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>omg anon, you got so much bigger since we broke up
>those dilated pupils
she either has the eye degeneration of a 60 years old or she's on drugs
>>31309514
looks like antidepressants
>tfw broke up with my gf
>started lifting to cope
>so did she apparently
>tfw she's made more progress than I have
fuck you op
fuck, i'm never going to make it
>>31309474
>You got so much bigger
>Reply with "So did you"
>>31309572
hahaha got'em!
Went to the mall with qt3.14 gf
Saw two guys from highschool who apparently came out of the closet
One says "damn you've lose weight"
Walk around for a little longer and see the other one, he says "fuck dude do you ever leave the gym"
Gay guys mirin counts.. R-right
>>31309558
Make zyzz proud and her jealous, the best revenge is success, we're all gonna make it
>tfw one of your main motivations is to see oneitis you've been ignoring for 2 years mirin' someday
It's not like she hates me so hopes are high
>>31309600
Shit, same here.
I don't even know why I like her, I can do alright with other girls but this random 7.5/10 makes my spaghetti explode out of pockets.
>>31309593
Fuck them in the ass, no homo
>>31309589
>>31309474
>You too
>shiteatinggrin.jpg
>>31309558
time to roid, nigger
>>31309633
They're low test
>finally get gf
>die inside whenever she talks with any other males
how the fuck do insecure betas handle having a gf?
bros i aint never gonna make it
>>31309682
I don't get jealous because I know she wouldn't find anyone better than me, get some confidence m8
>>31309514
thanks for the observation doctor. it's either that or it's not that bright in the room
>>31309558
hit the juice brah
>>31309682
It has nothing to do with the girl
It has nothing to do with those guys
It has everything to do with YOU
Seriously. This insecurity of yours is not just about girls. It probably runs a lot deeper than that. Probably a deep rooted shame and a sense of not being good enough in the general sense.
I suggest doing work on your deepest self. Whether that be through therapy, maximizing your potential through hobbies you truly enjoy, making more male friends, etc. etc.
Just a thought. I could write out an essay for you but fuck it it's 4chan.
>>31309474
Y-you too
>>31309909
I have this feeling as well but you seem to be able to explain it better than I could. Could you elaborate?
> recently got a gf
> third time fucking
> tied her hands up for mild bondage
> got her on top after
> went balls deep
> pissed all over me and started shaking uncontrollably
> she was embarrassed and confused afterwards
> just told me she googled what happened
lel
>>31309558
So you broke up and you're BOTH trying to cope? Why the fuck did you guys even break up then?
>>31310019
he's lifting to cope. she's trying to get dicked down
>>31310032
>Implying
>>31309617
>>so hopes are high
>animu reaction face
No. They aren't.
>>31309682
I guess I just remember that if she end up cheating on me, she's the one to blame. She made the choice, and you have every right to be mad at her and kick her ass to the curb. Her cheating doesn't somehow make her the victim.
>>31310058
did you just talk shit about Akari?
>>31310047
implying she's trying to get some dick? i'm absolutely implying that. are you saying that's wrong? she's single and ready for the dingle
>>31309909
It is pretty much a largely accepted truth within the many spiritual/religious communities that if something in this world disturbs you, it means that something is wrong with you internally
Let's go deeper. It has everything to do with your ego. Now the ego is this "entity" that lives within your mind. Or more realistically, it is your mind. And your mind (ego) plays all sorts of tricks on you and develops these warped views of the world that are not really happening.
So what did you do in response to this negative ego? Well, you probably tried to turn it into a positive ego. You read lots of motivational pictures on /fit/, started lifting, got a nice body, started making some friends and you thought "I've made it". Well, you did. But it was exactly what I just stated previously: A thought.
You see, many of you had a warped view of the world and probably thought everything and everyone in it was against you. So what you did was try to rise above. You tried to mold the world around you to fit and ideal IN YOUR MIND.
But what you probably lacked was acceptance of the world. You lacked acceptance of life on life's terms. And you lacked acceptance of yourself.
I need to gather my thoughts a little more on this. Will post ore in a minute.
>>31310058
>making fun of anime reaction faces
>on a japanese cartoon imageboard
>>31310106
>not knowing this is a polynesian canoe making imageboard
>>31310095
deep shit bro.. keep it going. this is some AA meeting shit
>>31310095
>>31309909
>>31310095
Shit, your like the therapist I never had
>>31310095
calm down there Deepak Tolle
>2015
>having gfs
You wanna get married and have a divorce too?
>>31310215
>deepak
he hasnt said shit about quantum physics yet, richard dawkins
>>31309909
>>31310095
Wow, i am really feeling this.
Even though I already have a main girlfriend, I have 3 other girls I regularly fuck and I still want new girls on the week to feel validated and to feel secure about myself.
To feel adequate in the world. But to my surprise even when having these girls fall all over me, its still not enough, clearly its me and its hard to accept it.
Thanks anon for helping me realize this and something I need to work on.
>>31310095
>If you are unhappy, something is wrong with you. Don't try to change things for the better.
Never accept an ideology that takes away your agency to make a difference. Growing and accepting yourself and your place in the world is part of becoming wise, but is not the only part.
>>31310007
Teach me bro
>>31310266
this. I believe that is the first step of cult activity
>>31309966
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>>31310163
Yes, I will continue for you bros. And funny that one of you mentioned that. I am in Alcoholics Anonymous. 2 years clean as of last Wednesday.
So what we were talking about originally was the man who was upset and getting full of fear when his new girlfriend was talking to other guys.
Now here is what is happening based off what I have learned through my life, through Alcoholics Anonymous, through my Buddhist practitioners group:
This woman that is now your girlfriend. What is your fear? You are fearing something. Well that fear is of losing her. But is it HER that your are afraid of losing? NO. You don't fear losing this girl? What you fear is losing some THING. This THING that your ego has clung onto and proclaimed, "MINE. This is MINE now."
Your ego (mind) has acquired this new substance and decided that it wants it. It NEEDS it. Your ego has attached itself to this image of you being in possession of this thing (woman) and the ego would be CRUSHED if it lost this thing.
To be continued...
>>31310095
Stfu. We lift, we have determination and willpower. We're superior to the average person. Its not a thought
Stop playing freud cause youre a retardo
4/10
>>31310323
let him talk, you can entertain and consider an idea without having to agree with it bitch nigger
>>31310321
this guy is basically the teacher from donnie darko
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bXKvRNnXF3A
>>31310286
> ejaculate several times within a few days
> as a result, take ages to blow your load
> get your girl on top
> tell her to move up and down your penis
> she enjoys it
Nothing to learn mate, just keep going at it and see how they react. She thinks i'm some magic-hands magician because i've watched porn for a decade and know what a clitoris is.
>tfw met and talking to the first girl I'm interested in getting to know since my gf broke up with me two years ago
Hoping for the best : )
>>31310347
>dat stifled cough from the based dad
>>31309558
>break up with gf
>started lifting to cope
>so did she
>she did crossfit, had a knee injury and is 'eagerly awaiting recovery'
>I'm going on strong with way better progress and no injuries whatsoever
>>31310360
fuck. i don't know where to draw the line between saving up to blow a big load, or fapping beforehand so i build up my stamina and can please her better.
>>31310321
So here lies the problem. Your mind. Your ego.
What lies beneath it is your TRUE self. The untainted. The self that is in complete acceptance of the world, of the universe, and what it brings to life.
Instead of giving YOUR DEEPEST GIFT OF LOVE to this woman, you are probably just using her for things such as attention, validation, sex, comfort; things that you were never able to give yourself but you have always been in opposition to the world around you.
To this woman. You owe her your deepest gift. Your deepest love. Your focus on the relationship should be about her, about WHAT CAN YOU GIVE TO HER
Your fear of losing this woman to another man is actually a selfish thought. You can no longer cling to her and other things in the world. The world will give and take from you what it wants.
I think that the real definition of "making it" would be being in complete acceptance of the world around you, giving your deepest love in every action you perform, and being content with the self at the deepest level, and being one with the universe
>>31310436
>>31309514
my eyes stay dilated almost 24/7, w-whats wrong with me
>>31310337
Opinion disregarded breh.
Do you seriously think the difference between you ( lift, eat healthy) and a basement neckvbeard that pisses in bottles.. its just a thought? Good god you soft minded, if charly manson speak to you in his golden years.. you would be killing people just because that retarded twll you to do so
Sry poor english
>>31310007
dude... LOL what
>>31309514
>being so forever alone that you don't know women's eyes dilate when they're attracted to you.
>>31310458
you probably spend too much time looking at screens
>>31310436
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CVdmBvYECWU
>>31310458
May be a disorder with the muscles in your pupil. It COULD be dangerous, could not. Usually deals with degeneration of those muscles but if you've been to a doctor and they don't think there's anything wrong and you aren't losing vision/having trouble with it, you should be fine.
>keep having feels with her
>can't fall out of love she encourages me in my lifts
>I just want to hold her and tell her she's my swole mate
> she's a perfect complement of me
>>31309690
oo tiny shirt swagged out lookin pretty tybg
>>31310393
> save up for a big load
> you ejaculate early
> just use your hands or oral on her
> after 10-20 minutes you're good to fuck again
> you last longer and she orgasms twice
> naturally wank too frequently
> you still foreplay
> you last half an hour
> she orgasms twice anyway and you still fuck her
Literally don't over-think it and just fuck her whenever the moment comes and don't plan sex. Women are easy and have fun regardless of how long you last. If you finish too early or too late, there's always something you can do to please her regardless.
>>31310464
>Do you seriously think the difference between you ( lift, eat healthy) and a basement neckvbeard that pisses in bottles.. its just a thought?
No but I think thats a gross oversimplification of his ideas whether or not they are faulty. Also I don't believe lifting alone makes you superior to the average person. No matter what ass backwards "muh will power" justification you wana spew. Hell look at all the feel and no gf and depressing threads DAILY.
>you're ok with reading someone else's ideas on a hatian voodoo tutorial board
>thats the equivalent of following a cult leader
>>31310360
sounds like you just discovered dinosaurs
>>31310436
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>>31310095
>>31309909
this is Buddhism right?
losing the ego and just being
>>31310497
ye i've been to a guy for contacts.. the only thing he mentioned was that they were dilated the entire time i was with him.. he put in the contacts himself and microscoped that shit.. didn't see anything, or at least he didn't mention anything
>>31310436
>>31310496
fuck I meant to post this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F2ZwJiK0fJ0
>>31310581
I'm on 4chan.
>>31310507
you sad cunt, why'd you break up
>>31310587
Yes.
>>31309909
>>31310095
>>31310321
>>31310436
I come here for laughs and lifting. Not feels for betas.
>>31309682
The trick is to be so good at sex that she never wants to leave you, so you always have the bargaining power.
Read up on dat dere foreplay
>>31310660
welcome newfag
>>31310673
tell me what to do
>>31310660
HOW FUCKING NEW ARE YOU
>2010+5
>being this new
>>31310674
Only dyels are insecure on this board. Once you put in your two years you'll stop the feels.
>take shirt off
>"anon you look photoshopped"
>mfw
>>31310673
yeah i heard if you suck her toes and lick her feet, she will never leave you
>>31310469
When a girl orgasms, sometimes they squirt. The liquid that comes out is a mixture of girl cum and piss. It's not entirely unpleasant in the heat of things.
>>31310701
>making up stories
>stealing lines from a rom com
never gonna make it
>>31310692
>proving myself to anonymous kids on the sugar cane slave forums
Once you bench babby's first 2plate, then you will realize the feels are useless.
>>31310643
cool thanks for posting bro
>>31310701
Ryan Gosling please leave.
>>31310722
dont worry i will always be there to feel with you ; )
ps i can deliver my juicy 8x6 in your angus dry
>>31310718
>>31310741
I guess she stole it from a rom com then
>Fucking some chubby out of shape Tinder slut for about a month
>She's always talking about the gym but I never bring it up because I feel bad talking about it
>Round her house one day and say I have to leave to go to the gym
>mfw she asks "oh do you go to the gym?"
>>31310769
man shut the fuck up you know you lyin
>>31310773
#shamu'd
>>31310777
>>31310769
>You look photoshopped
Isn't always a compliment.
>>31310436
no thanks geoff
>>31310007
I cant fuck squirters, I almost puked on the last one
>>31310215
kek
>>31310321
how do I into 10/10 redhead qt3.14 with 30.06?
>>31310791
>tfw even mong looks better than you
>>31310773
>be walking after class
>overhear two girls talking
>one 4/10 and one 5/10 max
>4/10 is talking about how she had to deny some betalord a kiss after their "date"
>she made up an excuse to do her "laundry" so they couldnt hang out in her dorm
>hear them laughing about it
>rage level near 6.02 x 10^23 suns
EVEN FATTY 4/10'S HAVE BETALORD SWOONING THEM
WE ARE NEVER GOING TO MAKE IT
SHE WAS LIKE 5'3" AND 140 lbs fatty.
WE ARE NEVER GOING TO MAKE IT
>>31309909
>>31310095
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>>31310436
>>31310643
you should get a trip
how about "anti-feel buddhabrah"
seriously though, i like the little i know of buddhism, except for the preaching of no ambition because of "muh inner peace".
i mean, too much/frustrated ambition can be pretty toxic, but many people "made it" and found happiness and peace out of ambition
can't i be a buddhist and still want to be rich, handsome, strong and succesful in general?
>>31310802
Sounds like throwing up on her would be even grounds.
>>31310643
Thanks for the posts man, this explains loss of ego in a really effective way (+those grills are lovely)
>>31310830
You can be (to my knowledge of Buddhism?). You really don't have to accept someone else's take on the religion, you can practice it any way you want.
>>31310643
>>31310436
>>31310321
>>31310095
>>31309909
HOW DO I INTO EGO DEATH
>>31310874
MUH SPOOKS
>>31310681
Depends on the girl. You have to learn how they like to be touched. That's part of the fun of getting to know each other.
But I will say almost universally all girls like to be teased, that is, brought close to orgasm and staying there as long as possible. Girls are like diesel engines, they have to be warmed up. Where most guys fall flat is focusing on the objective and not the journey. Girls have sensitive spots all over their body and you shouldn't focus on one part. Let your hands wander all over her skin like you're running your fingers through silk.
Another thing most girls like is being blindfolded, held down, restrained, demonstrations of strength, as if this stronger more dominant being was just overcome with lust and couldn't control itself when it saw her, makes her feel sexy and desired. This is why rape fantasies are common. They don't literally want to be raped, it's more about submission and letting go of control.
>tfw 6 year dry spell
>so lonely
>pls respond
>>31310436
>show her only love
>not caring of losing her
>she gets bored
>leaves
>fuck you buddhism
>life isnt only about love
>yin and yang and shit
>>31310894
>as if this stronger more dominant being was just overcome with lust and couldn't control itself when it saw her, makes her feel sexy and desired
Damn. I've known this for a while, but you've just articulated better than I ever have. Well done.
>>31309474
dang, great feet
>>31310874
Start with meditation
>>31310929
will this do?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pzMhLmErz5Q
>>31310927
Not that I would know :( </3
>>31310823
I fucking hate how entitled girls are man.
I got in a huge argument with some girl because she told me that she used to pick guys up on nights out let them give her massages and then refuse to fuck them.
>>31310938
If you want to...
I personally have never used a guided meditation. My meditation always involves focusing on my breath and then other times focusing intently on a particular concept
I think guided meditations are really only useful for people who don't already know how to meditate
>>31310496
That's a nice song, glad you accidentally posted it.
>>31310995
glad you enjoyed it brah. thats my /drinkhalfabottleofwhiskeytonight/ song
>>31310095
“If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.”
http://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/17212.Marcus_Aurelius
>>31311036
Ill think of this if ever I get stabbed or shot
>>31310830
I might actually use that trip, lol
You can still be ambitious and live a spiritual life
>>31310853
You're welcome. If you want to know more, I started with Eckhart Tolle's "The Power of Now"
>>31310921
Do you think that love simply implies the Hallmark idea of love with chocolates, card, flowers and all of that impermanent crap?
>>31310814
You become at peace with yourself, you start enjoying life more with a smile on your face due to your newfound peace, you go to where the redhead qt3.14s are, you wear that smile and they come to you
>>31310726
You're welcome. My word is not the be all end all. I still have more to learn as I am very young (22). Try to find these truths for yourself by reading, meditating, seeking spiritual guidance, and improving the self however possible
>>31310660
Looks like life handed you something you weren't ready for and now you have to ACCEPT it ;)
>>31310594
Lel. Yeah, my friends call me a granola
>>31311036
DUDE YES. I LOVE MARCUS AURELIUS
"The Emporer's Handbook" is one of the most influential books I have ever laid eyes on and I carry it with me most of the time in my backpack
Y'all niggas need Alan Watts.
https://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/1501668.Alan_W_Watts
>>31311047
distress is emotional, not physical, fucking retard. consider learning literally anything before attempting something like meditations
>>31309589
>That hairline + styled quaf
He should really just be bald.
>>31311202
whoa sounds like you're a little stressed there my friend.
Moar cute redheads
>meet qt3.14
>shes mega into the gym
>dat bf doe
to steal, or not to steal?
>>31310938
Bro Sam Harris is a fedora tipping hack don't listen to anything he says.
>>31311179
>tfw these are just useless platitudes because youll never be able to apply them
>>31311238
Steal.
>>31311238
>>31311238
>>31311179
Was going to post about tfw ex gf will never be in my reality again to witness my gains, but you got me reading Watts, Wilson, and Campbell quotes.
Thanks anon!
>“Belief is the death of intelligence. As soon as one believes a doctrine of any sort, or assumes certitude, one stops thinking about that aspect of existence.”
>>31310135
its actually a east African rock climbing board
>>31310135
You have no idea what you're saying. Literally come here every day for tips on this Sri Lankan skiing enthusiast hotline.
>>31310673
This so much.
I used to be bothered by that shit back when I had bad premature ejaculation, but now that I no longer have that issue and am able to give my girlfriend orgasms I think it's funny when guys try to hit on her.
>>31311425
>east
Fuck off, liar.
>have sex with new girl a few times
>at her place
>Notice an open box of trojan condoms
>not just regular trojans, but magnums
This chick I've been seeing has been single for the last two years. Seems to have a high sex drive, and is very attractive and friendly. I don't want to resent her for having a good sex life, but god damn that bugged the shit out of me. I just wish I didn't see it brehs, I really like her.
How long till she breaks my heart, /fit/?
>>31311552
seems like its already cracking a bit
>>31311262
>>31311297
>>31311312
Steal it is
>>31311340
Robert Anton Wilson on point as always.
"The totally convinced and the totally stupid have too much in common for the resemblance to be accidental." -RAW.
>>31311059
Yes, please start using trips mang
>>31311552
She is banging Jamal and Shaquanzalo X on the side.
>>31309909
Daily reminder that confidence proceeds from success and not the other way around.
>>31311552
I know how it feels anon, same thing happened to me, I was seeing a girl and she was seeing another guy. Its my fault though I should of pushed for more than just sex.
>tfw had a qt readhead gf and lost her due to my insecurity
>now fucking random girls from tinder but still feel empty inside
>still think about her every day
seems like i have a lot of reading to do. thanks, fellow gingerbro, maybe we can doubleteam a hottie some day ;)
>>31311036
It is not things which disturb men's thoughts, but opinions about things.
>>31309514
>come into thread that looks like it has potential
>fucking retard posts first
>there are literally people this stupid walking the same earth as me
Son of a bitch, /fit/.
>>31310095
i do not agree, but for what you typed i think there is a chance you might find truth. heavily on the "might" tho, because you might also find lie. a true lie , that you keep as truth because you came to the conclusion that it was the "truth".
i want to point out that this what you wrote isn't the truth or part of the truth, nor is it a lie or part of the lie, but just an opinion. it might work for one, but not the other.
>>31311634
>>31311612
I don't think she's seeing anyone on the side. She seems really into me and we've been hanging out a lot since meeting. I mean, a sexy woman single in university for 2 years of going to get some action. Obviously. I just really didn't want to see a glimpse of her sexual activity/history.
>>31311552
magnums are normal sized condoms, magnum XL are the bigguns
>>31311612
Lelele
>>31311687
Is your dick big enough? Or are you average peasant mode?
Hehehe funny guy I've never had a gf.
I fall in love only once in my life, she married another man and broke up with me on the phone. I knew that girl for six years. I don't feel anything now, I just want to fuck. I don't really need or want relationships, I'm pretty ok on my own.
>>31311708
7x5.5 she's commented on my size quite a few times actually
>>31311754
Then you're good, unless she was fucking black guys. I don't know something girls fucking black guys in the past turns me off.
>>31310436
Alphas dont accept the world, they make it
>>31309474
Yeah this conversation for me would go:
>i still fucking hate you, i dont give a fuck about you and your body will never impress me
>>31310095
You're pushing your observations and claims onto everyone else. You need to understand that people develop differently. Different problems and different insecurities, as well as life challenges.
Also, you reflect a need to show people your success with self-confidence, I congratulate you on this, however do not respect your assumption that we all have the same problem.
>>31311629
Look up duning-kruger effect
>>31311744
There will be someone who will change your mind sooner or later.
Also sounds like you need to get over the past rather than denying it bothered you. Your actions speak alot.
>>31311781
Because they weren't doing it for any other reason to be purposely abused, while rejecting their birth race?
>>31309617
I got with my oneitis. I'm still Uber into her, but she doesn't realize how much control over me she has. Just whatever you do please establish your own identity and self worth outside of her. I wish I would've done a better job of it.
Since we're getting philosophical, here's this video. It reminds me every time I watch it that I'm capable of more than I believe and that I shouldn't fear rejection and failure
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZUdHX1Bent0
>>31310967
That's not how it works, friend.
>>31310436
>>31310321
>>31310095
>tfw oneitis officially told me she only just wants to be friends a few weeks ago
>absolutely crushed me
>I too would die inside every time she talked to other guys
>she also fucked a few other guys and it made me feel worthless
>i got way too emotionally invested in her and my insecurities were beginning to become foregrounded and visible to her
>tfw oneitis is redhead
>see these posts carrying redheads attached to them
Is this a sign? Will I be able to make it? Will I be able to get over her? Will I ever be able to iron out my inner insecurities and feel good and confident about myself again?
>>31311636
are you me?
>>31311080
hows Meditations?
>>31310818
>tfw finally realize that your face is asymmetrical after 19 years of life
im so lonely lads
>>31309514
Or the room is dark, flash is used, pupils don't adjust fast enough.
>>31309558
its ok bro
i just broke up with my gf a few days ago
>break up with gf
>not sure how im feeling right now
>i feel empty
>lost
>first gf
>last a little over a year
>i cant deal with it
>didnt go to class today
hold me bro
>>31309514
>tfw pupils are usually 100% dilated so you can't see the color of my eyes
I don't know whether my glaucoma has something to do with that or not.
>>31309909
>>31310095
>>31310321
>mfw this loser that couldn't even discipline himself from not going full-blown Alcoholic every time he saw a drink is talking out of his ass and /fit/ betas are eating it up like pudding
>tfw she broke up with me 2 weeks ago
>tfw fucked 2 grills since
>tfw still can't forget her
>>31310083
>implying he's not lifting for dick.
>>31313549
i know that feel
you remember all the good times you spent together
all those happy times
>>31313514
>>31309558
its ok brah you are gonna make it. zyzz said so.
>>31313555
no matter what you do, you'll still feel empty inside
>>31312940
you have two options, grow up and let her go and burn the bridge or keep her as a friend.
Same thing happened to me with this girl, I told her
I can't be friends with her. I don't know if it was the right idea but I have definitely learned a lot from that experience.
>>31309626
she's the one anon go for it
>>31313566
yea
i tried to do all the things i like but i just dont get the same feel from them
i wonder if its like quitting smoking
where im suffering for 3 weeks then i totally forget it ever even happened
i have class in 3 hours and i cant sleep
i miss her touch
her smell
her voice
the great times we spent together
>>31309474
Get your stinking feet off my bed you degenerate whore.
>>31313584
>i miss her touch
>her smell
>her voice
>the great times we spent together
stop making me feel, anon, it hurts
>>31309909
>Seriously. This insecurity of yours is not just about girls. It probably runs a lot deeper than that. Probably a deep rooted shame and a sense of not being good enough in the general sense.
I have been preaching this for years and no one listened to me lol gj for aiding in the fight.
>>31313620
i know bro
im sitting here thinking about how ill never have those times with her again
how she is gone and never going to be in my future
Sometimes I imagine grills like this one lying next to me in bed and I tell them all the autism
>>31313664
I tickle their baginers and sometimes their bellies and they would giggle at me
>break up with gf
>we always eat pizza together, like 1 pizza takeaway per week it was disgusting
>pizza cravings gone, coca cola cravings gone
>all I want to eat is chicken and tuna, genuinely
>for the first time search "eat" to get onto uni e-learning site
>justeat.com not popping up
not much, but it feels nice
![southpark_nice[2].png](https://i.imgur.com/T1Vw1Zf.png "southpark_nice[2].png")
>went to party to people I haven't saw 6 months made 7kg muscle gain in the last 6 months
>have my jacket on all the time
>oh it's hot in here I take of my jacket
>whole room is silence
>"duuuuuuuuude you look like a machine"
>end up in the bed cuddling with a girl she was touching my muscle all the time and kept calling me machine
>>31313736
>made 7 kg muscle mass
>in 6 months
Iktfb, I raised my OHP from 1 to 3 pl8 in the last 3 weeks
>>31313653
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UYPoMjR6-Ao listen to this m8 and feel with me
>>31311059
Please use a trip bro. We need you to counter all the bullshit ideologies here.
>>31313760
>tfw linear gains stop
>only gained 2 pl8s on my bench in the last two weeks
>tfw gonna have to start juicing
Guess I'll hit the natty limit with a mere 9pl8 bench
>>31313765
watching this video
those instruments
reminds me of when i went to some shitty concert with her
it had the weirdest shit ever
3 guys playing drums or something
and some girl playing a xylophone
some artsy music shit
but i was happy just being there with her
>>31310436
Ha ha I know what you've been reading.
Try to be a little bit less faggy.
>>31313798
it was a music class concert thing she had to do for extra credit
>>31312876
Fucking THANK YOU based anon !
>>31313765
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ch6lOKLsHv8
>>31313736
Yamashinu
>>31309558
same with me, 1 month ago, been drinking alot lately.
I just have to get myself to the gym, some day.
>>31310874
Do 8 grams of shrooms. It's crazy, I did it in a hot tub and melted away into a whole nother world
>>31313428
>>31310436
Life is much simpler then that; Life comes down to a balance between two things
>what you want
>what you should
balance those two things and you'll have a good life
>>31312940
>Is this a sign?
If you want it to be, that's the good shit about motivation
>Will I be able to make it?
If you keep at it
>Will I be able to get over her?
So long as you're asking yourself this question you're not over her.
>Will I ever be able to iron out my inner insecurities and feel good and confident about myself again?
Not before you learn to live and deal with it, when you learn to live and deal with it the insecurities start to fade but acceptance of them comes first.
>>31313514
protip
go to class
if you're at home and doing nothing all you'll think of is her
if you go to class you'll have a distraction.
You don't want to go to class because memories are all you have from her now but that shit aint healthy
>>31310507
Brah, you are me 3 months ago. Just let it go already.
>tfw virgin GF that lifted, cooked, baked, drove me around and everything
>i'm her first, feel special and shit
>be together for 1.5 years but we grow apart
>i end it but instantly regret it trying to get her back
>she is writing with somone else the same day, fuck the guy 1 week later and enter an relationship in less than 3 months of time
>they are both rebounds getting together (know the guy)
>but i actually genuinely want them to be happy together
>tfw i want him not to fuck up like me and bring back the old sweet her i once loved
She was the definition of "perfect" girl in my opinion. But one day i realized... i didn't have any feelings left for her. It was my ego that wanted her back. My ego still sometimes reminds me how i fucked up, but then i just calm down and really think about how the relationship was the last 2 months.
>TLDR; Dont regret ANYTHING. Keep moving on brah.
>>31313946
im going to bed now
appreciate the help
>>31311636
Why on earth are you fucking complaining?
>tfw chance to date friends ex
im so ronery but don't want to mess up my friendship. is it really not cool to date a friends ex?
>>31312940
holy fuck brah just went through the same thing, but she's not redhead.
hadn't spoken to her in two years and I just went in too deep emotionally so soon
well I went in deep physically too but still
>>31309914
i lol'd
>>31314446
>is it really not cool to date a friends ex?
Yeah, it's a dick move.
>>31314446
Speak to him about it, if it had been a while and he dumped her then he might be ok about it.
Make sure to use the term "weiner cuz" to sweeten the deal to him
>>31314490
crap.
>>31314533
she dumped him like 2 years ago.
all these feels...
>>31314555
For two years I'd still check with him first.
Even if he dumped her most people still frown upon it, and he would have dumped her for a reason, no?
>>31314282
because i miss her so fucking much
it's fucking awful but fascinating at the same time: when i see her in uni/ somewhere randomly i get the biggest adrenaline rush imaginable, i get tunnel vision and my heart starts to race. i even experienced physical pain when she sat close to me and i could smell her parfume, lol
think i need to chill more.
>>31314446
unless it's like 1-2 yrs down the road, it comes off as you wanting to be with her the whole time, which comes off as being untrustworthy as fuck
and i bet you are, you fucking faggot. do it because your friend doesnt deserve faggots like you
>>31310436
>To this woman. You owe her your deepest gift. Your deepest love. Your focus on the relationship should be about her, about WHAT CAN YOU GIVE TO HER
fuck off you pussy pedestal faggot.
>>31311552
She may use it with her toys.
Or fucking someone else, you'll never know.
>>31314617
rekt
they haven't been together for 2 years like i said. i know he had feels for her after their breakup but not so sure anymore. and if he still has feels i wont do anything,
>>31311425
>mongolian ice skating consortium
>have oneitis for one girl real bad
>been this way for over a year
>I've asked her out before but she casually changes the subject and won't really answer yes or no
>been fucking semi decent girls for months but they all eventually annoy me, and the only passion I feel is fucking them and having them feel me up
>I purposely go to events that my oneitis has rsvpd on facebook, just so I have an excuse to see her without seeming needy
>we went to a trivia night together for a work thing(I invited her)
>Afterwards she was talking to my friend from work and it made me jealous, but I didn't say or do anything
>eventually I get semi drunk and just talking to random people
>she asks me to take her home
>o-ok, we may have to wait an hour before I can drive though
>'can we go get something nice to eat then?'
>o-ok!
>walk with her pretty awkward
>she asks me if I liked any of the girls from work
>feels like friendzone
>say nope
>she says they all seem like sports bimbos. (yup, they are)
>find a nice place
>get food
>we talk a little, not much, pretty awkward
>Decide to muster up the courage, and who cares if I get turned down, I'm going for it
>'So, is this like a date?'
>'kind of, I suppose. Do you think it's a date?'
>fuck women are weird with this shit
>'Yeah, feels like a date'
>she smiles. Feels good
>talk a little more
>time to go home
>she asks to see my unit(I'd just moved)
>take her
>she says 'how many girls have you brought back here?' While laughing
>'you're the first' a lie
>she lays down on my bed
>she looks at me with a smile and says 'I'm going to stay the night', and then before I could say anything she laughs and says 'I'm not that easy Pete!'
>she stands up and says she had a nice night and I should take her home
>she talks a little bit about my gym stuff, not much. She's pretty smart and doesn't like the whole gym scene
>drop her off at home
>she pecks me on the cheek
>Next day I text her once, just asking how her day was
>no response
>this was a week ago
>>31314846
God, this is awful.
Only had one gf for 3 years, broke up a year ago, and I don't even want to see a woman for anything more elaborate than sex. Too much comitment for to little reward.
>>31313265
Not that anon but it's personally my favorite
>>31314846
You must have been prwtty awkward for her to 180 like that. Not cool of her though. Don't waste your time with that shit. She'll never be faithful to anyone until her looks fade.
>>31314846
split her head open with a claw hammer.
>>31311231
>>31311080
>>31311059
>>31310974
>>31310929
>>31310643
>>31310436
>>31310321
>>31311252
pls dont curse your children with freckles
>>31314702
Don't get nowhere near her, mate.
Even if he says it's ok, it's not.
does anyone else here still dream about having sex with their Ex?
its been maybe 7 years since we broke up. I really dont even find her atractive anymore
but I keep dreaming I'm forced to hang out with her family, etc, and I just end up having sex with her. It's really casual...and intense...and fuck it...damn
>>31314958
Yup. I have two kinds of dreams. Really boring, mundane ones and ones where we're still together.
>>31310095
I fucking love /fit/
>>31314880
I'm not an awkward guy, that's the thing. It's just this one fucking girl does my head in, I'm like in love with her or something, I think about her all the time, even after I fuck other girls I think about her and it's like I feel bad or something, because I know she doesn't like that kind of thing(sleeping around), it's like i've been mentally attached to her for months and months. I met her like 2 years ago because we have friends in common, and I fucked her like 6 months after that, and the next day she like freaked out and said all this shit about hating herself for doing it and how she'd only had sex with 1 other dude.
I feel like she secretly loves me, but won't say anything or something, or she is just purposely fucking with me because she knows I'm in love with her, or this is like some huge test she has been pulling on me, and she will only date me when I pass the test.
Pic related, girl on the left, my 9/10 oneitis, inb4 slut, inb4 ugly.
>>31314958
Sometimes I dream about talking and laughing besides her.
It ruins my fucking week.
>>31314980
do you think I hould contact her?
not about sex. but we ended up really bad. huge fight. over the years we've talked maybe 2-4 times. very brief. things were cordial . but I still feel like apologizing.. or telling her I dont hate her?
maybe it's an awful idea. I guess part of me doesn't want to go to my grave knowing someone out there thinks I hate them
>>31310874
LSD
S
D
>>31315004
That's up to you. If you think getting it off your chest will help you, do it.
>>31315040
it might be a really bad idea. i mean she's in a new relationship now. im married. i dont want to messup either of our lives
>>31314992
go for the shot anon. you need to seal the deal
good luck
>captcha wnmen
>>31312798
I'm taking damage control by completely ignoring her
>tfw I know it's stupid to still like her after 2 years of not talking and it's a struggle between mind and emotions
>>31314992
She's got issues and what I said still stands. Prettu girls do not value commitment like someone who has to work for affection. She's not good for a relationship. You're not even together and she's driving you crazy.
It's not healthy, this "oneitis" shit. Drop it.
>>31315078
I don't want to text her again out of fear of looking needy/desperate.
Is this a test? Is she wanting to see if I love her or something?
Why won't she respond?
Why is she doing this to me?
>>31315099
it's hard.
>>31315068
How bad is this nagging at you? What's worse, the consequences of saying something or her thinking you hate her. Talk to a mutual friend if there are any.
>>31314992
nigga no girl is worth fucking ur self ovr. a pussy is a pussy unless a girl is stretched out to shit. that girl in your pic doesnt even have a slammin' enough body to warrant any futher lust.
then you have to deal with her personality, which you admit, is fucking skeevy and a bit evil. do you really want that negative energy in your life.
hell even if this girl was an amazing person and a great friend to you, you've already fucked it all up by pusssy-toeing around for so long.
YA BLEW IT
move on
>>31315029
this right hurr
>>31315138
you must have been pretty fucking awkward.
stop masturbating a few days prior to meeting her
>>31309514
>dark room
>relaxed
>probably skyping someone they find attractive
Since we are feeling here, there is something I wanted to share with you guys.
>there is this girls I feelposted on fit earlier
>couldn't tell if she liked me or not
>5 weeks and only 6 dates
>almost no phisical contact
>just soft kiss when saying goodbye a couple of times
>started to get feels, wanted her badly
>she doesn't seem to be into my as much as I'm into her
>one night it changes, comes at my place all kissy and cuddly
>next night we fuck, she stays till morning
>spend another night together
>tfw now officialy dating
>start to get the feel that I rushed into this
>think I don't like her THAT much
>start to find faults with her
>what the fuck is wrong with me?
>>31314846
It's because you lied to her and she knows it. Girls talk and word travels fast, she probably likes you but you have a reputation. She doesn't want to be one of those girls that you bang and leave.
>>31312940
I was gonna tell you to get the fuck over it, but then I realized I'm not over my oneitis who is also a redhead.
Hear this, my brothers, some anon recommended it weeks ago and I can't thank him enough. Good stuff.
>>31315270
I got this oretty often, maybe there's something inside you that doesn't want you to be happy, or maybe you care too much about her without even knowing, and you don't want to let her down, because you know you're a pice of shit, and the only way to not let her down is to not get closer to her. Is she your first girl?
>>31315319
Fucking forgot the link http://youtu.be/jmJgdQwrG1Y
>you think I'm big? You should see my new high test gf
>>31314846
Sounds like you're too thick to realize that any response that a woman gives that isn't a yes is a no. The only reason she was even leading you on that night was because she liked the attention, not because she liked you.
You're not really even human to this girl. You're more like a cute puppy dog. That's all you'll ever be, so it's better to just stop being around her.
>>31315356
Not my first girl, I'm 26 and had long term relationships, but I've been single for the last 2 years with very few occasional sex. I've been actively looking for a girl the last year, I've tried dating 9 grills from dating sites or facebook, but things never got past 3-4 dates, I didn't feel like I could connect with any of them, she is the only one that I actualy liked. I don't think I care too much of her as I don't seem to get to emotional with women because of the past experiences.
>>31310673
this only works for a couple months
source: I'm good at sex, oral champion and thick dick, made her cum every time, made her do stuff she never tried before and loved it
they broke up with me after i got out of the hospital for appendicitis while doing research in the arctic
i hate her
i hate her forever
