>>17130039
This is going to sound cringy as fuck but you have to tell her you are nervous. Get her to do shit with your limp dick thats feels good so you get so horny you forget about being nervous.

>>17130039

Just mess around naked without a boner. If you get chill enough you'll get that boner back. You need to relax, it sounds like anxiety that's killing you.

See if she'll give you a bj when you have a soft dick. Soft-dicked bj's actually feel amazing while you're getting them (pretty much the only good head I get since I'm too big for her mouth and I can never get one for more than 6 seconds without getting hard).

Sit around naked, touch each other, mess around with the understanding that you are NOT going to have sex.

>>17130039
if its your first time its ok to be nervous. start off with foreplay or something. i'm a virgin too so i dont know much =( . stay away from viagra you're too young for that.

do you lift? lifting helps out with your testosterone. i'v been /fit/ for a year and i'm more hornier then when i didnt lift.

Honestly, talk to her about how you need it to happen with no rush or expectation. Just spoon her in your underwear, cuddle and grope, finger her, get her wet, and when you feel comfortable enough to slide your underwear off do that, fuck her in spooning position - it's the most relaxing position, and you won't have to worry about her looking at how well you're doing erectile-wise. Don't stress the moment of entry too much.

>>17130119
Nigga have you ever had sex? Fuck her in the spooning position? That's like the hardest position because you can't extend your dick.

Just fool around with her until you are comfortable being naked with her. Don't tell you're nervous or any of that shit. Just fool around. If you haven't done anything with her yet and she liked you she will enjoy it too.

>>17130039
Seriously try to learn to relax and enjoy the moment before resulting to Viagra! Consider foreplay and dirty talk or anything else that might heighten the mood and try this for a time. If you're still having troubles, consider a urologist or whether anything else might be contributing to the ED such as depression/stress, lack of sleep, blood pressure issues, etc. GL!

>>17130039
Weed bro. Smoke some. Listen to music, start fooling around. It's how I lost my virginity. Shit was amazing.