Hipster hobbies edition. You know what to do.
>>9094153
My friends have called me hipster jokingly in the past but I just got into lolita and now all my hobbies really do come off as special snowflake faggotry...
>>9094153
This doesn't sound too cringe-worthy. These "i smoke n swear n drink in lolita" types are way worse.
>>9094153
>>9094174
I don't think it's the hobbies themselves that make people cringe, it is the air of how speshul it is to do such speshul things 'whilst befrilled'
>>9094186
I always think these types belong in a pirate coord at a Rennfaire. It's embarrassing to be around these types out in public, I avoid them so I'm glad they boast about it so I know in advance.
>>9094186
Shes saying it like wearing lolita is sort of mask and shes so crazy and unlolita like outside the frill. As though its this great secret or shit.
>>9094186
>"whilst befrilled"
>not cringey
Seriously?
>>9094186
I personally found the way she types to be the most cringe. Like I can hear a fake British accent speaking it.
That ddlg over at RC:U who spent an hour explaining how she "has to tell literally everyone about her kink to respect her daddy" turns out to not even wear lolita. Wtf was she doing on that group in the first place?
https://youtu.be/06djK_4Uk40 @ 7:43
> "Do you have an actual job outside YouTube?"
> proceeds to flip out about how ~YouTube is an actual job~
You completely took it the wrong way, Batty. Chill the fuck out.
>>9094703
Forgot to add that she didn't even bother to answer the question because of how rustled her jimmies were.
>>9094703
Because she's lazy as fuck. If it weren't for her poor boyfriend paying for everything she'd be on the streets.
>>9094692
Shameless need for attention? Assumed lolita = ageplay/fetish? Both?
>>9094731
maybe her daddy "made" her do it, yknow, to respect their relationship
>>9094692
Wait what? She has to do what?
>>9094734
both
>>9094692
>has to tell literally everyone about her kink to respect her daddy
Hope that everyone includes her family, workmates and friends. Or just it just pertain to people she thinks will encourage her unwanted TMI?
>>9094741
Nope. When there are real life consequences to her involving the nonconsenting public it doesn't count.
>>9094692
HOLY SHIT I need caps of this stat!
>>9094761
I got you anon. So it began with the usual tripe on RC:U. Another bland, overdone topic.
>>9094774
She started out fairly innocuous. She'll be red, everyone else is grey.
>>9094692
I've got mutual friends with this person. She isn't a lolita, but a fetish performer or something. I met her at a party once, and I can guarantee that she's as big of an attention whore as she looks. Her boyfriend is also one of those super tryhard in-your-face satanist types.
>>9094776
Then things started getting a little weird.
>>9094781
People understandably start having a problem with it.
>>9094776
>>9094781
>"i don't get why people push their fetishes into people's faces"
>proceeds to explain the fetish in waaaay too much detail
Amazing
>>9094794
I'm only capping her thread in the comments the rest is pretty bland, though if anyone wants Survivor-chan's stuff let me know. It's probably the only thing of interest other than this shit.
>>9094692
First checked her location, whew not near me, Florida. Second, her daddy is a dipshit. 3rd, y'all in that thread that did not just say, 'no, shut up...' let it become a big fat topic.
s m h
>>9094706
Because she doesn't. Sorry, maid cafe play-acting doesn't count either.
>>9094801
Survivor chan was over-share too. TMI, the whole topic.
>>9094780
her fb has a photo of her and bf kissing while he gives the camera the middle finger
>EDGE
>>9094812
You'd have more friends if you didn't try and cram your fetish onto other people, idiot.
>>9094801
>they dare not cross him
I do not want to see this anywhere outside of a Charles Dickens novel holy shit
>>9094806
Her dom seeks out stupid girls. he's borderline abusive. I've seen first hand how he treated his ex. He's an egotistical asshole.
>>9094822
Aren't most male "doms" like that anyway? Not actual doms, but "doms" who are only in to control someone else and don't understand that the sub is actually in control of the whole thing.
Also, caps are done unless anyone wants Survivor-chan's shit too.
>>9094820
She's never made an effort to contact anyone in my local comm. I've never ever seen her wear or even talk about lolita until now, but I don't really *try* to talk to her.
>>9094781
yet again with the "I've been into lolita 4evers!!"
Speaking of ageplay, please don't use baby bottle phone case while in lolita.
>>9094828
You don't even know real doms ARE doms unless you are in the lifestyle. The good ones, anyway.
>>9094821
>so much edge
>>9094781
Here's the thing guys, I'm going to disrespect you here right off by puking my kink all over you but then lecture you about respect.
Wat?
>>9094831
At least you know to watch for her now to keep her out.
>>9094774
Is anyone else creeped out by this dude?
I've also seen a lot of other male profiles with nothing indicating an intrest in lolita and no friends lately.
>>9094901
That's Funk Brothers. Tripfag here. He's a brolita. Ugly but harmless.
>>9094846
I don't even wear lolita (like the clothes but cosplay is expensive enough, I just look at the cute coords) and I just had to read this story. I'm dead.
>>9094822
All doms are abusive end of discussion
>There are people on here right now who don't see the connection between lolita, ageplay, and DDLG.
>>9095023
They all pretty much derived from the same thing.
>>9094790
The world is so full of a number of things... including hypocrisy.
(Your post made me lol.)
Her grammar kills me.
>>9095110
>let's have a photoshoot where we wear lolita wrong/don't wear lolita!
>no itas
>>9095118
I think she means no calling people itas, or calling dresses lace monsters.
>>9095110
She sounds like she's 14
>>9094840
Ew wtf
>>9095110
I hope someone actually spoke up and said NO.
We don't spend thousands to achieve an aesthetic just to toss it because someone can't get themselves together enough to get it right.
>>9095110
Honestly I like lolita because of how restricting the rules are.
Go find another fashion to ~be creative~ in.
>>9095023
There are people on here who want to enjoy their frilly fashion groups free of those connections. Since when is anyone's psychosexual profile (kinky or not) considered polite social conversation? I don't want to hear any of it.
>>9095136
He was just being on-topic about the cringe thing.
>>9094703
Haha holy shit I remember watching this and laughing my ass off at that part. Her poor bf is just a human tripod-piggy bank combo for her.
>>9095009
Thats rustling my jimmies anon. You should reconsider your opinion. Maybe branch out a bit.
>>9095141
Oh I didn't say he was wrong or posting inappropriately just that my opinion is that (outside discussions like this) I don't want Freud stirring my tea at the tea party, connection or no. If I didn't want to discuss this, it's my job to close the thread and quit reading. Different comms have different ways but there are many that really don't want TMI personal AnyThing aired at a comm meet where we gather for simple fun and light conversation.
>>9095159
Then stay rustled, if you care so much about what people think about your kink it confirms that it is fucked up and it embarrasses you.
>>9095204
That's not at all how it works but okay.
>>9094810
I think Im out of the loop - who is Survivor chan?
>>9094794
>collars are ita
i'm dying
>>9095253
She got the boot from RC:U.
>>9095204
Then stay rustled, if you care so much about what people think about the way you dress it confirms that it is fucked up and it embarrasses you.
Your logic isn't very sound anon.
>>9095326
>
shut up about your gross fucking fetish anon please
>>9095337
not the same anon, just think you sound stupid pissing on others when by your logic you're just as fucked up as they are
>>9094186
I always wonder why other people think it's their business if I smoke in my brand.
I ain't selling it so frill off with your salty self.
>>9095350
if you're not selling it then good. now I don't have to think about that and I can just focus on is why the fuck you're smoking, 'cause it ain't kawaii to have cancer lungs, you smell, your teeth are yellow, and you've got a disgusting addiction. :)
>>9094801
It's like she knows he's an abusive shit. But has to defend him because it's what she believes the kink is. Like the way she talks about her friends. She recognizes that him not allowing her out is likely fucked up. But rationalizes it as "Oh well I have anxiety so it's k.
>>9095365
You answered yourself.
Because it's an addiction.
I whiten my teeth nonstop though.
>>9095395
He has daughters and he's into this shit? Fucking gross.
>>9095340
not even the original anon arguing you idiot
>>9095288
Why? I thought it was a place for discussion
>>9095398
Barfinganimegirl.jpg
>>9095413
the gross girl got the boot, not the one saying collars were ita
>>9094703
>i know you're not trying to be rude
>but you are rude
>i consider this rude
HOW DARE YOU BE SO RUDE, I WORK SO HARD PLANNING MY VIDEOS
face book 4everanimefanclub/videos/1331215673574672/
Thoughts?
>>9095452
Then why are they 'lol, so randumb?'
I really wonder this though and have thought, "she rambles so badly, why not plan a little?"
>>9095350
I don't care a bit if you aren't doing it near me, aren't holding up a meet while you go suck a butt and aren't trying to sell without saying you are a smoker. I don't like sitting by smokers though because of the smell.
>>9095461
Because she's obviously as good at planning as she is at doing her eyebrows and eye shadow..
>>9095460
H-h-h-hoooly shit this is embarrassing. At the least they all know the dance pretty well? Idk. This is cringe as fuck.
>>9095398
She's not really getting anywhere, she just keeps saying the same stupid things over and over.
>>9094828
>unless anyone wants Survivor-chan's shit too
What's this? I'm curious
>>9095398
>They like to be all "I'M A LITTLE AND VERY SEXUAL LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT IT!!!"
>I'm...very sexual about [my "kitten space"], because I am an EXTREMELY sexual person
????
>>9094692
She overdraws her lips so much, just awful.
The closest thing to j fashion she's ever worn in her photos are shitty seifukus.
>>9095586
That made me laugh too.
Like don't try to defend how respectful you are to others when you write an entire paragraph going on about how sexual you are.
>>9095395
So lolita is apparently gross to him because he has daughters but definitely not the whole daddy dom thing. Alright.
>>9095633
I'm wondering if she thinks Lolita is a lifestyle where you dress up like a little girl and have your boyfriend abuse you?
The only reason I can think of anyone being "grossed out" by Lolita is if they conflate it with DD/LG
>>9095633
Fathers who get turned on when they're called daddy should have their kids taken from them. Fuckin nasty.
I liked how she says when ppl see Lolita they automatically assume its a dd/lg thing.
This probably why she thought ppl would be comfortable with her shit.
>>9095668
His kids don't live with him, and I'm not sure how often he sees them. I think he gets his subs pregnant and then moves on. I've never aren't pictures of the other two, just of the one he had with his ex.
>>9094840
Ageplayer or not, this girl's coords are fucking amazing.
>>9095714
I wouldn't call it amazing
>>9095009
Research more on Doms before you assume
Someone up for the job?>>9095715
>>9095750
>>9095748
Not that anon but agreed, Doms are abusive. Pulling the "do your research" card is such a cliche with you kinksters nowadays
>>9095757
So tell me how they are abusive?
two consenting adults that agree to the lifestyle they want, is that abusive?
>>9095757
It's like >>9094842 and >>9094828 pointed out, doms that understand consent and all are fine, but unfortunately there are a lot of abusive people who get into the scene just so they can be dicks and get away with it.
The core of what a dom is isn't abusive, but shit like 50 Shades and general misconceptions of BDSM brought up a lot of nasty people out.
>>9095398
People that tell other people that they're hyper sexual make me want to vomit. It's the go-to explanation for someone being a gross "I'm not like the others!!!!" piece of shit.
>>9095759
A relationship where someone actually can't do something without asking the other is abusive.
It may be a power play thing but in the end it's innapropriate and belongs in the bedroom, not infringing on every day life.
>>9095778
Are you really using that chick as a proper example of a D/S relationship?
>>9095759
Agreeing to an abusive lifestyle doesn't not it not abusive.
>>9095750
>>9095707
wtf deets?
>>9095822
>implying shes knows everything
>>9094781
This that person that apparently just got removed from the group?
I hate how Littles always have to be the most unashamed, open creeps about their fetish and wear it like a badge with zero self-awareness. It also doesn't help that it has incredibly pedophilic themes and is literally everything lolitas don't want to be associated with.
>>9095763
I hate people that call themselves hyper sexual but...don't know what hyper sexuality is. It means you believe it's all you're worth and thus use it as your go to for attention like, they complimented me better fuck them or they'll hate me and getting into dangerous situations
It doesn't mean I like to fuck my partner a lot and get spanked
>>9094781
Damn has this dumb fucker never heard of a public collar
Like you shouldn't be wearing fucking bdsm kit all the the, have a damn necklace for day wear
>>9095855
I imagine there's a lot of aspects of BDSM that she hasn't heard of.
>>9095845
Honestly, I'm less bothered by Littles coming in and blathering about their fetish than I am by the daddydoms that follow and start creeping on people expecting them all to be their little girls. Gag.
>>9095845
The ones like this lack boundaries so by definition aren't in a real headspace for a balanced power exchange anyway. A big warning signal to steer very clear of them altogether.
I'm for everyone just keeping the kink in their private life (and private circle) just that, private.
For the most part, people who squawk the loudest about kink-shaming have merely gotten a push-back or disapproval for their massively inappropriate over-share, not that they HAVE a kink but oh no, it's always 'muh kink, u r a shaming meh, boohoo, unfair, u r a h8r and just don't understaaaaand.'
>>9094692
Oh no I went to school with this girl??
>>9094801
>"my dom is a scary mother fucker and they dare not cross him."
>>9095860
Like "Safe Sane and consensual" and "love is respect" and probably "aftercare"
>>9095855
That's exactly what I was thinking.
Holy shit, has this guy ever been posted before? Came up on my insta as bustyhokage.... Oh man.
Oops, dropped pic.
For once, I almost feel worse for Vic Mabgiskfieha.
>>9095714
Do you even lolita? She always looks terrible
>>9094840
>>9095714
>those bangs with that makeup and hair
besides that and the case it's pretty good, but jesus anon.
We have a live one! Not sure if it's the little or the dom this time, they've posted about both on their facebook.
>>9095978
I'm honestly not sure who is the most retarded this time.
>>9095975
Looks like a sub. She's definitely wearing a collar in some of her pictures, but that might just be an ita neko-chan collar.
>>9095980
and flounce.
>>9095975
Already was kicked or left. Either way, good riddance.
>>9095981
This is why I'm unsure, lifted from their facebook timeline. Might be some gross shared account for people with boundary issues though.
>>9095975
GOD YES KEEP CALLING IT CGL
>>9095895
I feel sorry for people who haven't gotten the memo on aftercare. It's 50% of what makes it so fun.
>>9095984
the fuck is that kinda roleplay.
Seriously, the last thing I want to think about during 'fun times' is my five figure debt. Fuck that shit.
>>9095578
It's not all that interesting, just a girl fishing for asspats.
>>9095997
I have respect for her as a CSA survivor, but I was pretty disappointed in her in the first post in this cap. Fishing for asspats all the way.
>>9095998
>>9095998
As someone who is a victim of child pornography, good for her. She deserves asspats.
>>9095998
>>9095999
She is, but at least it will get rid of those other retards.
>>9095998
How is that fishing for asspats. She told her story and it shows perfectly why you just cant assume as a dd/cg you own the word Lolita. Because it has many different uses. Hell i knew a woman's who nickname was Loli as was mind for a bit in HS.
I dont want to see this shit in the tags nor comms without my consent. Keep it in you house or turn it off if you arent with your partner.
>>9096014
It's the whole "I'll delete this if I get any negative feedback uwu" thing that rubbed me wrong way, along with the oversharing. Don't tell people not to overshare if you're going to.
>>9096021
Again, I would do the same. You clearly can't relate and therefor don't understand.
>>9096021
This. She could have outlined her experience without the overshare of gory details to make the story so dramatic. I'm not minimizing her bad experience but I don't think pretty graphic abuse descriptions PLUS DD/lg details is exempt from 'but the whole point is we don't want to hear details about ANY of this at Lolita meets or in discussions.'
>>9096026
You're right, I don't understand. I am not a CSA survivor. Just another person with an opinion, there's a lot of those on the internet as it turns out. You might want to go if you can't handle a different one.
>>9096034
>You might want to go if you can't handle a different one.
Yeah, yeah, you're so tough on the anonymous image board.
>>9096031
Why is it considered oversharing anyway? This pisses me off so much. Like oh, my life is just too hard core for you poor innocent suburban ears? People have different experiences, sometimes they are bad, but jesus fucking hell, if someone is telling a story like this it's because they want someone to listen and commiserate. Not try and pretend like this shit doesn't happen and no one should ever talk about it.
>>9096026
I understand enough to know that no one gets a personal platform or a pass to discuss what we've just been saying should not be discussed in detail. I'm very sorry she was abused. Not her personal audience though. Recounting it in detail was overshare.
>>9096049
The whole OP topic of the thread was that we do NOT want the topic of dd/lg discussed or brought up in our lolita and we are sick of hearing about it. Period.
>>9094692
in the fat girl angle shots she has boobs then i the body shots she doesn't. How do I make my fat bags disappear?
>>9096056
It didn't get deleted. I think it should. It breaks the rules just like the others describing the kink part of a story do. I agree with this >>9096054
>>9096062
So contact the mods? What are you bitching about exactly?
>>9096059
You don't, her boobs aren't that big, she's just wearing a massive push up bra for the overhead shots. Under your clothes? Wear a binder.
Would it had been better if she put a warning or something. Because i feel as though she didnt overshare. Sure there were some details but its not like she said what he made her do outside being forced to call him daddy and shit.
>>9096087
If her post had been spoilered for an abuse story, it would have been easy to avoid this whole discussion, I think. Reading about it as abuse isn't any better than reading about it consensually, the whole point of the thread was to not read more about the topic regardless of the circumstances.
>>9096053
They should. But not from stumbling across someone's graphic abuse story in a fashion group. Someone writing an article about it as a timely problem we face in the hobby regarding this is a very good idea.
>>9094760
So upsetting other people by exposing them to your kink is not a real life consequence because you don't get any negative from it....she really gives her community a bad name like those tumblr idiots that she claims to be educated than...
>>9096107
Late to the party, she's been removed from the group.
>>9094781
>I HAVE to wear collar and ask permission to go anywhere
No you don't you stupid cunt, now shut the fuck up no one wants to hear about your shit tier fetish
>>9095395
>omg you HAVE to RESPECT my DISGUSTING relationship.
>I don't like it when people push thier kinks on others, but let me TELL YOU ALL ABOUT MY DADDY DOM FETISH
>RESPECT IT OK!!!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ScnGKm06vx4
>>9095968
DID SHE LEGIT DRAW LINES ON A TEE
>>9096228
fuck, why do they have to butcher my favorite childhood girlgroup
the video is cringy as fuck, and their music sucks
not gonna talk about how off topic this video is considering what song they chose to sing......
Can we post more cringe instead of playing the abuse olympics in here?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TyefoC-OIVA
This girl dresses well and all but could you really be any more obnoxious?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mvhjdzgOpu8
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6BJcgb1N7Gw
terrible
What happened to the catwoman cosplayer photos? Did janitor delete them?
Fandom lolita will never be good.
>>9096865
I was going to say this would be fine without the random Eevees, but no. This entire coord is a hot mess.
>>9096228
>kazoo spraying out Avril Lavigne-esque cartoon skulls
>>9095967
>mfw this has 150 more followers than I do
>>9094815
please some one I need to see ddlg's boyfriend
i need to see this picture
I need the cringe
Holy janitor batman, I'm not complaining but seeing more than half a thread disappear is so weird.
>>9096943
I'm sorry you only have 35 followers, anon.
>>9097124
Thanks. That makes me feel better.
>>9094806
Of course she has to be in florida... we have the craziest bitches here I swear
>>9097123
Kinda don't blame them. There's a problem when the cringe thread becomes cringe itself.
Weird though, yeah.
>>9097097
Get a FB then and quit expecting to be spoon-fed what is easily visible there.
I think the reason people say 'oh caps please, I don't have a FB' is because they are dudes or people who aren't even lolita just feeding off the drama like unfrilly leeches.
>>9095365
I think its hot when well dressed female lolitas smoke. You can get smoke smell out of clothes easily. But it is good marketing if you do say that you smoked in the dresses or just do not sell them. Its not the most disgusting habbit so do not let people shame you or tell you its disgusting or not cute. Each to their own. :-)
>>9095381
Better addiction then liking and sharing being tied down and from all third parties perspective; abused by your gross abusive sex partner.
>>9096026
Anon that can relate here. I get anxious even thinking about the cause of my PTSD and therefore do not even want to hear survival stories where nothing was brought to justice. Everyone deals with things differently but imo if you are truly haunted by it you would rather pretend it did not exist instead of using it as a conversational peice to draw in oos and aas.
>>9097322
actually the comments have been deleted in RC or I can't find them. What topic was it under? The girls (last) name isn't on this thread so I can't look her up either.
I just became a member of rufflechat
>>9097346
It is in the RC Uncensored group, Rufflechat has more sense than to allow known drama-drawing topics to flourish because it always just blows up, not that both groups don't have their merits. RC U has fewer rules or restrictions so that's where a certain amount of more open discussion hits before coming here for the big free-for-all.
>>9095975
STOP IT IT WITH THE GODDAMN FETISHES YOU'RE NOT ~PECHUL~ BECAUSE YOU ARE A LITTLE YOU SICK FUCK
>Yes I mad
>>9095982
Good fucking riddance
>>9097097
Here ya go
>>9096008
I fortunately didn't experience that but agree 100%. I had to deal with it at my last job (counseling children) and can't even imagine how fucked up it would be to live through that. I had just normal asshole parents and was pretty fucked up and suicidal for quite a few years
>>9097328
Please tell me how to get the smell out if smoke, as I have some burando I bought from a smoker that I keep quarantined when not in use because washing it did not help
>>9097328
>Its not the most disgusting habbit so do not let people shame you or tell you its disgusting or not cute
This is some tumblr tier shit. Suddenly we can't be 'shaming' smokers because they're strong people who are oppressed for their choices.
>>9095398
>"kitten space"
>>9097456
Tumblr already does that, but it's because "poor POC/queer people/mentally ill people uwu" can't help being addicted to drugs/cigarettes because they have it so hard and can't afford to buy food.
>>9097450
I use a cigarette extender while I am in lolita or cosplay. It actually goes a long way especially when your coord has gloves. In the past I have used a deoderizor spray, usually one that is used to cover room odour rather than people odor, sprayed down the peice of clothing, left it out in the sun to dry. At this point I would cheat and place the item of clothing inside a washing net to keep it separate and together and then let it run a cycle or two in the machine with other clothes, but with delicate lolita I would say handwash a couple of times after that to get the more potent smell out of it. Usually works for me.
>>9097456
You can. But it was to the other anon to let her know that it shouldn't get to her. Actually it is more tumblr of you to be that uneducated that you would group smoking automatically with those things without realise that the vast majority of people do not even give a second glance at people who smoke because it just is not thay bad. Ah, pretentious people fuel me!
>>9097328
>You can get smoke smell out of clothes easily.
Oh child
>>9097441
Why are the most public ones the most hideous?
>>9097478
Bite me or become a better housewife
>>9097474
I never get this. If they are starved and smoking and drinking and probably drugging, y they so fat?
Where's the heroin chic that behavior supposedly causes?
I'm a little disappointed, honestly.
>>9097471
" we don't allow pets at meets "
Well. We don't.
>>9097519
You can be fat and be a crack addict.
But this is true because mostly 70% of people of tumblr are what real drug users would cackle at and call posers.
>>9095866
No, anon, that is exactly why you need to kick the Littles out asap. Their Daddys aren't far behind, they aren't going to get the memo that they're not welcome since you allow the blathering Little to vomit her sex life all over your group chats.
>>9095707
Some people should be castrated.
>>9097477
Depends on where you live, I guess. Where I'm from smokers get dirty looks when they smoke around other people. I was at a theme park yesterday and this trashy couple threw a shitfit when park employees asked them not to smoke in a crowded queue full of children. They were kicked out.
>>9097556
Well yeah good riddance to smokers who are inconsiderate fucks. Down under people tend to be more chilled about that kind of thing. I feel as though as a smoker I am entitled to know both time and place.
>>9097511
You've obviously never had something super stinky then. I had to dry clean a dress twice plus did other stuff and the dress still reeked.
>>9097590
True. I tend to buy expensive/menthol brand cigarettes. Also my cigartte smoke would be easier to get out bc its usually mixed with other stuff.
>>9097519
>>9097474
>wasting money on cigs
>>9097746
Yeah, anyone who smokes but gripes about their lack of finances just sounds stupid. Yet lots of poor people smoke. I don't understand it.
>>9097658
I want to see this hat
>>9097519
There's some documentary on why a lot of starving people in America are fat. It's basically because food deserts or some shit and they have less access to real food. I don't know, I watched it in some sociology class.
If they're doing drugs, I don't know. I was the thinnest when I was in high school and thought doing drugs was cool. Most probably are just sticking to weed and eating all the twinkles they bought.
>>9097778
Yeah, shitty food is cheaper, that's why.
>>9097761
It relieves stress, but that is an extremely short-term benefit for all the long-term detriments that smoking brings.
>>9097511
The thing is, most likely you're used to the smell of smoke, so no matter how hard you try, there's still that lingering smell that you can't detect but non-smokers can.
>>9095204
Did some guy try and be a "dom" and end up hurting you? Why do you have that terrible strawman of an opinion? Im sorry if anyone hurt you anon those types of relationships are difficult but it can be a wonderful thing if done properly. Maybe with a little info i could help change your opinion a bit. I mean maybe if i gave you some information about it you might change your opinion a bit to a less harsh one.
>>9097770
It's not that interesting, it's a beret with a bow. I can try and find the post again if you want
>>9097818
I was hoping for one of these deals.
>>9097781
Smoking can remove/dull appetite for a small period of time as well -- I've known a lot of poor people who will smoke to dull appetite because buying cigarettes is cheaper than buying food.
>>9097778
>>9097519
Anon is right, in a lot of cities there's no grocery stores that can make it because the room is hella expensive, so they move out to the burbs where you'd need a car or super reliable public transportation to get to them. Lots of places don't have public transport, and lots of people don't have cars. So there's a whole bunch of places like 7/11 that pop up to fill the gaps, but they don't have shit like chicken breasts and fresh veggies in them. They've got frozen pizzas and chips, maybe some cereal. Bananas if you're super lucky.
You know how a bag of chips doesn't fill you up at all? A little personal size one of pic related is 160 cals per serving. Sounds like no big deal right? Yeah, there's 2.5 "servings" in every bag because a "serving" is ten chips. the whole small bag is 390 cals.
A double patty hamburger with lettuce, tomato, and thousand island sauce is 354 cals.
So if you snack on just one bag every couple of days, in a week you'll have eaten about 1200 extra calories. In a month that's 4800 cals, and a pound of fat is around 3,436 and 3,752 calories. So that's a pound and a bit every month.
But of course, that's just taking into account a bag of not filling chips, and we're assuming you don't have it every day. Now add on to that the fact that you're eating mostly frozen food pre-made pizzas and soups that are loaded with sodium and corn syrup but are deficient in actual vitamins. Your body sends out signals that it NEEDS some of those vitamins pronto, and so you're hungry again. But there's only frozen pizzas or very expensive take-out food around you, so you buy the frozen pizza again. There's none of those vitamins in that, so your body keeps telling you you're hungry.
Bam, you're gaining weight at a rapid pace, never feeling truly satiated, and as a bonus you're severely malnourished despite being large as a house due to a lack of vitamins and minerals.
>>9097841
>that cute embroidered ribbon being sacrificed for that monstrocity
>>9097841
Nah, found it. Her coord looks decent from what I can see, it's her attitude that's cringy. Also the line about the Halloween costume is referring to her coord
>>9097863
Looks like she might be wearing a white apron on top of a black OP, not necessarily a bad look but rather maid-like nonetheless, no wonder she was asked if she was wearing a costume. I can understand the attitude though, going out in lolita for the first time can be overwhelming at first. It's not an excuse of course but hopefully she'll grow out of it.
>>9097854
That's just really odd. I'm a Eurofag and in most European cities I've visited you can find decently sized grocery stores close to the city centre, including in London which must have some of the most expensive real estate in Europe. I've even lived in a small as fuck village in Scotland which had its very own very tiny Spar.
>>9094801
>"they dare not cross him"
Shit lost, cringe 11/10, sides are in orbit.
>>9097870
This seems like one of those 'so generic it's not subject to copyright' things.
>>9097903
I disagree, the methods used on the AP and AH rings are so similar and within a niche fashion like this it's really hard to think it might be a coincidence.
>>9097876
See you guys have cities that grew up with meat districts and markets, because they're made in a time before refrigerator and any transport faster than a horse where the cities needed that shit to be close.
American cities got bigger as the train, trolley, car, and refrigerators became common place. So there's no historical force behind it keeping taxes low on grocery businesses or preventing grocery stores from being 100% successful when they're farther away. Y'all have self fulfilling loops of "This buisness is already here, so I will support it with my money, so it will be profitable this month". As opposed to "This business just started up, so it has a huge deficit on top of it's day to day operating costs. Many of the people in the inner city run out of money by the end of the month, so for half the month this grocery store will have to rely on rich business people coming downtown and shopping here, as opposed to people living day-to-day. If we price it for the rich business people, all the day-to-day folks can't afford it, and the rich business people won't support us alone because they live in the burbs and drive to work so the grocery stores in the burbs already have their business. But if we price for the day-to-day, we'll run out of customers halfway through the month and the rich business people won't stop in because they can afford to shop at the nicer stores in the burbs."
They've actually tried opening grocery stores in food deserts and they fail, they just can't get a stable clientele when the people who are most in need of them can't afford them at the end of the month. Also, a lot of people most hurt by food deserts don't even have a kitchen, or if they do, they don't have time to cook. So they buy frozen stuff anyways.
It's a weird cycle. Most Americans buy their food in grocery stores because most of us have cars, but a lot of people trapped in the inner city are fucked over.
>>9097910
Also, going back to the beginning of the convo and Occams Razor, there's a lot of fat smoking drug using americans that have access to grocery stores but choose to buy the frozen stuff in them anyways for god knows what reason.
>>9097876
That's sort of the point here though. Alcohol and cigarettes are marketed to poor people, along with shitty food because it keeps them in the cycle of living a shitty life. Places like Whole Foods and so on are for "rich people" because the products there are just too expensive to be worth it to someone of lesser means. At the same time every fast food place has a dollar menu and every town has a McDonald's.
>>9097854
>>9097876
Another eurofag here and even in the smallest towns in our mountains you have a grocery store. It's usually the other way round - you'll rather find these than some fast food place.
Hell, the next takeaway pizza shop is a 30min drive away and they don't even deliver to out village.
>>9097781
There's a girl in my comm who claims she washes her clothes so well nobody could possibly smell that she's a smoker, but honestly that bitch REEKS and people lie to her face to keep her from whining about oppresshun. If I could somehow record her rants, including the smell, they would be very relevant ITT.
>>9097863
Yeah it's not the hat that people are giving you weird looks for.
It should be illegal to dress like this to a summer wedding
>>9098119
#speshulsnowflake
>>9098119
Depends on the wedding. My sister's worn her weird goth shit to my other sister's wedding, but she [the bride] was fine with it.
But in most cases, yeah no.
>>9097476
where did you get your cig extender? the places ive looked wont ship to canada (or will ship for the low low cost of 38-52 bucks)
>>9098134
It's Holy Lantern in Wine though. Keep that shit around Halloween.
>>9097863
those posts are like 2 years old how did you even find them in the first place anon?
>>9097911
like any issue of this size, it probably has multiple facets including things on an individual level like breaking out of bad learned habits as a child from growing up not knowing better, to bad education system in america not even teaching kids to cook, to neglect, to mental illness and fatigue making it hard to find energy to cook actual food every day and think of new recipes. It really sucks but it's a compound issue, wish there were an easier way to fix all of it. Just moved out of a desert and it was honestly easier and cheaper to eat take out every single night and it was destroying my health (plus it's difficult to sleep no matter how thick your wall are if there are constant protesters and cop cars screaming by)
Now I live one block from a huge affordable grocery store and it's amazing what a difference it makes. Our country is so fucked man.
>>9098186
This.
>>9097450
bathe the clothes in baking soda overnight. this kills the smell
>>9098241
if it won't work you haven't put enough soda in the wather
it doesn't harm sensitive fabrics and is cheap as fuck btw
>>9095968
>Be Vic McNyancat
>Try to be nice and accepting to all of my fans
>Come off as a creeper sometimes, but w/ever I get some hot cosplayer tiddy amen
>Doing a signing at some con, can't remember which one
> Signing some pics when she waddles over
> Holyfuck.jpg
> "Can i haz photo?"
> "Uh...yeah! Sure thing!"
> Stand next to her.
> She wraps her arm around me, pulling me in.
> Struggle to wrap my arm around her.
> Can't
> She's too big holy shit
> Suddenly feel my body...moving?
> Whole body starts shifting towards her bussom.
> This lady's tits have got me in a tractor beam.
> Tiddies so huge, they have a gravitational pull. I'm caught in it.
> Spend the rest of my life as a moon on Jupiter.
>>9098290
Oh fuck off with the bad typing 'panic attack' bullshit. Nobody has time to go through messages and reply to them when they're having a panic attack, because you're too busy trying to figure out if you're having a heart attack or if you're just going full retard.
It's a normally worded message with no accompanying slurs or anything that could be seen as triggering. I wish idiots like this would just grow the fuck up and stop shitting themselves every time someone corrects them.
>>9098324
anon, you'd be surprised at the shit some people can do while having a panic attack. That being said... don't answer messages publicly while you're having one? Like, if it's fucking up your typing wait awhile, go back and re-type it. I send shitty, badly typed messages to close friends/my fiance when I'm having a panic attack, but that's also not fucking posting on tumblr.
>>9098341
Why are you even on the internet if youre having a panic attack
>>9098119
I find it hard to believe the bride gave her permission to wear this. Even if she was a lolita. How inappropriate.
>>9098290
>>9098324
>>9098341
>>9098367
I can totally see someone in the middle of a panic attack feeling like everyone hates them and they need to apologize immediately so nobody hates them anymore so they can calm tf down, but that obviously doesn't work but they're too panicked to think straight.
No clue if that's what this girl is doing or not, can't say if this is legit for sure.
>>9098386
I wish people who are just having a flare of anxiety wouldn't confuse it with the all out fits that are actual panic attacks where you can't breathe and your heart is beating like crazy. You're not online, you're probably trying to stop from dying.
I just don't get why they all type the same. I can see some typos when you have a flare up of anxiety (happens to me so I get it) but the near keyboard smashing they do is just... Strangely controlled? I mean it's all fake so of course it looks fake, but they're trying to portray a shaky voice through a keyboard. That is not how it works.
>>9098393
I don't suffer from anxiety attacks, so I was kinda talking out my ass in the post you replied to. If that's what full medical anxiety attacks are, yeah, there's no way she's having one. But maybe she's just having a bad flare? Idk, can't diagnose shit over the internet with my WebMD doctorate
