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Issues with girls, sex
2016-05-02 15:33:13 Post No. 17100666
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Issues with girls, sex
Anonymous
2016-05-02 15:33:13
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So, I'll try not to give you guys too much to read.
My problem is basically this: I have a really weird relationship towards sex (and girls). I'm male (hetero), mid 20s.
I've given it a lot of thought (and collected some experiences / situations) recently and I've come to the conclusion that I can't solve this on my own. The reason I am posting here is because I can't afford a therapist rn (doesn't seem like I can get one for free unless I have "major" mental issues).
I'll try and give you an extremely concise rant of facts first, and then I'll try and explain what my issue is.
raised by single mother, no real strong male role model, grew up very introverted. I've evolved through "self development" the last couple of years and I'm now a fun guy to be around, I even enjoy it. lots of progress here. 0 anxiety or anything like that. In fact, talking is my game. I look above average, and I've always gotten decent to fair amount of attention from the opposite sex.
however: only had 1 real girlfriend. that lasted for plus 2 years. lost virginity very late (20+). never been very sexually active. I feel like I have no sex drive at all (which isn't normal for a man in his mid twenties). I have no trouble talking to women or seeing them as friends (barely have any tho), but anything more than that and I either get completely cold (emotionally) or I just get passive because I lack experience (is my own subjective guess).
The most glaringly obvious example would be; in recent time, at 3 instances I've been hit on / initiated upon by good looking, attractive girls who outright tried to either drag me away for sex (asked verbally so it wasn't like I imagined it) or kiss me, and I didn't even do the latter. I mean what's up with that.
I can post more thoroughly if needed, if anyone shows some interest or gives feedback. Like I said, through self development I've sorted out a lot of stuff in recent years, but this is a tough nut to crack.
Thx in advance. pic unrelated