
>>>34818330
He apparently rented a lambo, and advertise on Facebook, claiming that if you read books, you can get rich like him. He sells a $77 per month ecourse on how to get rich.
>>34818977
Nice, you are the 5 percent.
>>34819020
I know, I will try my best every day to become smarter and more enlighten.
>>34819061
What are your end goals, what do you wish to achieve with your life? Wanting to shag a 100 girls in your life seems like something a twelve year old would pursue. Don't you want to have a loving wife, create a strong family and have many children? Or perhaps write inspiring books, further scientific research, protect and improve your nation? The things you listed are what a carnal man would want for; lust, greed and pride. That is not the way of the good life.
>>34818440
btw, hipster faggots don't talk about red pill or seduction, they talk about shaving with straight razors, how to comb your beard and be a gentleman. lol
>>34819182
>What are your end goals, what do you wish to achieve with your life?
My end goal is to donate millions into charity, specifically poor kids in Asia so they can become ubermensch.
Also, have a family when I hit 35-40.
I'm also planning to write becomeuberhuman.com for the next 10+ years, as a public service annoucement to inspire young men.
See:
>http://becomeuberhuman.com/about/
Also, I don't see why I should be shamed to fuck 100 women, it's a nice hobby.
>I travelled to a foreign country (Japan), where I proceed to had sex with a beautiful 27 years old. I banged her in the ass and pussy. 6 hours later, after she left my home, I brought my other date (with an amazing ass because she does yoga), where I proceed to bang her in the pussy. After our furious copulation session, I laid in the dark, with her snuggling in my arms. I looked at the ceiling and muttered to myself: “I was a skinny nerd in high school …”
>Fiction is for plebs
Oh...now I see why you're a shit writer.
Why is it that American Psycho inspired people to have better hygiene and live a cleaner lifestyle? (It did with me)
>>34820578
Because he's the pinnacle of hyigene
>>34819228
>kids in Asia
>becoming ubermensch
I just turned 25 last week and I've already fucked 24 girls. I'll be ahead of this faggot in no time.
>>34818793
I clicked that book link. "The Book of Five Rings" was written by the same Miyamoto Masashi as the one from the fictional book?
Was he real or not?
>>34821652
I dunno, depends if you're happy with your dick size or not.
>>34822347
You go, playa!
>>34823570
Miyamoto Musashi is real, and he actually wrote the book in 1600 or so. It's an alpha as fuck book.
>>34819228
For your website, you should try using "mind" or "subconscious" instead of "soul"
That way people who arent really superstitious or religious wont get turned off it. Otherwise, its content is pretty good. God speed anon
*tips fedora*
*tips fedora*
*tips fedora*
>>34818142
lmao, your writing style is fucking terrible, and you claim to read books everyday.
not mirin
>Adopted Patrick Bateman's sense of dress style and hygiene
>Living a minimalist lifestyle
>Started a self improvement blog
>counting how many women you've had sex with
>Having a goal to have sex with 100 women
>>34820578
Patrick is the embodiment of all superficial ambition, for a model he's pretty much perfect. The only thing wrong with him is his mind.
Looks nice
I will read this even thought I'm already 21
>>34818142
your english is so fucking bad, or perhaps you are just really lazy and never do any proofreading
>>34818583
15. Before you open your autistic mouth people will look at you, and say
>"man he looks so good"
What so you think?
>already lift 4 times a week
>have friends
>read 70 books a year
>travel to new country most years either with family, friends or alone to work
...
is he saying anything important for me or is it all stuff heard before
>>34828275
also majority of books he read are pleb tier/ pop science bs
Bumping this thread, will read after track practice
Tfw 22
Op yor English blows amd you sound like a douche bit I will finish reading this anyway.
>>34818142
sounds like an average person who didn't go to college with career goals
>>34827088
Man, I need to proof read. Thanks for the heads up.
>>34828275
Well done, you're the 5 percent.
>>34828810
Thanks, hope the article helps.
>>34828849
A college path is not necessary for the entrepreneurialship path.
>>34829241
>entrepreneurialship
Not a real word
What you're looking for is entrepreneurial. And have you actually succeeded in anything that could be deemed entrepreneurial? A lot of you self-help gurus talk big game but when you look past the surface most of you faggots are superficial- hollow shells of shallow ideas.
Self-help is fine in theory but the industry is rife with con-men and mentally deficient losers.
Link related: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=txhZWwJEvPA
>>34818142
>Approached and fucked more woman than the average guy (26 women and counting – my goal is 100)
>Became a professional poker play for 3 years (played high stakes poker with rich Chinese business men in Macau, played in Vegas etc)
You should cut this fat
>>34829653
>And have you actually succeeded in anything that could be deemed entrepreneurial?
Yeah, 3 years of self employment.
>>34829653
>Self-help is fine in theory but the industry is rife with con-men and mentally deficient losers.
Absolutely. Same with get rich books, poor fags telling other poor fags how to get rich.
(I'm looking at you, rich dad, poor dad)
But like ANY industry or niche, there are con men and mentally ill people.
>>34826470
If the concept that you have a soul turns you away you are never going to make it
>>34829834
What's your annual net?
Income growth?
Projections for next year?
>>34829653
inaccurate description, very sad
>>34829870
Without being rude, it's not something I need to disclose.
>ib4 you're a con man
There is no ads, donation box, affiliate links, consultation package or ebooks on this website.
Everything on this website is free from commercial interest - This is my public service announcement to the future generations of Uber Humans.
Heck, I don't even post a picture of myself on the website, because I don't want to be e-famous.
I simply write the truth to the best of my ability and inspire young men to become great.
Whether they believe in me or not, depends on how close to the truth I'm writing.
That is all :)
>>34830271
>it's not something I need to disclose.
It is if you expect people to take you seriously. And there are a plethora of very obvious non-pecuniary benefits to having people visit your website (assuming for the moment that you aren't brand building atm and planning to monetize your shitty blog at some point in the future).
You've been working for yourself for three years now- assuming you're based in the U.S. you should be paying yourself (or have the capacity to assuming you're funneling that money back into your business) at least in the high figure range. If you aren't then you really aren't in any sort of position to act as a mentor/life coach.
>>34818793
>>34818142
Are you the author of this becomeuberhuman blog?
For someone who claims to read 30 books a year you'd think you would be able to tell the difference between 'than' and 'then'
>>34818142
Nice story bro I'm 18
hey Max I've been reading your blog for 3 months now, thanks for writing it
I am in the situation you were, suicidal and shit, but am taking an U turn in my life to a better path
>>34830375
I think it's healthy to be critical and to criticize - that's how men improve.
I got emails and posts like >>34832481 to re-confirm that my writings helped young men to become better.
What are you doing, on a personal level, to help other for the better?
I believe the blogging sphere is very Darwin like - the shittier the blog, nobody visits.
Become Uber Human gets around 50 to 100 visits a day from real people.
As long as my blog makes a difference, I will continue to write.
>>34832344
Nice, hope my blog helps
>>34832481
Nice, keep up the good work.
>Pretend your parents are dead
>>34818142
>Hit the gym and got stronger. I have been lifting weights habitually for 6 years now.
Putting lifting as the first bit of advice?
Fucking dropped. 28 year old cukklord didn't learn shit.
>>34818142
>Shot guns and drove a Lamborghini in Las Vegas
>Living a minimalist lifestyle
lol you are dumb af
>>34834128
I know that feel bro, in retrospect it was a "waste" of money but YOLO. How often do you get to drive a lambo, right.
>>34833981
>Putting lifting as the first bit of advice?
I see why not, considering most middle aged people are fatties.
>>34833059
>What are you doing, on a personal level, to help other for the better?
Nothing, most people can eat shit and die. And trying to deflect my very valid criticism of your shitty blog by turning on me is absolutely atrocious reasoning.
You've only confirmed that you're an idiot who can neither spell nor argue effectively and your goals in life are silly and sophomoric.
Kill yourself you stupid piece of shit.
>>34834422
I know that feel bro, it's easy to be a misanthrope.
It's easier to hate than to help; easier to watch TV than to run, easier to criticize than to help.
>>34834422
>Nothing, most people can eat shit and die.
When you respect yourself, you respect other people.
Good luck to you bruh.
>>34834640
>than to help
You don't seem to get it. You're not helping anyone. Telling kids to lift weights and fuck bitches isn't adding any value to their lives. People instinctively want to fuck bitches. People know lifting weights will make them look better.
You are the living embodiment of the dunning-kruger affect- a complete and utter moron who believes himself to be infinitely more intelligent and incapable than he actually is.
Get that through your thick ass skull you retarded nigger.
>>34834675
>People instinctively want to fuck bitches.
Kek.
>>34834675
>who believes himself to be infinitely more intelligent and incapable
Should be capable but I think you get the point.
My only real criticism is that you claim to live (Or at least preach) a minimalistic lifestyle, but then brag about shooting guns, having a motor cycle, dressing like Patrick Bateman and driving Lamborghini's.
Your writing style also needs some work.
Still, it's advice as old as humanity itself and needs to be repeated over and over. So, thank you?
>>34818142
>Hit the gym and got stronger. I have been lifting weights habitually for 6 years now.
Exercise is good advice, but wait until you're done growing to lift heavy.
>Adopted Patrick Bateman’s sense of dress style and hygiene
Fictional 80s character. You're not only a faggot if you do this, but an outdated faggot.
>Went from a dumb pleb to an educated uber human by reading books every day
Good advice.
>Traveled the world and go on vacations for months (I stayed in Japan for 2 months, had 2 Japanese girlfriends)
Horrible idea, unless you're a trust fund kid.
>Approached and fucked more woman than the average guy (26 women and counting – my goal is 100)
Good advice.
>Became a professional poker play for 3 years (played high stakes poker with rich Chinese business men in Macau, played in Vegas etc)
Horrible advice. Gambling is degenerate. Plus, every "professional poker player" I've ever met has been a total douchebag.
>Shot guns and drove a Lamborghini in Las Vegas
Stupid as fuck. You paid money to shoot someone else's gun? Fag. And you drove a lambo for 3 hot laps, big deal. If you want to drive, get into SCCA or something. Not that groupon shit "drive your dream car!"
>Living a minimalist lifestyle
Good advice, but seems to be counter to what you've stated above.
>Started a self improvement blog
kek
>(Attempting) to make six figures with mobile marketing
kek
>Here are my top advice to my younger comrades.
It should be "is", not "are." And "comrades" has the socialist feel to it.
Ignoring your bad writing, which has been pointed out previously, there seems to be decent advice. Its not really smart to advertise on /fit/, however, because everything you stated is common knowledge to the average /fit/izen.
>>34834756
Traveling the world is not out of reach. You can get 2 years out of about $10,000 dollars. I think the principle was 14 dollars a day.
Keep in mind this is living by shoestrings. You're not gonna be in the Ritz, at best couchsurfing, at worst a hostel. Food will actually be better a decent amount of the time because it'll be street food. Look up Graham Hughes, all of the above comes from him, and something I plan to do.
>>34834826
That's 2 years you're not earning or working on an education, and that's $10k that you could have invested.
>>34834842
And that's your prerogative friend
>>34834842
>That's 2 years you're not earning or working on an education, and that's $10k that you could have invested.
You can always do work visa or work online.
>>34834842
> that's $10k that you could have invested.
and $10k worth of fun wasted if you croak it..
an investment is like saying "i bet you i dont die"
life insurance is like saying "i bet i die"
>>34834876
Yeah, you could do that. Or you could do something that earns above $4 a day.
No one at 18 is getting a work visa for anything worth a shit.
>>34834753
>My only real criticism is that you claim to live (Or at least preach) a minimalistic lifestyle, but then brag about shooting guns, having a motor cycle, dressing like Patrick Bateman and driving Lamborghini's.
Living a minimalist life is about having less stuff, not necessary living like a monk.
>>34834756
>And you drove a lambo for 3 hot laps, big deal. If you want to drive, get into SCCA or something. Not that groupon shit "drive your dream car!"
True say. The better option would have been to rent a lambo for a day or two.
... better yet, buy a lambo.
(but I'm thinking of getting a Tesla when it comes out 2 years from now, the Model 3)
>>34834675
>You don't seem to get it. You're not helping anyone.
No worries, I'm getting comments on the sites and emails from readers. Just because you don't find it useful (because you're smart, right?) doesn't mean other people don't find it useful.
>>34834904
>yolo
The worst part is that I'm going to get taxed to support people like you during your retirement.
>>34834908
You don't have to travel the world when you're 18 ... you can always do it at 30 or 40.
>>34834922
I agree, but OP is advice for 18 year olds.
>>34834918
holy shit, you do realize 10k is not going to ruin someone's economic well-being right?
>>34834876
if you're living on 5k a year anyway you probably won't be working anywhere
>>34834958
OP didn't post anything about travelling
>>34834966
>Traveled the world and go on vacations for months (I stayed in Japan for 2 months, had 2 Japanese girlfriends)
>>34834842
> no fun allowed
>>34834960
$10k is less of a problem than losing 2 years of earnings/development. Mark Cuban has the same advice as me on this issue.
>>34834909
I'm the man posting about the criticisms to the "Minimalistic" life style.
I don't expect you to be a preacher of stoicism, but I believe that when you explain to live below your means, it's more than suitable for the purpose of your argument. You don't need to tack on minimalistic, as I believe it confuses what you're trying to present.
>>34834989
to argue the point, the language skills you pick up from travelling the world are a career skill.
It's commonly accepted that you can learn a language through 3 months immersion. Let's take spanish, for example. There are 21 spanish-speaking countries in the world. So if you spent 4-5 days in each country you could pick up spansih. Same with other multinatioal languages, or if you want to stay in one country for months at a time.
>>34835035
Slightly valuable, yes. But you'll be much more marketable spending those 2 years at a respected university.
>>34835059
Or go after Uni
>>34835035
>There are 21 spanish-speaking countries in the world. So if you spent 4-5 days in each country you could pick up spansih
Good Lord
>After being an “adult” for a decade, I realized that most adults are .. mediocre.
Not only are you not as intelligent as you claim (any dumb fuck can pick up a book and look at letters), but it seems like you feel as though you are better than others.
Only hopeless retards would truly consider the "advice" you have to offer.
>>34836029
Is she okay? Please stay safe. Please let me know on facebook if she's safe, thanks. (I'm praying for her)
>>34818142
Yet here you are, shitposting on /fit/, funny how life works out.
>>34829860
Im just saying, there are a lot of people who arent stupid enough to have any superstitious or religious beliefs.
They dont want to follow the instructions or advice from someone who does; they view them as lesser/deluded men
>>34836679
so you're saying there should be a trigger warning
>>34836029
he's actually perfoming cpr
>>34818142
I'm not reading this fucking thread, but I will say this - if you're not actually handsome and you're still young (sub 30), do NOT fucking attempt dressing in suits and dressy fashionable shit.
There is nothing wrong with dressing casual. Dressing neatly and having good hygiene are important, of course, but if you can't own a look, don't even try.
There's nothing worse than an awkward kid in tryhard clothing trying to be 'mature'. The entirety of /fa/ and the fact that 'fedora' is an insult that everyone here understands should make that clear.
Pic oh so related.
>>34836726
The asian next to the turtle is the only person dressing 'mature', and even then that only doesn't work because he's a small framed 18 year old looking asian. Put a 25 year old white guy in his clothing, change out his pants, shoes and bag and you have someone who dresses attractively.
This has got to be satire.
>>34836726
>far right
topkek
>>34836518
rekt
>>34818142
I'm happy about your progress, but wanting to fugg le 1000000 sloots is a childish goal imo. Don't you ever feel alone?
>wanted to live in a van
Kek. I've been folloving your blog for a time, it's bretty good overall.
>HERE IN MY GARAGE
>fucking 100 women
lmao you're such a child
>>34829860
Nah other anon is right, you're just being a fuckwit.
>>34834683
Did you just imply that breeding is not one of our natural fucking instincts?
>>34818142
Did you get a college degree? I think among all the advice you should give a young man, the first should always be to get a college education. You can argue that they are worthless or life experience matters more, and you would be a fucking retard for doing so. But if you are actually appealing to young men, I hope at least you aren't stearing them away from getting a good college education.
>>34822347
I'm 25½ and have fucked between 60-70 bitches
step it up
>>34839953
>caring about quantity
anyone can fuck a lot of uggos
just saying.
>>34834675
>Telling kids to lift weights and fuck bitches isn't adding any value to their lives
Says every fedora ever.
*tip fedora*
>>34841023
>Perforce mine good gentlekek, as a devoted uber-human disciple I too knew neither the pleasures which female flesh might bestow unto such a classy gentlesir as mineself until I stumbled upon http://becomeuberhuman.com/advice-to-young-men-18-years-old-how-to-be-the-best-you-can-be/
>And to lift weights shalt add lean muscle mass upon my grisly and husky frame? 'Tis a discovery upon par with that of Einstein and Newton. Shalt we alert the president of such scientific wizardry? 'Tis too important to keep "under wraps" so to speak
>>34818142
>Adopted Patrick Bateman’s sense of dress style and hygiene
idk why but shit like shit always triggers me. people who dress like that always seem very conceited, arrogant, and snobby.
>>34841110
>Dress like a 1980's yuppie/investment banker/junior executive
>Not expecting them to be very conceited, arrogant and snobby
>>34836726
Honestly if I saw these people separate and not all bunched up I wouldn't think anything of how they're dressed.
I also kind of like long neck's outfit, if only he had a different color of shoes.
>>34841110
Its stupid IMO because it shows they're learning from media instead of actual real life experience. Because we all know how realistic movies are right?looking to media for a direction in life tells me your internal(personality ,sense of self, self esteem, etc) is next to non existent and you have to leech from unrealistic externals(Hollywood movies) for how to handle life. Quite frankly this is 100% pathetic in every way possible. Go out and experience your own life, trying to immitate an imaginary film character is a recipe for disaster on so many levels
>>34818529
thanks for the laugh
>>34818142
Fuck off OP, you nigger. You think you can change and improve people? You're not shit! Fuck you, you can't even spell.
>>34818142
how did you watch/read American Psycho and think that you should take after Patrick Bateman. i think you missed the point.
>>34841060
holy shit that guys face is just a fat version of the guy fawkes mask
