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2015-11-11 20:58:25 Post No. 16452666
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2015-11-11 20:58:25
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A few weeks ago I posted a thread asking to help with a situation of domestic violence and psychological abuse. Thankfully. me and my mum acted on the advice and social services has been contacted and the situation is very close to being ended, thank you all for that.
However, I am left with some issues. I have a number of friends, some I have known for 12 years, and they are generally nice to me and are like I think friends should be for the most parts. Unfortunately, the ones who run parties and social events do not invite me along and I only really see them during the week and very occasionally out. From what I can tell, it seems to be a mixture of factors :
The first is probably the most obvious. My disposition for around the better part of 10 years was quite aggressive and very sarcastic, and naturally people don't always like that. So naturally, people are repelled by me. I think this has been changing lately as the abuse is close to the end, and I don't think I have been damaged.
Secondly, I am at a selective academic school, and naturally there are a number of people with gigantic egos. Two particular people spring to mind when I talk about this. One is very social and is generally nice to me, although actions speak louder than words, as well as his position. The other is a bit of a slimeball, and while not very social, he is more social than me and is domineering and powerful. They dislike me because I make banter at them and they seem to be too precious to take it, where as other people just banter back..Unfortunately, as much as I may dislike these two, I cannot avoid them as there doesn't seem to be any alternative friends I can find that I like (the one place I have tried is filled with a mixture of /v/, /tg/ and /mlp/ users, and frankly they make me cringe).
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