I'm pretty sure I'd be blacklisted from my comm and other local ones if they found out how often I cap the stupid shit they say and spread it around the rest of the internet. I do this all the time too. Drama is so fun.

I am as pure as freshly mown grass

>>9042810
I have no cosplay drama to speak of
>>9042805
This. Once, something I capped was blamed on another girl, and though no one believed it, it started a lot of drama that I still hear about.

I really want to hook up with this girl I know in a couple's cosplay. But she's a bit fat at the moment, if she started lifting I'd be all over her

I used to be a tripfag

>>9042871
Voldie

I post itas from albums on my comms fb page. They recently made a thing about not posting on cgl, but I still do it. These are people I see at our meets a lot too.

Sometimes I wish I were morbidly obese, black, or trans so my coord posts could get easy notes.

I was pressured to send underwear photos to a much older creep that was obsessed with one of my cosplays and I still hate myself for it. I was only eighteen at the time and dealing with a lot. This was after months of being overtly sexual despite me telling him to stop. I was at the point where I just wanted him to go away. The worst part is we have a mutual friend and he recently tried to add me on Facebook despite me telling him that he's a scumbag and I want him to stay the fuck away from me. I'm just thankful that I've told the friend as well as a few other people so they know to steer clear of him but damn is it annoying. I've blocked him on pretty much every social media that I can think of now.

I spent an absurd amount of time making everyone in my larp hate a certain character because I hate her guts IRL. She is such a special snow flake and literally a camp bicycle and I was just tired of it. I framed her for several in game crimes she didn't commit, slowly turned the majority of town against her, and it finally ended with her being pretty much lynched.
I know it doesn't really matter, but seeing her genuinely crying about her character death made me unbelievably happy. Even with the betas all rushing to apologize out of game.
The only guilt I feel is that it wasn't really in character until about half way through the entire plan. But lord, was it worth it.

>>9042866
Why should you be hated when he was the one that was married?

>>9042961
Lol how jealous of you.

This is why female LARPers are so shady. They cannibalize other women the second they think they're getting undue attention.

>>9042966
Yeah, I know it seems like jealousy, but I'm fine being a minor character. In fact, I still am. I didn't get caught doing pretty much everything I did so I'm still just a minor character. It's way more fun to be able to do whatever you want without hordes of orbiters following you.
I just got tired of everyone bending over backwards for her because she bent over for them. The tipping point was her taking another pc's magic sword while a team of betas defended her saying it was right.

>>9042950
eh, whatever you wanna call me. he's the one with two kids soliciting nudes from a teenager

Sometimes I record sexy audio over on /soc and I'm always afraid someone in my comm is gonna find it somehow and recognize my voice, but I also love the attention so I don't want to take it down from where I have it posted

I also used to sell this guy videos of my feet but DESU I would def do that again because it was so easy and I made good money from it. in the end if the videos ever surface, it's literally just my feet, nothing overtly sexual so it wouldn't be the end of the world

>>9042866
> just thought he was in a relationship

Should have walked away anon. You're both to blame: him for being a cheating asshole and you for willing entering a relationship with him knowing that he was in one. Learn from it and move on since you can't contact the wife. Know yourself worth anon: you don't need anyone who's in a relationship trying to move on you. If they'll cheat on that person, they'll cheat on you.

>>9042988
kind of sad desu.

>>9042950
you left your trip on

was seeing an abusive guy who liked to victimize and ridicule the people who expressed themselves through cosplay, to the point where we would be at a convention and he would go out of his way to make my friends feel uncomfortable in their outfits and make my male friends especially suffer for his possessiveness, even popping round the back to get high (nd i'm not talking about my best friend weed which is partially the only reason i do stay unfortunately) and everyone in the community who cared about me told me to cut ties and leave him. basically to the point where if I was with him i was in danger in their eyes no matter the situation and so thus it needed to stop. they were right and I should have ended it, but I can't and I keep getting hurt, and I can't tell them that its him. if my close friends find out i lied to them so much and that I'm allowing this bullshit to go on they'd disown me and I would lose all my best friends and what we've worked so hard to accomplish as a group.

>>9043044
totally with him for the drugs no one can know that I do.

>>9043041
some anon has been pretending to be them out of some weird vendetta. probably one of the people bitching about them in the general

idgaf about the tea party but it's pretty obvious it's a vendetta

I've only got one "sin" that people look down on me for. And it's the fact that I got raped by my older brother. And everyone that knows acts like it's my fault, and that I'm worth less than them because my first time wasn't "special"

>>9043070
>everyone

so you go around telling people you were raped by your older brother? why the fuck would you do that?

Thank you to all the anons who have replied to me, I'd (you) all of you but I don't want to be spammy. I really appreciate all the different insights and it's given me a lot to think about, on both sides.

>>9042980
I do fluctuate between being angry and being sad. I think that's what's so confusing about it. The same goes for my boyfriend too. He goes between "He used you for what he couldn't get from his wife and then just pretended you didn't exist" to "He admitted to me it was a mistake and has been spending time with her, at least he seems to have learned and won't do it again." I can't lie and say I'm not upset he keeps up contact with somebody who hurt me, but at the same time I don't want to make anyone 'pick sides' or be the kind of girlfriend who controls what their SOs do.

>>9043015
I agree with you, it takes two to tango after all. When I first started to get feelings, I decided I wouldn't tell him, but I still wanted to be his friend. I figured if I ignored them and just focused on having a fun time and hanging out, they would go away. I should have just stopped then and there, because it was clear he began to develop feelings too. When he eventually confessed to me he told me "not to worry" and that he had "already been making preparations" before we met. I don't know how much of that is true.
A huge issue was my self worth, like you said. A year before I had just been dumped by someone I had seen for 3 years. It was a gay relationship, and was a secret because she refused to come out of the closet. Nobody in her family knew, even some of her friends. Being in a relationship like that for so long, I just normalized it and accepted being treated that way.

To any anons reading my post in a similar situation: trust your gut. When you get the feeling that something's wrong and you can't trust that person to not do the same to you, don't blame yourself and call yourself a bad girlfriend like I did. Respect yourself and your intuition more than that.

>>9043076
topkek // this is really tumblr of you

I don't know if this is ruin worthy but I hooked up with a convention guest who was a lot older than myself. He wasn't married or anything, just older.

>>9043074
I said everyone that knows, which is mostly comprised of people he bragged to, my (now) ex-SO, and my therapist. learn2read

>>9043095
If he bragged about raping you why isn't he in jail? that's a confession. your story reeks of bs. And if he is there's no way people actually look down on YOU for a crime someone got convinced on.

>>9043087

Dude I've had to console three fucking women today about rapes. There's a serial rapist on my campus, and he's got six women so far and the police are no where near to finding him. I'm so pissed today, don't even care if I tumblr all over the place. Sometimes tumblr gets it right.

>>9043097
if he bragged to anyone outside of his group of friends, sure I could've seen that going to court. But his friends were just as twisted as he was.

>>9043112
>brags to someone's (ex?)SO about raping them
>not reported

K

>>9043118

Nah man, way I read it was
>Scum brags to 45 year old post-prime bro friends about banging hot 18 year old
>Highfives for porn fantasy
>Redpill lives on

>>9043118
Ok, this assumption is my fault. I'm sorry that I was not clear that this all happened almost 10 years ago now, and that I was the one who told my ex-SO 2 years ago when sex looked like a possibility. Need anymore details?

>>9042896
Not voldie, sorry. Isn't she still a trip?

>>9043124
you an idiot? we're addressing the anon who got raped by her older brother, not the slut who bangs people she knows are in a relationship.


>>9043127
Why are you so delusional that you think people look down on you for being an actual rape victim? why wouldn't you change therapists if you think they look down on you for being raped? this is why your story sounds weird.

>>9043134
Well when you're being conditioned with that kind of reasoning from the ripe age of 12 it leaves some damage. Then therapy happens, and I start to get better, then SO at the time decided to hold it over me after I finally told him, and then it was the reason he broke up with me after dragging it out for months.

>>9043147
If you told your therapist I'm questioning why they didn't prompt you to report him. I was raped and when I confessed this to my therapist she told me I should report it because he could be doing it to other people. Do you really think if he raped his own sister he won't rape others? You're letting him get away with it.

Basically when I was 19 I let my creepy ex take suggestive photos of me in lingerie. They were unflattering and gross, but I'm sure he liked them.
He's a bit of an SJW so I'm not scared of him leaking them out of revenge or some shit, but it disturbs me that he still has them. He brought them up in a convo a month or so ago, he seems like the type to hold it over a person's head for power, but even if I ask him to delete them there's no way I can have proof that he actually did and then he'll know for fact that I'm bothered by it.
He's really into taking risky photos of cosplayers and lolitas. Generally people don't like him because he gives off creeper vibes, but still, I wish I could warn people without outing my identity. Seeing as though I'm one out of two girls he's ever dated it'll be obvious who I am...
I'm really embarrassed to admit I ever dated him.

>>9043158
When I told my therapist the first time, he said that I should, but then we started discussing the damages it would have on my family, and potential legal costs, and as a young child I was too terrified to bring myself to do anything.
So those discussions kept going nowhere.

And I know I was letting him get away with it due to my own misplaced fear, but he's finally being sent to jail (for something else entirely) sometime in the next few months depending on how long the court hearings take. And I know that that doesn't make up for it at all, but hey, silver linings

>>9043178
If he was sent to jail for something unrelated when he gets out he won't have to warn people he's a sexual offender like he would if you reported him. He'll do it again and it'll be your fault.

>>9042936
Sounds like you need an outside man to get you the information you're looking for. Not your personal army. If you know someone in tech, you should probably start asking around for a service if you're willing to pay to have it done.

I really really cannot stand many of my jfashion friends, they're either really shitty at coordinating outfits, or theyre shit at cosplaying
however most of them are ~*~*special self diagnosed snowflakes*~*~ who can't take criticism without throwing a fit, so i just talk shit bout them with a mutual good friend

>>9043180
Harsh, but true. I know that for as long as I don't report it, it can happen again; this is why I'm looking into the laws, and seeing if I can A) remain anonymous, and B) if I can still report it after almost 10 years.

>>9043085
Anon, my boyfriend wouldn't have kept contact, unless it was his fist through his jaw.
Just a note, you aren't very good at judging character.
I'd move, start a new life elsewhere, learn self reliance before I could trust another person again. I think the solitude would be the best and worst thing for you.

>>9042936
anon, if it's over now just leave it in the past. you're much better off moving on and forgetting about him than dragging all of this up and potentially ruining your own relationship as well as his. if no one knows about it, just leave it behind, try to forget about it, and pretend it never happened. it's over and there's no point dredging it up now, everyone makes mistakes and some things are just better left alone. focus on building your future, you belong to yourself and nothing that happened in that relationship has diminished any of your worth. he's the one at fault, he knew what he was doing was wrong.

>>9043192
P. Sure 14 years is the time ceiling

>>9043206
I disagree, personally. I think she should find that wife, send her a singing telegram or some shit.
>Your man's a sleez
>begging you plz
>get the fuck away from his horrible....
>disease? fleas?
Help me out here.

>>9043223
This was painfully unfunny anon.

>>9043225
Are singing telegrams ever funny?
They're mostly cringe anon. There is a point where you just stop trying, but this is not the point where I stop trying.

>>9043235
This post is even cringer than the last one. Jfc anon.

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>>9043239
>>9043225
My sin is introducing this person;
>>9043250
>>9043223
to this board. I am so sorry.

>>9043254
you're a terrible person.

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>>9043263
I know. I'll make her serve penance tonight.

There's a girl who went way overboard spreading rumours about me and stuff in the comm, and I have screencaps that could completely ruin her long-term relationship. The caps aren't going anywhere because I'm not an asshole, but it's still kinda satisfying to know I have them. I know if she had shit like that on me she'd use it without even thinking about it, so I feel like the better person. I guess the 'sin' part is how smug I am about it.

I brought my dom once to a meet and just said he's a friend who was curious about the fashion. Nobody seemed weirded out even though some of them have met my boyfriend before.

>>9043184
If anon is willing to drop a throwaway email I'll try to help her. No promises but I'm pretty good

>>9043269
>>9043269
What did she do, and what did she say about you? Sounds juicy.

>>9043315
Not saying anything that's gonna out me, anon. Sorry.

I've broken the corset lacing/waist ties of three dresses now.

I'm only 130 pounds.

>>9043331
sounds like bs desu

>>9043333
It's completely true, but anon is 4'9".

>>9043331
>>9043333
>>9043353
That or she yanks on the ties super hard for some reason. Could happen.

>>9043353
>4'9"
>ONLY 130lbs
>only
>o n l y

BMI says that's almost obese.

>>9043331
Yeah bro, seconding >>9043358. Gotta be gentle, especially with secondhando burando. I'm probably way fatter than you (just got back down to 140, dreams do come true) and I fit into quarter shirring. Loosen that shit up before you shimmy in, then adjust. You can always replace the corset lacing with a new ribbon.

That explains where all these dresses without waist ties are coming from though. See this shit on lacemarket and am like "how tf do you lose waist ties?" That's how.

>>9043364

I thought that was the joke?

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>>9043364

I keep falling for Tumblrina feminazis and don't notice what th ey are til it's too late. Then I get angry at them and myself and burn bridges.

The cosplay community damaged me a lot. I have given up on love. Moat women in the circuit these days tend to be infected with Tumblrina Syndrome.

>>9043454
Same here famalam. I need to stop forming my first impressions of people drunk.

>>9043454
>Moat women
typo I'm sure but I kek'd

how many sex partners is too much?

I'm 27 and only 15 so far

closest thing i can come up to a confession, I am so boring.

>>9043192
Sorry to hear about that situation. And sorry that anytime you mention rape on /cgl/, dumbasses need to investigate to see if you're lying-as if you're getting some benefit from admitting to being raped on a fucking anonymous imageboard.

>>9043477
Far too much. The acceptable number of fuck sex partners is half your age plus 2, didn't you know :^)

But really, anyone who cares how many people you've fucked isn't worth your time.

>>9043477
I'm 18 and have 0 and still think your number is fine so stress less and root around if you want.

>>9043477
I read this backwards and was going to be like "just please use protection, be safe!"
do what you want and find out what you like. I had a dr shame me when I told him I had had 6 total sex partners. he said "just make sure the next one is mr. right!" thanks guy.

>>9043467
You're right. *Most of the women I deal with in the con circuit"

My husband gets turned on whenever I dress up, especially in lolita. It's not a ddlg thing though or whatever, it's just the fact that dressing conservative is more appealing to him than revealing clothes most of the time. He has a lot of self-control though but it makes me giggle knowing I excite him at meetups if he catches a glance at my petti or sees my thighs while wearing otks. Some close friends know that we've had sex while I was in lolita, but no one knows that we've recorded videos of it. It won't ever get out though, it's my little secret and I'll never share it online or sell these dresses that were involved.

>>9043478
It's ok, just since the anniversary of it is coming up in just needed to talk about it a bit, and being anonymous makes that much easier.

>>9043454
Define "tumblr" because as it stands your post sure as hell reads as those "these women have opinions about social issues that I don't agree with FEMINAZIS FEMINAZIS" type of persons. If you do mean legitimately batshit extremists, carry on.
>inb4 "u r one o them"

>>9043575
Legit batshit extremists. Thank you. I'm not good at specifying.

>>9043557
....are you who I think you are?

>>9043493
wow. I'd leave a doctor who said that to me

>>9043557
HWC?

>>9045259
HWC?

I was friends with a cosplayer who roped me into BDSM role play and it rurned out she was cheating on her fiancee with me and several others, including her true "master".

Then she became violently sociopathic after I refused. Started a witch hunt on me.....

I don't get why 14-22 yr old cosplayers are into BDSM these days.

A guy I hooked up with was super into me calling him daddy and slapping my face in bed.
At the time I was cool with it, but now I get weirded out thinking about what kind of person he probably was.

>>9043477
Holy shit what a whore
God have pity on the man you sleep next, and ensure you don't pass him anything.

I purposely start shit in threads I like if theyre slow. the bait helps bump the thread and although it draws a lot of negative attention, more people check out the thread and post on topic posts.

>>9042961
>literally the camp bicycle
>literally
>a bicycle

My friend is former member of the notorious Lolita com. She had a stalker from a same com harassing her since January and even prior to that, she was talking to me about some terrible shit her stalker/ex-friend had done to her perhaps to feel better. At first I called BS but I when everyone on school was literally witnessing the threats and stalking (and friending everyone my friend knew from campus to ask about her daily schedule and life and stuff) and eventually stalked me and few other of her friends when we collectively decided to ignore the stalker-turning-Lolita for sake of our friend.

I'm responsible for spreading what my friends were going through to my friend groups, who were active in j-fashion, cosplay and/or con scene out of anger and frustration after the stalker and her crazy family lied to school and almost got my friend expelled. now everyone in my college know the stalker girl and someone (probably in my college) made her page on PULL-esque website.

I'm so sorry I couldn't keep my mouth shut.