Most certainly, anyone is able to think anything about anyone.

>>17155005
oh yes. we can really lusting after men and imagine having sex with em. but usually i think we're not as graphic as you are.

>>17155005

everyone is different. women tend to be less sexually agressive. Nature / evolution says that men can just plant their seeds then run for it.

Women are always going to be stuck with a child if something happens to the man (or he simply runs off) so a woman would naturally be less sexually aggressive. if she slept around with someone really small, scrawny. and uncordinated, he would likely die before she even gave birth, leaving her and the baby vulnerable.

women obviously DO feel sexual attraction, and sometimes get the thoughts you describe. but they are less common, and are reserved for 'higher quality' men.

evolution shapes the dating field quite a bit, but it is not the 'end all'. we've all proven we can over come our baser urges and stability in the modern world is more important than physical prowess. this isn't to say women target men who make money, but rather a man who can still 'take care of them' while still making them feel loved.

as before, women still want a man who will stay around

Some do, some don't. We don't have a hivemind sexdrive.

I've never been "visual." It made me worry I was asexual when I was younger. But I just wasn't close enough to anybody to have the emotional connection I needed to find them attractive.

Maybe it's how I'm wired. I liked disney movies, but I never cared about the princesses. The ideal relationship model I got from fiction was "be best friends, then fall in love." Why would I just want some guy who I talked to once to show up at the end of my story? Why wouldn't my story be with that person instead?

Maybe my upbringing had a part too. Having parents who yelled all the time at me while I cried made me a more empathetic person. Because I was forced to think about emotions logically. I was always at fault both for my crying and my parents yelling. So I was anxious and internalized that I am responsible for how everyone is reacting emotionally.

Someone else is emotional? That's completely beyond their control. I better respond correctly and not make it worse. I get emotional or respond emotionally? I fucked up. Obviously, this is an emotional response and not a logical one. Although knowing so doesn't make the feelings go away, it helps me deal with them.

Anyway. I say these things just since they're also stereotypical examples I've seen of why girls think the way they do (disney princess waiting for prince charming+pampering parents telling her to do so). Not proving or disproving anything as it's all anecdotal, but there's a lot more to people than just "which gender has a dirtier mind" and would be hard to test with all the other influences on sexual preferences.

I've got a crush on a guy at work after he walked me down a street at night and offered me his coat, i've thought about kissing him and holding his hand and wondering what his dick looks like, and if he'd be the dominant partner in the bedroom or not.
I'm not bothered about his butt, though he's got a big beard so i'm assuming he has hairy legs which i like.

Other times if i see attractive guys in the street i imagine them holding my throat and fucking me against a wall, or parading me about in the street like a dog with a collar


tl;dr women are people too and have equally dirty thoughts as men according to what they find attractive