Zero self confidence
Am I ugly AF or what
What can I do to improve myself?
>>17125229
hard to say from one photo but thank for actually posting it instead of expecting us to be psychic to figure it out.
ultimately oyu arent bad looking. at all. im jealous for the most part, though i consider myself to be attractive when i put the effort in.
if you arent wokring out start. if you are, keep it up. even if its infrequent, a little progressi s better than no progress. if you can wokr out two shitty wokrouts a week thats still better than none at all, and your body will improve more than it will degenerate.
hair might need a new style. that stache has to go.
lose the facial hair and cut your hair shorter imo
>>17125229
shave, lose the beanie and long hair, never wear a wife beater again
>>17125233
I'm actually pretty skinny not fit tho, I never get matches on tinder and I never really leave the friend zone with a girl
oh and thanks for actually posting a pic for once, so many of these am I ugly threads where people don't even post pics
as for self confidence just do what the rest of us do fake it, and drink alcohol until you're relaxed enough that it comes naturally
>>17125239
nothing wrong with wearing one to the gym
>>17125229
You are not ugly
100% not ugly. I'd bet you're pretty passive though. Be passionate about something. Back up what you believe in and you'll be fine
>>17125271
I am a pretty passive person I don't like confrontation, thanks for the moral boost I was actually starting to think something was wrong with me
>>17125229
Shave the facial hair, drop the beanie, put on 20 lbs of muscle.
>>17125281
If you value non-confrontation more than saying what you think is right then people will think you're not genuine. Having differing opinions is not a bad thing, as long as you're not aggressive about it (ie "you're a fuckwit if you think differently to me") people will generally appreciate it. On the reverse, if they share your opinion make sure you add emotion to your language, not just the words but the pitch and body language. Also, smile. If you look sad people won't want to talk to you.
>>17125241
Just do this you'll get bitches
Work out go to >>/fit/ check the sticky
Change your posture in your picks you look like your uncomfortable and stuck in a box.
Smile dipshit.
Get a different cut try to rock what's in style.
Drop the beany
Shave your shitty beard keep the mustache is you can rock it.
Take pics of shit you do. If you don't do shit go out and do things.
If you can't possibly imagine yourself doing things then go somewhere take pics go home.
Pic with your bros. if no bros use your family and say they are your bros.
>>17125241
no girl is gonna think
>WELL AT LEAST HES NOT FAT
saying 'im actually pretty skinny' is like saying 'i actually read books here and there'
literally no one cares. except for faggots, which i am, and ur qt bf material, but girls and even aggots will still prefer you worked out. work out. dont expect instant results. it will take a while to get muscular. you are reasonably attractive. stop with this 'friend zone' bullshit.
You look perfectly normal. Wish I looked half as good as you.
>>17125229
Drop the hat, make sure you never have more scruff on your upper lip than your chin (which you do in that pic), and use a shirt instead. A nice haircut would probably do wonders.
>>17125298
Not OP but how much muscle should I put on?
>>17125241
Wahoho man you a 6/10cut the pornstache and lose the hat and get a tasteful cut you'll be a stellar 8
>>17126177
Tree fiddy
I wanna just go mad at all, you look fucking normal and good, how can you suffer from low confidence lol thats a mystery to me
>>17126177
thats fine already, you dont need more. Your body looks perfect to me seriously.
>>17126206
I'm pretty sure if I started lifting with my body type I could be pic related
Honestly like what most are saying, you look fine, just loose the beanie, and fix up your hair.
Would not hurt to put some muscle on though
>>17125229
Until you can actually grow some facial hair, shave. That proto-stache is terrible. Wear actual clothing: a wifebeater and a beanie are not suitable for meeting new people. Solid color, fitted t-shirts for casual relaxation, button-up shirts for casual outings, black and blue jeans that aren't fucking hip-hugging girl pants, but aren't saggy as fuck either.
Strive to look less like an emo 16 year old and more like a comfortable young man.
Listen to people more often when they talk to you, and base your conversational skills on responding to their given topics; eventually you will have the confidence to instigate and lead conversations yourself.
Read more: information, however pointless it may seem at the time, is always conversational. Knowing at least a little about something can help you stay involved with a conversation, and also allows you to ask questions about the subject. People love answering questions about shit they know, and it makes you seem interested in them.
>>17126177
All of them
>>17125229
/fit/ here. I think you look good. Just shave that pornstache or go full gunther.
Also go the Gym.
And dont go on Tinder.
I'm a 5/10 at most and my gf is a 158cm petite 45kg athletic hottie.
If i can get something like her, you can too.
Just work on your social skills (pretty hard) and stop caring about others.
Your life will get much better.
>>17126230
Thanks. You a guy? :p
>>17126264
nah, fem here
>>17125241
>I never get matches on tinder
To be fair nobody really does, especially if they're being picky. My roommate is the tall/dark/handsome type and his luck with Tinder is always fucking terrible unless he's swiping for a seriously ugly girl.
I imagine the reason for that is because when you're not encountering a bot, Tinder's algorithms give the actual real girls so many different guys to choose from they're either not going to notice you or they'll get a match with a guy who looks better than you.
body dysmorphic disorder
that's an asinine question, especially the part about something that will objectively make you look better
except for symmetry surgery, adam's apple enhancement, and dick enhancement, there's not much that can be objectively done
now if you want a really immediate change, try getting a new more favorable style (hint: you have to pick the impression you want to make on people with your style, not 4chan).
>>17125241
I think you look good and I would match you on tinder. Maybe the girls in your area are picky bitches.
>>17126253
She's not athletic, she's thin. Nothing wrong with that but an athlete would have a high BMI (because muscles weigh more than fat)
You aren't ugly, but get of that semi mustache
It looks shit
have a modicum of fashion sense, man. Improve your wardrobe, get a stylish haircut, and shave if you can't grow a normal beard. Mustaches aren't attractive on young men.
>>17126686
Or maybe he's a picky bitch.
>>17125229
>What can I do to improve myself?
>>17126958
Lol
Seriously just be yourself. Fuck all this go the gym have loads of muscle! Unless that's what you want to do. There is someone for everyone and we all like different things. That's why we look different or have different styles. Some one will like you for who you are. And get off tinder it's not the way to meet someone!
>>17127104
I'm just trying to meet a girl who wants what I do, I haven't had sex in two years
Im a 20yo girl and i would do u
>>17125229
>>>>>>/soc/
someone please fix this leak, the socially retarded are getting everywhere
Lose the beanie and wife beater, it's the 21st century. Wake up.
>>17127169
Sorry I'm a new fag and it wasn't a rate me I just wanted to know what would make me more attractive to the opposite sex
Getting off of this site and actually engaging yourself in conversations with people for starters.
Stop asking the internet what they think. That's just sad.
>>17125229
lose the hat
shave the rat
shoulders back
and stop making stupid faces while you take self absorbed pictures of yourself.
>>17126177
any
