Are you a virgin /adv?
>>17043685
Yes
At first I didn't have sex with anyone because I was waiting for "the one" and turned down any girl that wasn't fit to what I felt that entailed or I didn't feel any emotions toward. Eventually I realized that was just young, wishful thinking and gave up on it. Since I'm religious, I just plan on marrying a nice religious girl now and waiting for marriage.
Although I do sometimes feel like a complete fool for turning down the advances of women. A girl in a drawing class literally asked to suck my dick and I said no.
I feel that maybe I am still being stupid and idealistic and maybe I should just have sex like everyone else. But I want to BELIEVE
Am I being stupid if I turn down sex from girls even though I'd like to have it, just not random hook-ups?
>>17043711
Did you really turn down that girl because of your beliefs or were you just scared to show your dick?
Don't lie share your honest answer. Props to you for believing in no sex before marriage, I used to be like that until I lost my virginity at 19 years old.
Nope. Over the past decade I've had a few fingers inside 5 women, my dick in 4. It's nice and all, but once you get laid a few times you can't believe how much time, energy and thought you invested into what is essentially a short, pleasurable sensation.
>>17043685
No, I'm not, 21-year-old girl. Have had sex with 10 girls and 1 guy. Judge all you want
>>17043753
Which is better, pussy or dick?
Depends on my mood.
Got raped when I was a kid, so when I decide that counts I'm not a virgin, when I decide it didn't then I am.
>>17043685
nope ive done it with girls. because im not a pussy, i got the pussy.
forget about waiting for "the one" they dont exist like mark rubio supporters...
not every girl is a size queen: it all comes down to how you use it. and i have never had a complaint. if you cant eat pussy well, and give her a multiple orgasm (shuddering) with just your tounge she will think you are the best fuck she has ever had.
Yes
Got bullied as a kid
Shot down a few women who wanted to get to know me because I was scared they would come to not like me
After I turned 18 I existed more as a concept than as a person
>>17043685
Yes.
Bullied all of middle school, didn't know anybody in high school, only attended college three semesters before my identity got stolen and I got duped out of my financial aid.
I've tried meeting women, but I can't mentally comprehend having the confidence to be worth anyone's intimacy when I live at home, can't finish school, work a shitty job, and am generally a worthless human being. I only fuck me because SOMEBODY has to do it. If I had the choice, I'd leave me to die alone, too.
Nope. I had a normal life and now I save lives.
Yeah. 24/m, I'm afraid of sex and I keep passing up opportunities to have it even when girls want it from me. A lot of my friends were raped or abused as kids and I've always been afraid to do it because I don't want to hurt anyone just to get off. I'm working on getting past it though.
>>17043872
>bullied all through school
>was intelligent
>left because couldnt take it
>socially awkaward, couldn't talk or got face twitches and shit when I did
>joined Brazilian jiu jitsu at mma gym
>forced me to make contact with people
>started muay thai
>got fit
>started running (no friends because social retard) this also allowed me to spend every waking hour training
>guys and girls at gym started to respect me for training so hard
>got a couple of invites to bbq's and social events
>met more new people
>got confident
>made new friends at gym
>fit as fuck now
>can fight and look pretty good (I think)
>girls approach me all the time, have great new friends, confident from training etc
>got a girlfriend now
>got a job at the gym I started training at
>lost my virginity in the process
>see the guys (and girls) from school who bullied me around, overweight, spend all their time drinking
>all of them try to be nice now I'm a bit of a weapon
>look at them, say nothing and keep cruising
changed my life OP and others whove been fucked around and feel like they are missing out, go join up tomorrow
No. Lost my virginity around this time last year to my first girlfriend. We just recently broke up.
>>17043685
yeah but it is totally by choice... i want to become a wizard!
Yes, for religious reasons (I'm kind of a Jesus freak -- not a fundie, though.).
Yes. My parents had me at 23 and my existence sort of ruined their future plans. I'm scared of a condom breaking or something to the point where I don't even want to fool around. Plus, I still live at home and don't feel comfortable bringing a girl here. I need to move out, top priority.
Outside of nerves, I'm not worried about my dick and my decision isn't religious at all. I think she'll like it and sex will get better as I get more experience.
>>17043685
Yeah, I'm a combo of ugliness and boring beta personality. Absolutely zero reason to like me.
No. I've been a non-virgin longer than I was a virgin.
>>17043685
Nah. We fuck like bunnies when we have the time.
Nope. Decided to stop being one when I was a few weeks shy of 18.
I just wanted to say that if you are a virgin then here's some tips for when you lose your virginity
>sex takes time, rhythm, and physical effort.
>if you try going from 0 to 60 in 4 seconds you are gonna have a bad time
>foreplay, make out, when you penetrate do it slow for a while
>try to put in at least 10 mins of low to moderate speed penetration before you ramp it up
>stop changing up positions every 30 seconds. stick to a position for at least 5 minutes, preferably 10, and then move to something else. it really helps if you have a routine in place so you can alternate the stress you put on certain muscle groups for you and your partner
>work out, run, build up your stamina, you are having sex and you both want to be doing it for a while so be ready
there's a lot of thirst that comes out in the open when you finally get to stick it in, but just take it easy in the beginning and really explore each other's body. it's not about just cumming asap, it's about enjoying the penetration and caressing and whatever else.
good luck
Yes.
I'm 27 male.
Yes
There was never another option, but I have made the choice
>not your choice XD
I consider myself better than people who are presented with only one choice yet refuse to choose
>>17044391
People who have trouble having sex always seem to have something blatantly wrong with them; it's really not hard -- we're literally wired for sex.
I could have had sex with so many people during and since high school. Granted, one of them was blind, but still.
Yes
>have /d/-teir hentai addiction
>watch 3d porn
>it's just a hunk of flesh why should I care
>few years pass
>look at 3d woman
>it's just a hunk of flesh why should I care
and here we are
>>17043857
>After I turned 18 I existed more as a concept than as a person
What.
>>17044397
Elaborate. Did they just walk up to you and offer? How could you have possibly had sex with a woman in high school? Are you a severely confused rapist? How did you not come off as creepy for just having the thought?
Of course I'm a virgin. I'm a 4channer
>>17043753
disgusting dyke whore
>>17043763
that sucks man. I was raped in college and I used to count it when totalling sex partners. I don't anymore. fuck that shit.
also if you want to get really technical about it, doesn't every cell in your body get replaced every seven years? if so, then the only person I've slept with is my husband.
even if not, it seems to me if it happened more than seven years ago it shouldn't count. so very many things in your life can change in that time. society should agree on a statute of limitations for this kind of thing, kind of like how bankruptcy only fucks your credit for so long or traffic tickets only affect your insurance for so long before dropping off.
but 99% of people on 4chan are either virgins or only became sexually active a few years ago, so I'm probably pissing in the wind here.
27 male virgin here
Average looking with no friends or social skills are my biggest barriers
Yes. I have a weird life story but basically i'm 28 years old and it's not possible for me to have a GF right now. I'm too busy trying to get my academic life and career together because i'm preparing for college. I also have some mental health issues and have difficulty having deep meaningful relationships with people. Which sucks because I want those relationships but I just sabotage those relationships so they never get deep. Wish I knew how to stop doing that but maybe I will after this therapy helps me out.
I probably need to start lifting weights or take exercise seriously before I try to have sex anyway. I'm out of shape and i'm guessing it's going to feel uncomfortable because of that
>>17043685
>first and only time having sex was almost a year ago
>I had a small get together with a girl who had a crush on me in high school and a few others
>everybody drinking
>I get absolutely shitfaced
>everyone else leaves but they are going to come back
>me and girl start making out
>go in other room and start having sex
>at this point I am blackout drunk
>after a while I realize that I could go all night and not cum
>we decide to stop
>everyone else comes back and we start playing beer pong, girl standing next to me and joking having a good time
>there was another guy there who obviously liked/was in love with this girl
>she goes out on my balcony with him
>they are out there a while, so I decide to go get them to come in as we were playing beer pong with only 3 people
>I go out there and the guy gave me this death stare
>starts going off on how I raped the girl
>she starts to look super embarrassed and keeps telling him to shut up and it's not like that
>he keeps good off
>he storms out of my apartment calling me a rapist
>everyone else there is just staring at me
>girl is standing there staring at me
>I tell her "you can leave too"
>she storms out crying
>everyone else promptly bails
>find out that the next week the girl and that guy started dating
That was probably the worst night of my life. The worst part is, I told my friends about what happened while we were hanging out, and one of them jokingly messaged her telling her that she should come over to my apartment. Presumably she told him her warped version of the story because shortly after that he stopped talking to me.
>one of these threads
>someone comes in and starts talking about how hopeless they are
>9 times out of 10 they let it slip they have friends
FUCK
>>17044450
>doesn't every cell in your body get replaced every seven years?
No
>>17044429
My whole personality is on my computer, and it's got a password on it. The most literal sense of closed off to the world. I'm like a table. People have come up to me and demanded to know what I do with my time and I dodged the question
Yeah. 28/f not religious
@OP
I have stretch marks all over my dick from trying some kinky masturbation stuff a few years ago. I'm too embarrassed to show a girl my dick now.
Rubbed privates together with a bunch of girls when I was 6-11.
>>17044544
Chicks don't care bro. I've got a biopsy scar on my glans and fordyce spots on my shaft and most girls don't even notice. A couple have asked what it was and I just explain and they're like "oh ok whatevs"
Don't sweat it man
Yes.
19 years old. I've been in a relationship of 2 years from 15 to 17, and i never had sex with her, yeah laugh if you want, but she was 2 years younger (laugh again, kek) and i didn't want to scare her. Then she left, probably partly because of this, btw. I fingered her once or twice and she said she loved it, so she was probably open for sex but i didn't have the balls to bring the subject.
My only other sexual experience was my dick sucked at a party like six months ago. Maybe some would say it counts but i don't want it to be my first time because it was way too weird. And i'm pretty sure oral sex doesn't count anyway.
I'm kinda frustrated with the whole thing, because since i broke up with my ex i'm pretty awful with girls. It's frustrating that what you were able to do (i.e get a gf) when you were 15, you can't now.
I'm not even ugly or autistic or something, i hang out with a lot of people, have a lot of friends, but i'm too much of an introvert to make moves now. I overthink everything
I'm working on it now though, i'm learning to stop caring about what people think of me, and so far it's improved a lot. I feel less ashamed of myself and a little more confident. I try not to care even though it's hard.
Yes. I'm decent at talking to chicks but I don't meet new people very often, so I've only ever had one girlfriend for about 3 months when I was 19. Wasn't really looking for it and she wanted to move slow, which was fine by me seeing as that was the first time I had even held a girls hand.
>>17043685
no, but sex is all that it's made up to be Tbh. I've had it twice before, and it was disappointing. It's been 5 years since I had sex, and don't even care.
Yes. 23 years old. Going on a trip with mates to Amsterdam soon hoping to change that.
You always get people saying it changes you somehow - anybody who lost theirs post-teen like to share if it changed them and how?
No
I am not a virgin. 28, F.
Does that help you OP? lol...
>>17044397
> it's really not hard -- we're literally wired for sex
oh god if there was one statement i really wish was true, this would be it
Im no virgin, had two really long relationships and two casual hookups but girls arent nearly as wired for sex as guys are
Basically look at a guy and he is ready to get laid, girls...not so much
>>17044747
What. That's bullshit. I lost mine at 20 and felt no different. It doesn't change you at all. After the first time I had sex I just sat on the sofa and thought "wow, that was it?" All the embarrassment and stress over the years for that?!
it's not a big deal like people make it seem. When you finally see for yourself, you'll be the same person you are right now. But you'll probably laugh at yourself for being so stressed over being a "virgin"
Age 28 and I've had sex with men and women. Or I guess just men and a woman.
>>17043685
yep
bullied in middle school
feared in high school
im still a college freshman, so there is hope.
I never had a girlfriend, and I don't feel bad about it. I'm comfortably introverted, and I don't believe that a man and a woman can "just" and "only" be friends; at some point, one of them are going to develop feelings for one to another. I'm still a virgin, I had a crush on a girl 2 years ago, it was unrequited because she never knew I did, but I'm 18 now; seasons change, people forget.
Nope.
Lost it yesterday on prom night to my amazing guy who also lost his to me. I also intend on spending my life with him, so don't have much experience as some of y'all vets here
>>17044467
you should punch that guy in the face
No. 24, mutual, wedding night, worth it.
>>17044466
godspeed anon.
>>17044573
I relate to you, this makes me happy.
>>17044968
It's always nice to see that someone does.
I am, but not by choice. Literally no one wants to fuck me or likely has ever wanted to. It tears me up inside and sometimes I just want to die.
Yes.
I was in such a dark place in my life every time someone asked me out I chased everyone away.
>>17044942
That's my dream. I'm totally fine being a virgin and won't lie if people ask.
I just worry any girl I start dating will lie about it.
>>17044444
Get a load of those quints, Clint.
Yep, by choice though. I'm also scared of losing my virginity.
Yeah.
I'm not bad looking and I'm apparently funny, but I'm really bad at social situations plus there aren't a lot of fish in the sea since I live in a town of ~10,000 people and can't leave town during the winter.
Every girl who heavily implied that she wanted to fugg me would be covered with the spaghetti that I had in my pockets, for example:
>talking about hot springs
>I say I haven't been in years
>"we should go together anon, we can both drive to [city] some day!"
>"haha, why would I go to [city], what am I, Polish?"
>realize I fucked up, run away
Fuck my life
Kissless virgin 18 tho
>>17043685
Nope. Lost it on my 18th birthday.
>>17044544
>kinky masturbation techniques
Explain
>>17044501
>watches Lain once
>>17044501
My my aren't you edgy.
no but i wish i was
fuck these ugly feelings i get when i think of her. seriously. if this never happened id be a happy loser instead of a loser
i thought I would be Virgin for life but I lost it at 16 and only fucked two girls and I'm almost 20 is that bad.
>>17043685
yeah
getting laid still seems surreal at my level
like you have to go out and jump through magically get girls horny enough to fuck you. I can't make it passed platonic conversation like how do you guys even do it ???
>>17043685
no.
i've only had sex about 20 times, probably 15 of which were drunk and none of which were with anyone i actually wanted to talk to or got on with at all.
i've not so much as held hands with a girl i actually 'like' and havent fucked in 2 years.
honestly i fluctuate between being bitter and resentful and working hard to improve myself. tend to be spending more time doing the latter recently, thank fuck.
>>17043711
you are not stupid.
the majority of young people these days dont wanna get married and dont wanna have kids. nobody wants to 'BELIEVE', as you say. they want hot kinky sex to forget all the fucked up shit in their head. good luck mate.
>>17043685
No. I've had sex with 6 women who willingly wanted to. I will say sex is overrated, albeit fun when you're doing it and sometimes during it it gets boring and your mind wanders. Sometimes they queef or fart too. When it's over you want them to leave.
Yes
I'm a 20 year old girl
I don't actively try and seek out sex/relationships though
>>17044930
>Lost it yesterday on prom night
>I also intend on spending my life with him
Oh look, an average, naive high school girl
>>17044557
Same boat man. Thanks for sharing. gl
>>17044431
I was referring to the time when I was in high school, lol. Of course I don't want to fuck high school students *now* -- I'm 22.
Sometimes, you can tell a chick is really into you and wants to bang you, and other times you can tell that they're really easy to manipulate and would bang you if you played your (very simple) cards right.
>>17044768
I'm bi, so men also count as potential sex partners for me.
>>17044152
At least you are aware of your flaws, but don't be so negative about it. As long as you don't expect a 10/10 model you can still get a girl.
>>17044501
Holy shit, are you me from a year ago? Calm the fuck down and just get outside and talk to people ya doofus
>>17044450
Some people don't care about how many partners you have and some people care a great deal. Honestly, most people are somewhere in the middle. Wanting a statute of limitations on something like the number of sex partners is downright retarded though. Most autistic thing I have heard in a while. We shouldn't overemphasize the past, but we shouldn't erase it either.
>>17044795
You just proved it does change you. Like you said all the stress and embarrassment is lifted from your shoulders. Being a virgin, especially as a male, it essentially a social burden in today's society. I had the same reaction you did essentially. I mean most virgins tend to overemphasize just how important sex is, when in actuality it's no big deal. For me getting rid of all that stress and embarrassment was a huge boost to my confidence. Which obviously only led to more sex after things didn't work out with the first girl.
yes.
tho I don't care even if I do a little.
Yes but I will lie about it irl.
>>17043685
Yes
>>17045685
I know I wouldn't lie because people assume I am one anyway and I don't want to appear as a tryhard. And no one asked me the question since I was 14, anyway.
Yes, 30 year old virgin, guy obviously.
I gave up the second I turned 30. I've seen enough on the internet to know 30 is the point of no return.
>>17043685
Yes, i'm ugly as fuck really insecure and everytime a woman shows interest in me i think it's some kind of trap or joke and i end up scaring them away
>>17044444
Quints confirm.
>>17045753
i would love to fuck a 30 yo virgin, that'd be so hot
>>17045753
Just cast Charm Person dude, it's like a first level spell.
>>17045306
Everything is edgy to you fags.
>>17045804
not into men, sorry.
and if you're a female, you are lying. Like I said, I've seen enough on the internet to know that shit doesn't happen. (Seriously, try to look for stories of guys after 30 losing their virginity without paying for it, you NEVER find it)
No
But im in a dry spell thats almost hit 2 years after having been with about a dozen girls since i was 14
>inb4 butchered comment
Nope. Lost it last month actually. I doubt I'll ever get another opportunity like that though.
>>17043726
I like the way you put that
>>17045814
i'm a girl and i'm genuinely not lying. i've had sex with two virgins and it's so amazing watching their faces as they feel what it's like to have sex for the first time. the oldest was 21 but 30 would be so good.
>>17045868
you make your pussy sound like it is the golden pussy , that's hot
>>17045951
it pretty much is
>>17043685
Yes. Thanks for the fucking reminder. I'm considering just saving up a couple thousand dollars and seeing what a whore at the Bunny Ranch can do for me instead. Oh, I'm 28 btw.
>>17045968
if you are in fact a girl how tight are you, is your pussy an innie or an outie lol . i was a virgin until i was 16 but i wanna fuck a virgin girl. how many dudes have you slept with?
20 year old here. People always tell me since I'm in college I have nothing to worry about, but I honestly think I'm a wizard in training. I haven't made any friends and I get the distinct impression that I actively repulse/scare girls simply because of my appearance. I get mocked pretty often and I've lost count of how many times girls have crossed to the other side of the walkway to avoid coming into contact with me. It's more or less been like this with women since elementary school. Even then, they singled me out because they found me so repulsive. I'm disgustingly ugly, have no social skills and a 4 inch penis, and I'm terrified of women. I find that it's best to avoid interacting with them as much as possible as to salvage my shattered ego. Honestly, I think I'm starting to come to terms with it. Some people aren't built for relationships, I suppose, and I have plenty of movies/TV shows/books to fill the void. I think someday if I have my own source of income I may pay an escort to pretend to be my girlfriend for a few hours. That would be nice, I think.
25 years old.
Yes, I'm still a virgin.
I've pretty much given up on actively trying to lose it, with no hopes of any miracle girl coming along willfully wanting to be my first.
I'll probably lose it to a prostitute some time next year before I even have my first kiss since I've read prostitutes don't ever allow that :(
>>17043685
Yes. 25th birthday's coming up.
>>17043685
No, but I had a terrible first time. Probably could've had sex when I was a little kid oddly enough.
Lost it at
>15
First kiss
>6
Should've kept in touch with first kiss girl. Sounds cheesy but I guess 'cause we were kids I've never had a better kiss since. She was flashing me too, anyone have any fucking clue what that means? Been bothering me for years.
>>17043956
Velazquez?
I'm a 24 year old male, and I'm still a virgin. I've never even had a girlfriend or been on a date, shit didn't even have my first kiss till I was 22.
I don't know how to strike up conversations with women and I hate sounding stupid. Every time I start a conversation or get pulled into one because people think they're helping me, I know I fuck it up somehow. And feel like an idiot.
The one time in recent history that I could have changed that I ran like a bitch because I get very uncomfortable and extremely nervous around women. Plus I knew exactly what she was planning before we even started drinking, I'm deathly afraid of anyone seeing me. And yes i have a penis that is way below average. Anyone here have any suggestions?
I've failed so many times and feel so pathetic I've contemplated suicide many times before.
Please any suggestions would help
No me and a guy sucked each other off
>>17046646
ugh, how big is your dick. are you overweight?
Yep. Gonna be 22 in June. Eight more years to go.
yep, my own damn fault too
Have had plenty of chances, Ive just always had incredibly low self esteem and self worth.
Ive turned down girls because I didnt think i deserved them, or I was too nervous. I think way too much and worry way too much.
Thats been changing as ive gotten older though. I think it'll happen before im 30
If virgin means, penis in vagoo all the way, then yes. I'm painfully tight. Sex is something I have to work up towards when I have a month of dedicated time for patient fingering.
I'm actually about to lose mine in a week. I'm a little scared but I found the perfect girl I'd want to lose it to
Yup
Just want to get married desu. Dated a few girls here and there and they didn't like not fucking and left, whatever.
I'll find a good girl eventually
20, never had my first kiss, too.
Women scare me, I don't know how to act around them so I insta shell up.
Also I play videogames way too much and don't care about night life.
Sometimes I wish I had a gf.
No
I lost my virginity and had my first kiss about 10 minutes apart from each other.
I was amazed at how ridiculously easy it was to lose it once I quit wasting my time playing vidya and played a sport.
I also quit giving a fuck about getting girls and for some reason that helped me immensely.
I was also underwhelmed by how shit it was compared to what I expected.
>>17045753
>30
Shit, only a few years away.
The thing that always gets me in these type of threads is that anons usually focus on the sex aspect of it.
Being a virgin isn't bad in itself, it's the fact that you've missed the usual social milestones that lead you being a 25+ virgin who's probably awkward as fuck and with little to no friends.
I've never really met any other nerds/geeks so I spent most of my years just keeping myself to myself and trying to avoid getting my head kicked in over postcode gang fights. Hence lack of friends and social skills.
>>17043685
Nope.
Lost my virginity to my boyfriend when I was 15. We've been together for 7 years.
>>17047494
>no sex til marriage
Even if you are religious this is still bullshit.
>>17047591
It's better than people than barely following your religious doctrine and still identifying with the religion and calling yourself religious. Waiting until marriage as an atheist is bullshit though.
>>17047603
>It's better than people than barely following your religious doctrine and still identifying with the religion and calling yourself religious.
True but the guy is hanging around on 4chan, you know, the website formerly known as the internet hate machine and the asshole of the internet.
>>17043685
24 friendless hikki NEET HKV and damn proud of it!
it's....it's not too late to turn my life around...right?
>>17047612
Judging by the success rate of this board...nope.
>>17047494
Well done, man. I have the utmost respect for you.
>>17047674
I don't.
>>17047710
I don't care.
Technically yes. I'm 22 and have sucked off about 30 guys in my life, but am saving myself for marriage for religious reasons.
>>17047743
Can't tell if troll post or just mocking the 'religious' anons.
>>17045404
>tfw want both marriage and hot kinky sex to forget all the fucked up shit in my head
Nope. Had 1 girl, but was kinda underwhelming
>>17043711
>A girl in a drawing class literally asked to suck my dick and I said no.
>shit that did not happen
>>17044534
How many responses did you think this post would get?
yeah, i only fuck with myself
>>17044444
Yawn
>>17045534
>I'm bi, so men also count as potential sex partners for me.
Good for you, i mean it. really improves your odds but doesnt really change facts my friend
I wish i was gay or bi, would really make hooking up easier since girls are so abstinent
>>17043685
Yes, Asian and male. Had a very high sex drive, now I just don't fucking care. Women won't give me the time of day. I live in the wrong area to meet young women: suburbia.
I've only been in one relationship, during which, I became a wizard. I'm scared of pregnancy and STDs. I can barely get through a day by myself. How would I support a family? I also live with my mother, while working and paying off my life mortgage.
Is the virgin age limit thing real? I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life because of that.
>>17045052
>I just worry any girl I start dating will lie about it.
This, so much.
>>17044534
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>>17048500
Sorta I guess, I mean, unless you lower your standards i.e. the female counterpart to you. Basically a mass of fat and terrible opinions but with a vagina.
I'm not even insulting you but the female counterparts to most anons here are probably terrible if not worse.
Yes. I have a high sex drive so I can't wait to get some dick, but first I'll have to work on my intense fear of intimacy.
>>17043979
You are aware of truth, are you?
>>17043753
What normal person would judge you for that?
>>17046646
>>17043918
>>17047584
I lost my virginity at 26, now I'm 27. But breaking down those barriers to get to that point took 2 years. I was kissless too till that day,
Yes.
MtF that just started HRT so I have a lot of issues regarding having sex, so I haven't yet.
Nope, lost it at 14 when at a 'cool kid party'. Hadn't been to one before, hadn't realised the kid just invited me so his fat older sister would have someone to get drunk and fuck.
Didn't screw again till I was 17, been with her ever since. Nice to have a partner in crime.
I'm 24 now, lost my virginity when I was 21, drunk with a 20 year old female acquaintance who I had a crush on, in my own apartment.
About a year after that I hooked up with a horny 15 year old I met online, but the distance made it impossible to meet regularly, was nice to fap to her shlicking and moaning on Skype though.
Around February last year I met another girl online, she was 17 and lived pretty close. We became fuckbuddies and she stayed over 3-4 times a month, kept going until October, but my new antidepressants killed my libido and that was just fine, because she had had feelings for me for a while and I didn't like her like that.
Last month I got a visit from a horny 14 year old girl I'd been chatting with on and off for a few months, she wanted to lose her virginity and I was glad to help her with that. For 1-2 weeks after that she was pretty affectionate, talked about going to high school in my city, wanted us to not sleep with other people and so on, and I was like "Sure, why not". After a while she sobered up and figured that the travel distance and the fact that she'd have to hide it from her parents made things too complicated, so we better just stay as friends.
So...if someone had his dick in four vaginas, surely he's a normie? Not really, I'm still very depressed, very unemployed and very introverted. If there's one thing I need all you virgins out there to understand, it's that having a girl at your side will make your shit life a little better, but it won't fix it. Don't make her deal with your sad, broken ass, fix yourself first, then when you're happy even on your own, find yourself a girl.
>>17048843
>hooked up with a 15 year old
>>17048843
how are you getting so many underaged girls?
>posting this shit in 4chan
>>17048855
If you read on further, the most recent girl was actually 14, and I was 24, whereas I was 22 when I hooked up with the 15 year old. Luckily, I'm not American and our national laws and regulations are pretty much always fine with banging girls who consent and have hit puberty.
That being said, it does feel fucking bizarre to have sex with someone who is younger than Pokémon. I don't think I would want a serious committed relationship with someone under 18, personality-wise.
>>17045454
>who also posts on 4chan
>>17048860
>Posting this shit on 4chan
Yeah...I'm really not sure I should. I'm not breaking any laws where I live, but I'm sure 4chan, the people who run it (whoever that is, R.I.P. Moot) and the country their servers are in (probably murrica) don't exactly encourage it.
I just hang out on social sites, usually transition to kik pretty quickly (used to do snapchat but it's kind of shit), and it's no problem being assertive when you're anonymous. If she doesn't want your d that's fine, if she does, meet after a few weeks. You'd be surprised at the fucking huge amount of 14-17 year olds out there whose biggest wet dream is to be dominated in bed by a 20-35 year old guy. Like, literally 15-20% of the girls I talk to.
>>17048904
What sites?
>>17048948
Depends on your country to be honest. I've only been on Swedish ones. Kamrat.com, Hamsterpaj.net, Emocore.se, sites like that. Probably not gonna be of much help to you unless you're a Swede, but I guess you could always check out the sites and their layouts to figure out what your country's equivalent would be. I think they're usually referred to as communities.
>>17043857
>Shot down a few women who wanted to get to know me because I was scared they would come to not like me
This is me too. Refused about 6 women because I feel completely inadequate. I know once they got close to me they'd leave straight away. 26 year old virgin now.
Yeah.
Closest I have ever gotten was grinding or spooning.
I'm 18, hopefully when I go to college and don't have to worry about my parents I should get a gf.
This isn't advice
I turn 20 in a month
I've had my dick sucked and jerked off by my two ex-girlfriends, but never penetrative sex with either
My self esteem has collapsed in the last year and I can't be flirtatious if you forced me at gunpoint
I'm good looking, tall and a good speaker - I just don't know how to approach women.
>>17048996
That's funny, I never had to worry about my parents. I could always get away with anything by saying I was with a girl.
Yeah. Kissless virgin.
I'm decent looking and I can make people laugh but I hate myself too much to allow other people in on such a deep level.
Had problems with anxiety all my life so social get togethers are difficult for me. My parents divorced when I was young and my mum was emotionally cold toward me between me being age 10 and 14. I grew up greatly afraid of women and obsessed with the idea of finding a perfect woman and getting into a relationship where we are utterly devoted to eachother.
Went to an all boys school until I was 17, at which point girls were allowed in. Sperged out completely and became a beta orbiter.
Went to uni and got a few girls really interested but always pushed them away because I was too scared and was pretty depressed.
Surprisingly no, I was on the track to being that 30 year old that's never even had a kiss, not all that attractive, bad at flirting, etc, but I ended up meeting a girl who was very forward, then a guy who was even more forward, I just kinda went along with them, I was too scared and awkward to push for anything sexual, they weren't though. A month into this whole thing and I ended up losing my virginity in a three way. I'm out of that relationship now though, and still completely incompetent when it comes to flirting, so I doubt I'll be repeating that anytime soon.
>be 27
>be a virgin
>good job, looks normal, dresses casual
>6'2", 230lb
>go to California for week on business
>decide I'll lose my virginity over the day before flight
>drive 4 hours to Nevada brothel
>more nervous than I've ever been
>one second away from not going in
>decide to go in
>main host tells me to sit somewhere and ladies will come talk to me
>tells me we can make a deal with them back in their room
>sit there 90 minutes looking lost
>not a single lady comes up but several pass
>realize time is up
>i have to leave if i wanna make my flight home
>so i left
I'm apparently so repulsive a hooker won't sleep with me. At least I can move on and focus on other things im my life instead of focusing on my own virginity.
>>17049153
>>6'2", 230lb
Maybe they were afraid of you. What kind of facial expression did you have?
>>17043685
Nope, haven't been one since I was 15.
Have some pretty fucked up/crazy sex stories if y'all want to hear an oldfag babble on.
>>17044930
Kendall?
>>17049436
Are you a dude?
>>17049570
Yup. But most of my stories focus on crazy shit girls did to/with me.
>>17049574
Yeah sure go ahead.
>>17048464
>girls are so abstinent
How old are you
Yes, and I plan to keep it that way
One month away from achieving wizard status.
I get so nervous in social situations with unknown people that I want to throw up.
Never been in a real date, I guess I will die alone
>2013
>Enter med school
> Met 2 qt3.14s who were into me
>Couldn't decide which one to go with
>Ended up going for the shy, introverted girl
>We are our first time
>Fast forward to 2016, have a great relationship, great sex, great communication
>Still feel the need experience with other girls
>MFW qt3.14 doctor wants my D
>MFW everyone is fucking around in the hospital but me
>Why do I have to carry this burden
>>17049396
I'm sure I was very tense looking. I was nervous as all hell. I tried to be nice to the girl that brought me a drink and some food and even gave a nice tip at the end. Sat there a few minutes. Another group of 3 dudes shows up and within 2 minutes one blonde girl goes over to say hello.
At that point I knew I was just unlovable. I'm not mad. It just feels like my soul has been snuffed out. I don't feel anything anymore.
I haven't masturbated to porn or been turned on in over 20 days now. Part of my fantasy with masturbating is that the woman actually loved me back and now I know that is impossible.
I guess the best thing that came out of this is I can talk to anyone now and not get distracted by my dick.
Lost it at 16, realized virginity is a concept that is put on a pedestal.
>>17049396
>Maybe they were afraid of you.
Is a guy really intimidating at that size? I'm a bit taller than he is and I've always thought I came off friendly.
>>17050278
Most women are between 5'4 and 5'7 and probably about 130 lbs max. Plus they aren't as physically aggressive.
No, bi 20 year old grill.
My first time was with my first bf (if I'm not counting when I was raped as my first time) when I was 14.
I've been with 11 more people since then I think, including a couple girls.
My partner of 2.5 years, also bi, is 22 and he's been with over 100 people.
If you're older than 21 and you're still a virgin, you either are saving yourself for marriage/that special person or there's something really wrong with you. If throughout your entire life no one has ever been attracted to you, that means there is nothing attractive about you. You have no redeeming qualities.
Consider joining a monastery.
>>17050618
Probably bait, but that's not true.
27 M and yes.
>had a gf in highschool just by being me
>only really got to make out a lot
>broke up and was hurt like your average 16 year old
>figure I'll just focus on school
>take demanding course in college
>most of my friends go away to party
>ace everything and get a good job
>try online dating and get pissed and quit
>briefly date my friends sister and ends disastrously
>work, save money, invest
>27 and know literally 0 potential girls
I'm ahead of others in some ways and behind in other ways. FYI the "work on yourself and you'll meet someone" is nonsense.
>>17043711
Naaa fuck that, you are right 100% , this generation is too easy, I lost my dream girl due to the lack of fucking morals in this generation.
>>17043685
Yes
I hardly go out at all and I pretty much have no friends if you don't count work colleagues and friends from high school. I'm hoping that I'll get invited to a party where I'm not to scared/anxious to go and that I might actually feel comfortable enough to get off with a girl.
I doubt that will happen though, I'm pretty socially awkward in general.
On another note, I think there's a girl who likes me but it's so hard to tell beause she's really friendly with a lot of guys and she has a boyfriend, is anyone on adv good at knowing if a girl really likes you and isn't just being friendly?
On the one hand I just want to wait for marriage on the other, no women do and that hurts. Thinking she'll have lied to me.
I know we need social norms to keep society functioning, but it still amazes me how closed off to sex society is. People dance around sex as if it is this unimaginable evil, when realistically, they should just outright ask for it.
"Good evening, miss, are you single? Would you like to have sex?"
I know it sounds creepy and wrong, but if people were honest about what they want, maybe we wouldn't have so many toxic relationships.
>>17051736
That's what Tinder is for.
Just put in your profile that you're not looking for anything serious or just looking for some "fun" and you'll pull people interested only in that.
Tinder has become the tool that lets us deal with the social stigma that comes with wanting sex. ASSUMING, of course, that you actually have the looks to pull it off. Or mad game.
>>17051591
>Probably bait, but that's not true.
It's not quite true, but the older you get, the harder it will be to meet new people making it difficult to fit into new social circles. Even in social circles that would've been ideal for you but you came in too late. (The few geek circles I very, very occasionally come across with people my age have already been formed)
And then there's the issue it being your first relationship and all the issues that come with it but at a point where you should've been more experienced.
>>17051619
>FYI the "work on yourself and you'll meet someone" is nonsense.
Yeah, but you want to be in an expensive car when you drive off that cliff.
Yes.
I was close to losing it a year ago to a redditor but I didn't have a place to bring her to because I was homeless and she didn't want to have me come to her place.
I got my life on track a bit and have a place to myself now though, which is nice.
Bump cos this thread will appear in multiple variations, better keep it to one thread.
Yes. Never had a relationship before. Don't really have friends aside from those on the internet. I don't go anywhere but to work or to the store. I think my depression and crippling anxiety attribute to it. I can't let people in man, I just can't.
>>17053553
Age? It's been pretty much like that for me these past 26 years. I don't think I could handle life past 30.
>>17053568
23, going on 24. I know I'm going to die alone. I can't change that fact. I don't even care that there's not a soulmate for me, there's just nobody for me romantically or otherwise. I always get left behind. I'm always the outsider. I've tried to be myself and see if people would stick, but they don't. Sorry, this just is me rambling. I know this isn't the thread for it.
>>17043685
Yeah.
I think my libido doesn't exist. I never had an orgasm, nor do I get turned on. But, it's hard to tell.
The only time I get remotely horny is when I'm dreaming, but that only happened a few times. It's very strange.
>>17043685
Yes. I was really frustrated with life until I decided to embrace not having to deal with women. Porn > relationship
>>17053573
>rambling
It's relatively on topic, so you can keep on rambling. If you're still in uni maybe you can join the geek/anime club. It's what I should've done especially there seemed to be only one member, a ginger pasty girl.
>>17053584
>Porn > relationship
Amen
>>17053589
Nah, I graduated last year. I'm in the real world now. Live on my own, only go to work.
>>17051899
I agree that the older you get the more difficult it can be, but the whole "there's something wrong with you part" I don't really agree with. I know several people who just don't get too many opportunities. I have a friend who runs a small business who doesn't really have the time to go out and meet people which causes issues with meeting women. I know it's not common, but there a some exceptions to the norm.
Yep, I am.
Mostly for spiritual reasons - I'm one of those "save it for marriage" faggots. I've gotten close to losing it, but managed to control myself. It's hard.
No one comes into my baby pusher till I'm at least 17. but thats just me idk
nope, first and only time was awful though so
Yes I am. That's probably never changing
>>17043711
god is a meme senpai.
do a favor to yourself and have some sexerino.
No.
Lost it to my first gf ever at 17 back in uni.
we broke up with her a year later and I haven't got sex ever since. I'm 26 now.
Let's say my sexual performance isn't that good to begin with and that makes me really insecure too try approach women for romantic purpose. Not only that but I suffer from terminal autism and social situation doesn't come the best for me either.
No. Lost virginity at 16
Hid myself away from the world during some of my formative years. Never dated in school or after. Now a wizard and I wonder what real lovemaking feels like. I often think that I fucked up big and that now I can't get it together before I become a permavirgin.
Growing up I had so many issues. I've fought to correct many things. Still I'm a bit off and I don't know what to do. I've been very antisocial most of my life. I don't think I've turned out so well and that my faults will just come back to haunt me in the long run.
What the hell do I do? I don't even think I can keep a woman from being bored to death. I think I've fallen too far behind the pack and now nature will cut me out of the game.
>>17054228
grab my last resort plan: pay a hooker.
atleast you won't die virgin that way anon.
>>17054232
If I do that, I'll find a clean one who works for a state ran brothel. I don't feel up to dealing with the difficulties of a relationship. Never have. I've seen too many people get fucked over. And suppose I developed feelings for a whore. How would I live with myself then?
Yes.
Regret it immensely.
Wasted high school in a bullshit teenage LDR with a girl in another state, met three times in three years, never got further than grabbing her ass and then she blocks me and tells me she's been fucking another guy.
Sent me into a hole for a few years and then I fucked up my life with unrelated mistakes and I'm here now at 24 with no friends or prospective relationships.
I hate it. I wasted all this time fantasizing over hormonal butterflies and a nervous mutual first time and all that and now I'm just too old. Even if I got a gf tomorrow it wouldn't matter, it would be a boring adult relationship and arguments about money and her desperate for kids. I missed out on what I wanted so much. No sex in the back of a car with her jeanskirt still on, no kissing her before class, fuck.
>>17054249
nah you won't, either if you do I am sure you'll find out you only did because she gave you sex, so I'd suggest you to find one far from the are where you live so it becomes hard to you to find her even if you wanted to.
I guess you should just hit the gym instead, there are other ways anon, don't take that advice for granted, take it from me I am sure there are other ways, I don't wanna die and say that everytime I touched a pussy I had to pay for it.
>>17054266
If paying for it is the only way I'd have, then I have better uses for my money. I don't have so much that I can chuck cash on ass whenever I like. And I need exercise badly enough. If even after I got in shape women didn't want this, I guess I'd just have to give up and realize that I'm not worth a shit sexually. Just build my confidence in other things and try to enjoy that as much as possible.
>>17054291
well yeah, I mean I went to the gym the moment I realized I wanted to do it for myself, because if I did it for a girl I would give it for granted that the first time one of them told me "no fuck off" I would drop it and start going in circles again.
is all about yourself feeling good with you I guess, if you're good with not having a relationship and only want the experience/status, then go ahead. I'll try to keep going like this and if I fail then fuck it i'll do it just for the experience.
>>17054228
I'm in the same position anon. It's absolutely awful because you can't even function properly in social situations. It's like I'm sitting at a table and everyone's chatting and laughing and I can see these opportunities for me to contribute but I don't quite know how so I just stare into space instead...
I'd rather stay a virgin than fuck a hooker though, I want a proper relationship not just sex.
>>17054252
That's what happens when you don't take action to live your life. Learn from this and never let that shit happen again.
>>17054299
I'd do it just for the knowledge though I fear I'd pay a huge price for it. Just one slip and BAM I knock some chick up and pay the piper. Or I get an infection. Or both. I weigh the possibilities and over think it. Spin in circles.
Questions: is sex even necessary for confidence and health? What power does it give that a celibate person can't get anywhere else?
>>17054323
literally anything, is all about the psychological factor behind it.
personally I go months with "I don't care about sex" in my mind just to switch to "I want to be in a relationship so bad" and enter some depression state.
>>17044534
>>17045412
>>17053577
Post voice
>>17043685
I lost my virginity last year to my ex bf. Now he is just my friend. It was a mutual break up. I still love him though.
>>17051736
>good evening, miss
Honestly I'd never fuck, let alone probably talk to, any guy who ever introduced himself to me like this.
It sounds 'classy' to some but just reeks of fedora and trying too hard.
The only way I'd ever like being introduced to someone like that is if they're an old person just trying to be polite.
>>17053672
I understand that while there may be nothing wrong with you, you're still on the backfoot of many social situations, like if some girl was to be interested in me, I wouldn't know what the hell to do. I mean, I'm 26 now, that a lotta years spent isolated.
Then there's a host of little things, went to a friend's wedding and it was pretty small (but still had a decent turnout), and I think how crappy the turnout to my wedding would be.
>Are you a virgin?
Yes, kissless etc. 23M
It used to bother me more, in a "is something wrong with me ?" way. I suffered the curse of the one-itis and getting rejected. Got diagnosed with mild asperger (but who isn't at least mildly autistic on 4chan ?) since then so I suppose that didn't help.
Now I wouldn't say I don't care, because I do and want to get into relationships eventually, but right now there are things I care about more:
>getting /fit/ because it makes me feel awesome
>being aware of my feelings so I don't let myself slip back into another 3 years of suicidal depression
>getting good grades (asperger isn't an illness if you're a math major)
>learning how to read "normal" people so I don't sound so autistic when I open my fucking mouth (still have some way to go, I need to read up on NLP)
I think I'm a virgin because I wasn't emotionally mature enough to handle a relationship anyway. It can't be inter-universal Teichmüller theory so I'm confident I'll get there eventually. Besides, I don't need a girl's validation to know I'm doing good so I'm not going to cry myself to sleep over tfwnogf.
Basically, screw pepe I'm taking control of my life.
Yes, 21m.
The thing is, I always thought I wouldn't have much trouble getting laid.
The reason for that is because when I was around 10 years old I would go to a friend of my mom for lunch because my mother would work during that time, that friend had a girl and whenever her mother left the house for whatever reason we would lick each others "special parts".
At the age of 13 or so a childhood friend which I knew since I was 4 had to sleep at my place as her parents were gone for a day and she wasn't allowed to stay at home alone. We ended up being in one bed and started having sex at one point.
As she was trying to put my dick in, I thought I heard someone entering the room and quickly pushed her away, we didn't continue afterwards and I can't quite recall why.
Now here I am, at the age of 21, I have barely touched a girl since.
I'm really short which probably puts a lot of girls of but it doesn't bother me that much.
There are 2 main reasons which think matter a lot.
1) I don't know the english term for it but I was born with my lip being split all the way up to my nose, which left a scar and a slightly deformed lip. I heard that many women look at mens lips first when they take a first impression so yeah, I can imagine many women are disgusted, just when they think about kissing me.
2) I study computer engineering so there are no girls in my class obiously, I also don't go to "get drunk" parties, which a lot of people my ago do, so I don't meet too many new women either.
I do know quite a lot of women though I met over time, and many of them talk to me about stuff like relationships and/or sex every now and then.
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>>17043685
>cute looking guy who looks like a girl sometimes
>lose it at 15
>fast forward to many years
>live normal life
>only single because I keep moving places and girls break up with me
>meet first love I met at 11 again this time
>get back with her at age 25
>time skip till I'm 30
>married
I'm happy now.
>>17043956
Feeling this one.
I'm at the getting fit stage and slightly more confident.
But still total social retard in many ways, fucking don't know how to react sometimes when i'm walking past someone in
the corridor at work.
Been giving a girl from work rides for a month or so, overactive mind wonders if i've already
failed to get her to like me.
Getting there though. Feels good.
Yep. Funny how hard shit gets when your life just dominos to hell.
>massive medical problems spring up at 13
>parents think medical problems fucked with head and made me depressed/have PTSD (I wasn't and didn't)
>all the drugs they put me on to fix nonexistant mental problems gave me real mental problems
>Chronically underweight, scoliosis, ribcage is deformed, have very visable medical implant and scar thanks to that sudden medical emergency at 13
>Graduated highschool without even attending entirety senior year
>Now a 22 year old college junior with 0 friends taking online classes and only leaving my parents' house for doctors appointments
>never even held a girl's hand
Honestly I'm just going to bed each day hoping that my body will finally fully give out.
[spoiler]Guess that's more than needed to explain why I'm a permavirgin. Fuck it need to vent sometimes[/spoiler]
Yeah, 19yr kissless virgin. I blame the fact that I'm a 6ft, 286lbs black man with average looks and resting bitch face.
>>17055436
>>17055391
There should an age limit of 21+ on these threads.
>>17055488
23+
>>17043685
Yes. About to turn 21. I have an extremely mild social life and never had any kind of love life. I don't even remember the last time I touched a girl desu, prob over a year.
Yes. I was a fat fuck until 20, now I'm a fit fuck at 22. Reject women occasionally because the schadenfreude I get from rejection is a guaranteed mild happiness boost while anything sexual or romantic has a high chance of unearthing my crippling anxiety and insecurities.
Yep. Turning 26 this year. I live alone and have no friends so every time a girl was interested in me my lack of social grace became immeduately obvious and they ditched me right there.
Women are cold, heartless monsters.
>>17043685
27 years now and yeah. Kissless too.I tried dating and at least asking out a few girls, never worked out. I'm massively insecure and uncomfortable when it comes to physical contact and if I at all I ever get anywhere close to actual intimacy I assume it's gonna be fucking hell for me desu.
No
18 y/o female. Just one guy, my boyfriend who late broke up with me like a month later. I was with him for like 6 months before I lost my virginity to him so he couldn't have been just using me... right?
Does getting your dick sucked count cause if not that's a yes.
21
Trying to not have sex with anybody since I want to save it till marriage (or along those lines). It's not easy.
Nope, 20 M.
Now that I've done it so many times, I don't care anymore.
I really flipped shit about it last year because I was scared of dying a virgin. Then I just put myself out there, landed a few one night stands, and a girlfriend who I think I'll break up with soon unless she gets her act together.
>>17055989
If he waited 6 months to bone, then yeah, he wasn't just using you. At our age, no one really is relationship material.
Personally, I'm waiting to find a good woman until my 30s or 40s.
No. Lost my virginity in kind of corrupt way.
>be in club in college
>want to be more involved and put something good on resume
>decide to run for position of secretary (I'm just a freshman so decided to wait until running for VP or president)
>8/10 sophomore girl is running for vice president
>We're joking around about how we should vote for each other
>she gets really close to me
>I'm like "heh wouldn't it be funny if we both won"
>grabs my dick through pants
>"I've been watching you and you're one of the cutest guys in the club and I want your vote"
>ohshit.jpeg
>We start making out and ripping each other's clothes off
>realize this is about to be my first time, stop and think for a bit
>"what's wrong, anon? this better not be your first time, is it?"
>lie and say "n-no i was just distracted by something"
>think fuck it
>we have really passionate sex for the next four hours
>turns out she had a daddy fetish and I exploit it to the max
>utterly dominate her (no bdsm stuff, but there is choking, spit, and spanking)
>I ended up winning my election
>she lost
I don't think we're gonna fuck anymore :(
>>17056687
this all happened like two weeks ago too
>>17056687
>>17056689
Uh-huh I believe you.
>>17056707
Okay let's hear how you lost your virginity, you faggot.
Oh wait...
>>17056721
I'm sure I can come up with some similar bullshit.
>>17043685
Yes.
I'm 22 and I haven't as much as held hands with a girl.
I have pretty much accepted that I'm destined to be forever alone.
Nope. The girl i lost it to is giving me a lot of grief these days though. She and I broke up but we still acted like we were together for a bit. She's been really wishy-washy and it's starting to hurt me.
I work a lot and she's been talking to another guy really consistently. We just got into a fight about it less than 15 minutes ago. She said he's just a friend and is good company. He lives a few states over so obviously they aren't fucking behind my back but really. I've been cheated on by other girls, so I assume on some level she's no better.
Then again, we aren't "together" so i guess she probably wouldn't care if she did fuck him. I just can't let her go. I need help, really.
>>17056687
>>17056689
cool
I lost my virginity during final summer in college.
I was living in the dorm, pretty much spending my free time as a shut in playing RPGs. The sorority from opposite block was offering room cleaning service to raise money for whatever the fuck. So when this chick knocked on my door the first time I was masturbating, I told her vaguely to comeback later, never expected she would. The next day she came back at the same time and I invited her into the room and she jokingly said something which made me realize the window blinds on the other side of the room have been opening since the previous day and she definitely saw me wanking. So there I sat on my chair, playing TW2 while she sat on my bed asking me about my major (lol). She told me she was a freshman and was unsure about her future, I told her she was sitting on my underwear and reached out but she didn't move, my hand touched her thigh. Her skin was so silky. Awkward silence, then I kissed her while my hand fondled her ass, sort of missed. Then she pushed me to the chair and I thought this is it, I'm gonna be charged with sexual harassment which is gonna cost me 10k and my future, to my surprise the next thing I knew she was on top of me and I pulled down my pants as quick as I could and she rode my dick while kissing me. Some time later I asked her to go down to the cafeteria to have a drink and eat something because her stomach was growling while she was still rather enthusiastic with all that grinding (pretty sure I came a minute earlier). We had dinner together and we came back to my room for a second round, this time on my bed. The next day my roommate came back from his vacation and shook his head at the cumstain on my mattress. So that was my first gf, she didn't clean my room like she was supposed to, but broke my chair, dirtied my bed and I was pretty sure she orchestrated all of it.
>>17055512
50+
Yup. Just turned 28 2 days ago. When I hit 23 I was so deep in feces I tried to look up.
So I became obsessed with the thing. Over a year I lost over 100 pounds. I got better habits. After a while, I went out a bit more. Didn't have friends. Developed some hardcore skin issues, and I lost weight fast enough that my skin went really saggy and stupid.
After a while I went back to school. Thought I'd do terribly and I was completely wrong. I started as an awkward loser afraid of people. I made a few friends there. Most of them girls. Even the difficult girls to deal with often treated me pretty nicely. 2 girls in 2014 kinda seemed to want something more than being friends but my body was still shit. 2015 I am literally surrounded by women who do nothing but praise me and trust me. That ends by summer when only a handful are actually close friends but still pretty impressive
However I never got laid.
Now one of those girls from 2014 got my number somehow and I kinda really want to lose it to her. She seemed more into me than anyone.
Yep.
Recently turned 30. So I'm a wizard. Can't cast spells. I was lied to.
Oh well. I'm never having sex at this rate. I've exhausted my youth. Net step is death.
>>17057423
>50+
Woulda killed myself long before then
>>17043685
Yep. I was saving it for the right girl and was gonna give it to my long-distance girlfriend when we meet up. Then she cheated on me after the 4 years we were together, cammed for money, and fucked her new roommate on the first night they moved in together. I'm now the only person I know who's still a virgin.
I'll just keep waiting for the right girl. Preferably one who isn't behind a monitor, and preferably after I've gotten my shit together.
>>17043685
I lost my virgibity when I was 14 lol not proud of it but it is what it is I'm 21 now and it makes me feel better to know I'm atleast with the same guy
>>17043685
If you were raped multiply times dose it count as loosing your virginity?
If so then yes.
Yup. I'm shy, out of shape, and go to an all boy's school, and I like girls.
So I am as virgin as possible.
The closest thing i've done that is remotely sexual with another person is have camsex with maybe 10 different girls on omegle.
Been trying to date some people, but it's really difficult since,
A) I go to an all boys school
B) I cannot drive
C) I live with my parents
>>17057838
Why do people on this board always seem to have this "waiting for the right person" mindset? It's not like your virginity really means anything to anyone.
>>17058094
>used goods
>>17058094
I'd rather spend my first time with someone I care about than with someone I'm guaranteed to never talk with again.
>>17058094
>doesn't mean anything to anyone
Some people just don't like sleeping around. I'm not against others doing it but I've never felt like it was a good idea, even the couple of times girls explicitly asked for it. The first time we had a bad history and hated each other so fucking her wasn't the answer. The second girl I just straight up didn't find attractive. If it doesn't mean anything to anyone then it shouldn't make a difference how long you take to lose it.
It's funny to me how people tell you virginity doesn't matter, but then act like something's wrong with you because you didn't just lose it to the first cute guy or girl who was willing when you were younger.
>>17058113
And?
>>17058117
I guess. I don't see why you would want to have awkward sex with someone that cares about you (and thoroughly disappointing them) than having sex with girls that you don't care about before finding a person that you really do care about so that you will be more prepared.
