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>330lbs loser with no future or dreams
>find /fit/, motivated to seriously change one last time before suicide
>get a job, enroll in college, fix acne and teeth and poor hygiene, star lifting and counting calories
>year and a half later down to 185lbs, appear reasonably normal in clothes and normies always comment on me looking big despite being less than unremarkable by /fit/ standards
>insecure out of clothes, loose skin's a bitch. Think a gf is out of the equation because of it and being a 26 year old kissless virgin
>finish program preqs, get accepted (medical field)
>class is mostly practical, and developing the skills requires a partner. 90% of the class is grills, so I go ahead and ask a short, blonde qt3.14 if she wants to work on the skills together
>have no expectations and act normally. All that time in the gym around scantily clad fit girls seems to have inhibited my spaghetti receptors
>acting normally means cracking jokes, smiling, listening... acting like a normal human being. Turns out she enjoyed the time more than I realized
>invites me to her house for a movie
>my time on /fit/ leads me to believe this can only mean one thing
>fuck it, make a move to kiss her
>making out for the first time in my life, feel this burning, tingling sensation in my penis that I've never experienced before
>she breaks contact for a moment, I suspect my shoddy form has ruined the moment
>old me would've been making apologies and begging for forgiveness at this point
>look her in the eyes with the warmest look I can manage and wait
>tells me she really likes me
>wait
>tells me she's really into me
>wait
>tells me she's virgin
>>34916247
Well now. Next step is learning to cope with partner loss. All relationships have and end. After you experience that and survive you'll be golden.
I tell you this since you say you're 26 without any experience on this ever.
>>34916247
That's pretty awesome bro. Keep it up.
>>34916247
>think about confessing sins and bitching out, but it doesn't feel right anymore
>respond to it like it's just a weight that needs to be lifted
>work on getting her naked
>she gets my shirt off
>make no apologies for lose skin, don't even mention it
>it's really fucking bad, too
>about to get her pants off when we hear the car in the driveway
>her parents are home
>get dressed, fear I've lost my only chance
>invites me to stay for dinner
>set up a real, normal human date that night
>during the date she asks me about the skin
>tell her it can't be that bad if she's here
>laughs, doesn't push it
>end up with a qt3.14 virgin gf who seems to be way more into the relationship than I am
>seriously, I think she loves me
Maybe I could never meet /fit/ standards physically speaking, but getting really is about personality and confidence I've learned. Skills I've developed thanks to /fit/.
We're all gonna make it bros
>>34916247
alright op way to go!
>be tfw no gf pro member
>meet qt 3.14 red head in chemistry
>we become bretty gud friends
>she introduced me to her roommate recently
>her roommate is a perisan qt 3.14 and super cool
we've been texting since we met and I asked her if she wanted to go to some really nice french place to eat but she had to work. A-am I doing good?
>>34916314
>gf who seems to be way more into the relationship than I am
Fix this. Thank me later.
>>34916334
Fix it how? I mean, I'm thrilled for us but she's over the moon. Do I just get on her level?
>>34916247
good on you my man seems what your doing is workin! hope it works out for you/glad you have been able to turn your life around
>>34916349
You have to make her thrilled too. A relationship is a two-members thing. If one of the parties gets bored or loses faith on it, it's pretty much over.
I think many believe that relationships end because of a fight but in my experience they rarely do. I mean, everyone gets angry and this things are bound to happen. When someone breaks it up after a fight they already had the plan and just found the perfect excuse.
In essence, I think boredom and passiveness are the worst sins in a relationship.
>>34916247
Listen to
>>34916303
It's very true and it'll suck. Unless you stay together forever.
>>34916247
>inhibited my spaghetti receptors
Laugh in full power
worked out with zach zeiler today & he complimented me on my form
: ' )
I'm so fucking happy for you op. You're story is the definition of making it to me
>>34916247
Good to hear this anon. godspeed
>at party, 3 am, pretty drunk
>some drunk dyel guy decides to take off his shirt
>convinces me to do the same
>before I know it there's 7-8 guys and even 3 girls around me dancing with their shirts off
>have grills touch my arms and shoulders complimenting my body
>feels good man
Keep lifting, you never know when you get a chance to show off your body
Yes bro, you made it.
>>34916247
Brought a legit tear to my eyes anon. Genuinely happy to see success stories like this pay off. Congrats you deserve it.
>Theres this one petite blonde qt3.14 womanlet in my Uni
>Always tease her for being short
>Send her a picture of a dwarf someone placed in the building and ask her what she's doing there
>See her right after and she jumps at me trying to attack me playfully
>Restrain her with zero effort and hold her from behind
>she asks me if I am able to push her up like that
>Grab her by her sides and OHP her easily even though she is +10kg of my normal lift
>Says "getting picked up like that feels good anon"
>Sperg internally and say goodbye after chatting for a few more Minutes
>Head back to class
That feel, she makes my knees go weak
>Dating beautiful girl.
>Love her. Love her family. Think this is it.
>After 2 years, she breaks up with me out of the blue.
>Devastated, but immediately try to soldier on and get my life together.
>mfw I realize that I am attracting much hotter women because I never stopped working out while we were together
>mfw she texts me wanting me back
>>34919956
How do you OHP a girl? How do you grab her?
>>34920034
One hand on her coochie and one on her throat.
>>34919993
Fuck her but don't get back together
Let her know she's just another random slut to you now
>>34920043
Thanks anon, will try
>girl breaks up with me
>says i won't commit, she wants kids, etc etc
>get mad about it for some reason
>order $2000 engagement ring off ebay
>text her and ask if she is sure she doesn't love me anymore
>she says there is no chance we ever get back together
>take picture of ring with the appraisal sheet
>appraisal values are bullshit, made for insurance purposes
>says ring is worth like $17,000 lol
>also has appraisal date of 7 months ago
>send her the picture of the ring next to the sheet that says it is worth $17000 and that I bought it 7 months before
>tell her she is an idiot
>she starts blowing up my phone
>says she made a mistake
>this changes everything
>lol
>mfw i ignore her calls forever
>>34920062
>>34920062
oh, also, i returned the ring for a full refund haha
>>34920062
>>34920074
D E V I L I S H
>>34916334
>>34916349
don't listen to this kek, right now you're going down the alpha road
keep going and you'll end up with a submissive gf
do what he says and you'll end up a kek
>>34920062
So you didn't want to commit after all? You sound like a petty cunt tb-h. I don't understand why you would want to waste so much time on a boring prank.
>>34920062
are we supposed to think you're the one on top here?
all i see is a beta faggot bent on making other people look stupid
get your shit together, anon
>>34920062
It was a trap, anon, and you escaped with flying colors. Ignore these other beta losers. Live life free. Marriage and kids will be the END of your life. She will make your life hell and divorce you later for half your shit. Be free. Pump and dump
>>34920062
people replying negatively to this are insecure women
>cute girl in one of my classes emails me via school emails to ask for notes despite us never talking
>she asks for my number
>texts are always full of compliments of how smart i am
>sits really close to me in hallway before class, practically leaning on me
>shares her headsets with me compulsively so that we can listen to music together
>one day she misses class and texts me and asks for notes, i tell her that i was gonna take a nap but now I gotta take notes, so she owes me one
>"of course anon whatever u want!!! :)))))))"
>initiates a lot of physical contact, hugging me and touching my arms a lot
A lifetime of being a fat, ugly loser has given me programming such that I only just pieced together she may have been hitting on me. I thought she just had a bubbly personality.
I'm fucking retarded, guys.
>>34920757
we all did that at some point in our lives
for me it was at 15y/o
but that doesn't really matter, what matter is that from now on it won't happen again
>>34920798
Thanks friend. We're still in a class together and she's still just as affectionate, so maybe I oughta use that favor she owes me and ask her out for coffee.
>>34920757
She could just be using you for notes, but, what does a loser like me know?
>>34920798
I know that feel anon
>told myself id never let it happen again that I'd pay attention
>its happened since then
> several times
fuck
>>34920838
This was what I originally thought, honestly. Part of me still believes it, honestly.
>>34920857
>honestly
>honestly
fuck, i'm tired brehs
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>>34920798
>>34920757
Wake the fuck up, fat boy. That chick is just using you. Yes, that's right. Using you for your rugged charm and huge penis.
>in high school, 11th grade hugless virgin
>have to move to another school because of family problems
>this is a new school so no one knew I was autistic as fuck
>the third day there two girls literally ask me for my number straight up and I don't know what to do
>just give them my phone and manage to say, "u-uh yea just p-put it in there haha!"
>get home and start texting them
>after a couple days of texting and interacting in school I realize I have these bitches wrapped around my finger
>this makes me feel pretty alpha, and I know I can do pretty much whatever I want
>one day I'm texting them and they are together
>they say that are watching a movie in their underwear because "it's hot ;) ;D" (emojis didn't exist then)
>ask them if I can see
>below average nudes ensue
>when I see them at school again they ask if I want to come to the movies with them
>agree and go
>watch movie, don't pay attention at all, just focused on getting that pussy
>movies over, go back to one of their houses
>the girls actually convinced her mom that I was gay because I was /fit/ and had "good looks" so she let me spend the night
>shit happens, end of story I lost my virginity to two whores and it was pretty good tbqh family
I suck at greentext but oh well.
>>34921470
holy shit mane
>>34921470
>the girls actually convinced her mom that I was gay because I was /fit/ and had "good looks" so she let me spend the night
Tfw /fit/ stereotypes are true
>>34919956
Your story makes me happy anon
>>34917076
Why does he have that stupid rat tail?
girls are so friendly now, it has to be cause im more fit or something.
thing is, im 30. I look younger than I am though, is it too late to take advantage of my gains? I dont want to settle down yet. still, people treat you so much better when you are fit, it's amazing.
I dont lift for girls but that in itself is motivation to get better and better.
>>34921470
You had a threesome? Way to go dude
I'm making all kinds of personal improvements at the moment and even after a day of dealing with shit, the knowledge that I'm going to be a better person in the future is comforting.
>>34916303
I'm going through being dumped by my first love of 3 years
Its been 3 months now how the fuck do you deal with it???
I've tried sleeping around but its not making me feel any better about it
>>34925949
the future becomes reality so much faster than you think. Never give up bro
>>34925973
lel
how was sleeping around supposed to help?
Come on son, the only thing that fixes that sort of shit is time and self-reflection.
Was the relationship truly over? Was this a long time coming, with this just being the straw that broke the camels back? Are you sure you would have even worked out? Now you have the time to reflect on all of it.
Don't forget to take off the nostalgia goggles, she did decide to dump you. Never forget that.
Also work to be the most successful and best version of yourself you can be. It won't get her back but it will help get your confidence back.
Heres a gay little quote: I'll never have that same love twice, but statistically some loves are just as nice.
>>34921470
You forgot:
>then I woke up
Here is my feel:
just posted my progress on the 6 month anniversary of lifting seriously. Two anons said it was good progress! :)
>>34926386
you started at 90pounds OHP? I just started OHP and I'm struggling at 75pounds
>>34926459
Thats where I started this progression.
I had come back on from a few months of lifting after about a year off, and my OHP has always been pretty good.
Watch this video
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sqKhLR1zRaU
shit changed my life
>>34916247
OP.. You made it
Dont ever slip m8. Keep going.
>>34916332
Yes! Did she set up a second time or?
>>34926386
Second anon here, glad i made you happy
>>34926386
How the hell? Took me a year to get those lifts (my DL is better but bench is worse). Does cutting from 330 pounds screw you over or am I just shit?
>>34920581
>show up at mom's house to spend the day with my little sister
>mom instantly in shock at my gains
>feeling up pecs saying she wants to send a picture to my aunt
Family mirin feels great because they're the most candid with you and you know others are thinking the same privately.
>>34926334
>how was sleeping around supposed to help?
I really don't know, I've never felt like this before in my whole life. Shit is awful
She basically left me for someone else. There's no way in hell I ever want her back but fuck my confidence has gone to shit on top of all the pain. It felt so out of the blue.
>>34926468
That guy had some good info but I felt like the autismo was very strong in him.
>>34916332
Probably just rejected you, unless she actively tries to find another time that works
> doing bench
> but on plates for warm up
> seam kinda heavy, but continue
> take of plates, reconize I but on 25 kg plates, I usually start with 20 kg plates
> was doing at the end 100 kg for reps
Feels good man.
>>34927187
He wrote the Texas method book. Very knowledgable guy
>>34920062
Y'know girls usually end relationships because they think you're not attracted to them any more, right? So the ring literally does change everything, because she was assuming you meant it.
>>34916247
Oh shiiiiiiiiiit. Nigger hit the jackpot
>3 months no contact with women (apart from cashiers, really)
>go bar hopping with my main man vern & some random sloots
>sloot starts grinding mahdeek
>we walk home, i lift her up, she squeals
>wants another ride on mr bones
>fireman carry her all the way home
>underage&drunk so 2risk4me, didnt fuk
>spent last months thinking I was a fucking gobbit-esque figure
>perhaps thats not the case
>tfw hardly spoke more than 4 or 5 sentences to her
>>34920798
>happened several times
>tfw a 21 KV
>/fit i suck at talking to girls, even with the benefit of text messages
>most think im fucking weird, those who stick around long enough say im really sweet, but guess what?
>friend zone
>This week start messaging girl
>she puts up with my bullshit
>we were talking about movies, she eventually states "i spent 10 minutes thinking of how to casually invite you over, but i cant. Will you watch it with me?"
>review conversation to this point, realize she was dropping clues the whole time
>Accept, we doing it thursday night
I suck at talking to girls. But im tired of falling on that, Im nervous as shit for this thursday, but in a good way. Regardless of what happens, Im going in a direction of finding someone.
>>34929119
Don't be nervous.
>can't remeber the last time I've talked to a female that was not my mother
Well fug.
>>34916247
MY NIGGA
MY NIGGA
GREAT SHIT.
>cashier tells me to have a nice day
>I don't
>>34916349
Grats on your success man but don't listen to the loser quoted below.
>>34916334
You are fucking retarded, the person with the most power in a relationship is the person who cares the least and is willing to walk away first. Stay furious keyboard virgin.
>>34916247
Well done bro
You're making it
>>34916386
AHAHAHAHAHAH
KYS YOU FUCKING IGNORANT SHIT
>>34916386
>He doesn't know about the Captain/First mate dynamic
Stay below 5 sexual partners and 2 Long Term Relationships faggot.
>>34929235
Well done anon, well done. Don't let anyone tell you what to do.
>>34916386
Can someone please tell him.
>Tfw never had a gf
>Tfw starting to attract a grill who's giving me all the positive signs (touches me for a bit too long, cuddles with me etc)
>Tfw she has a nice fit body but a somewhat ugly face, all together about 6/10
>Tfw really want to fuck her but I know it's not going to work out in the long run
>Tfw not thinking with the right head
penis
