You may remember me from a few days ago, broke, dumped and now working as a escort.
So far it has gone well and i haven't been raped and murdered but i do need some advice
Should i do over nights with repeated customers? should i accept gifts that aren't for services? How close do i allow these guys on a personal level?
>>17014566
Glad to hear that you're doing ok.
If I were in your position, I would very much keep clients at an arm's length. It's very common for men to confuse lust with love, and for some men (especially those with less experience) those two feelings are inherently intertwined.
I would say no to gifts, no to overnights, no to "dates". Both your clients and you should remember that you are there to engage in a sexual experience with them- nothing more nothing less. You are providing a service. Think of yourself as a cleaning lady- does the cleaning lady sleep over? Does the cleaning lady get nice gifts? Does the cleaning lady go on dates with her clients? No- because in a professional setting that is not appropriate. I'd say that ESPECIALLY in a job like yours, you need to absolutely refuse any type of romantic advances unless it's related to role playing. You need to be willing to cut off clients who are going too far.
I have a question- what are your goals for the future? Are you worried that the actions you're taking now may affect that future?
I also have one more piece of advice:
You can make a lot of money camwhoring and selling panties online without having to actually have sex with men. There is a lot more privacy/safety.
I sold panties for 80$ a pop at one point. I don't know what you're charging for your services- but camwhoring is something to consider if you dislike actually sleeping with random men
>>17014566
>>17014582
>females on /adv/ are literal whores
lol
>>17014595
>whore makes a board asking about whore things
>whore replies with whoring-related information
Who else would know about this kind of stuff but a whore? What were you expecting a nun to reply?
>>17014582
I actually don't mind the sex I could cam whore but I'm still buying food and clothes to survive before tech. It could be a goal and yea I do worry I'll be recorded or something similar and have that used against me
>>17014566
>Should i do over nights
Nope. Lets them get way too attached.
>should i accept gifts that aren't for services?
Probably not, makes them think you have more than a professional relationship.
>How close do i allow these guys on a personal level?
Keep physical clients as emotionally far away as possible.
>>17014582
>no to "dates".
Eh, dates are kinda important for high-class work, aren't they? Lot of escorts pretend they only do dates.
>You can make a lot of money camwhoring and selling panties online without having to actually have sex with men. There is a lot more privacy/safety.
Yeah, consider this. Camwhoring can be more lucrative if you have good charisma and creativity, and with a strong dose of luck you can hook some whales that'll spend more than any of the guys you can find as a local hooker, without the risk of violence, STDs, criminal charges, etc.
Though i do have a question: i think i remember you being a CS student at UT or something, can't you get a better paycheck with a part-time programming gig? Or do you like this better?
>>17014630
If recorded you just say it isn't you, just someone who looks a lot like you.
Gotta wrap the room, hide any personal stuff, hide IP, etc, but that's obvious stuff
I wish you luck.
Be safe.
Hope you get out of that job soon though.
>>17014652
Oh I probably could I am going through a self loathing phase and being seen as desirable is helping also like I said I am bare bones sur ior here, fucking strangers isn't a long term thing just a " I need to eat" thing
>>17014670
Also so far I've done nothing but out calls my apt is not what I would call a sexy bordello, I have dirty cloths and books everywhere. Should I do in calls?
>>17014745
user of multiple escorts here... I would say this depends on what sort of clients you are getting.
People like me dont really give a shit about your place, they just want sex and thats it.
Other people may want a more grand experience and want a posh place - and in this case, I would charge extra, advertising yourself as an "classy" escort - because you keep your house tidy and sparkling clean. However, I don't care about this, others might.
>>17014670
ehhh...
I wouldn't see anything wrong with this if you were like >>17014582 and you had a down-to-earth approach about what you're doing. But you don't seem to really know what you're getting into, and I think you should get out and find another job.
If you're ever hoping to have a "normal" relationship again, the decisions you're making today will kind of "disqualify" you for a lot of good men. You don't always just get to wipe the slate clean and erase your past, life does not work that way
>>17014772
Is there any pros to incalls?
>>17014781
desu i've only ever done incalls (except one) because I don't have my own apartment yet (still live with parents).
Not sure on the escort's side of pros, but on the clients, rates usually are a little cheaper - I guess you spend less on petrol, if people don't show, then at least you can continue on with other stuff you have to do, rather than just driving all the way back home again...
yeah someone else will have to answer this one..
>>17014781
well, the obvious "con" is that if one of your clients turns out to be a creep, he knows where you live
>>17014804
Yea the pro would only apply to a regular who is not insane
>>17014745
dont fucking do it. unless you want randos showing up at your doorstep.
jesus.
>>17014808
Agreed
>>17014609
See, I was just saying, judging by how quickly she got a reply there's probably always two whores patrolling this board every ten minutes, also the other day the single mom thread got replies very fast too. So like two single moms reporting in every 5 minutes or so. Also another day an abortion thread got a lot people sharing experience, too, single moms, teen moms, etc.
So I made a conjecture that perhaps you guys are a significantly vocal voice or should I say quite representative of this board's females, you know what I'm saying ?
>>17014808
sure, like driving out to another rando's house is a LOT safter.
bullshit.
>>17014566
What are your prices? I'm not looking to secure your services, or anyone's for that matter, just curious.
>>17014818
are you seriously trying to argue that me and this other whore spend our entire day's patrolling this board?
No offense but I don't have enough free time for that, I'll sometimes check in during breaks or lunch if I'm bored but otherwise I have work to do.
Also, I may be a "whore" in the sense that I've sold my underwear online, but I'm actually a virgin, and I intend to stay that way until marriage.
I actually have pretty conservative views on things like abortion
>>17014837
I haven't nailed down prices yet it's a base plus extras though
>>17014838
>sold my underwear online
... well, not so much judging you, but I really don't understand why people buy this, makes me sick - and I'm a dude.
>I intend to stay that way until marriage
No one cares.
>>17014838
being a whore is not so bad, bby, dont be so abrasive.
>>17014833
it's like dealing from your own home.
sure you can do it, it's convenient. but people will catch on and fucking ring your door at a friday night uninvited eventually.
>>17014864
Theres lots of asians who do escorting in my area, generally they are cheap and some of the escorting places are very sketchy, but it seems the caucasians charge at least 1.5 to 2x normal rate of asian escorts. Some escorts charge 1000+ per hour - hilarious thing is people actually pay for this.
Basically the rates where I live for GFE (sex included) are
$100 (15 min)
$130 (30 min)
$180 (1hr)
caucasians are about 1.5 to double or even $1000's hour.
Fortunately, I have a asian fetish, so this works well for me.
>>17014865
I agree. It's gross but if someone told you they'd pay you 80$ for used underwear, it's dumb to refuse.
>no one cares
Duh- that guy put me in the same catagory as single moms and teen moms- suggesting that most of the females on this board are promiscuous. I included that information to demonstrate that catagorizing women based on assumptions is stupid
>>17014838
>are you seriously trying to argue that me and this other whore spend our entire day's patrolling this board?
No, that wasn't what I was saying at all :)
>>17014877
I'm half Asian so not sure what that makes my rates so far all my dates have been set up and priced before hand
>>17014885
yeah, some asians do that too in my area.
as i said here
>>17014772
it depends on what sort of clients you are getting.
I prefer selecting escorts that have standard rates listed on their ad - they include prices for extras as well (usually $50 per extra). The client knows what hes paying for, and the escort has clearly stated how much her charges are for services.
However, again this is what I prefer, and others may prefer it the way you are doing it - setting up at least a couple hours in advance.
>>17014879
>catagorizing women based on assumptions is stupid
well it isn't more stupid than any inference process like drawing meta information from a user base. No one expects a statistical argument to be true for every case. A small scale generalization in this case is usually a joke theory with some useful data in it. But it will be helpful nonetheless for future thread starters to ask more appropriate questions.
>>17014652
>Eh, dates are kinda important for high-class work, aren't they? Lot of escorts pretend they only do dates.
This, but keep the dates strictly professional: no freebies. Ideally, in fact, the date is what you should be charging for: anything else is at your sole discretion (to be said with a wink and a nudge).
>>17014566
How about you stop being lazy and use your brain to get ahead in life.
Start a buisness you fuck
Or just hang around untill you get aids.
Non removable hepaititus
>>17014566
>>17014566
How about you stop being lazy and use your brain to get ahead in life.
Start a real business you fuck
Or just hang around untill you get aids.
Non removable hepaititus
>>17014919
this is what I find ironic about people who use escorts in this way (I use escorts, but for sex only).
They want a date, and they pay heaps of money for it, not necessarily sex - but if you pay a fraction of the cost to a average girl, I'm pretty sure she has much of a higher chance of liking you as a person than an escort would.
I use escorts, but I sometimes feel sad for the escorts, because their work requires their hearts to be closed in order to not get attached to their clients. This then makes it difficult for them to find a true love if they have difficulty reopening their hearts. I think the ones who have been working in the business for a reasonable amount of time realise this, but just don't really care about the opposite gender anymore because they have blocked emotions out from relationships because of their work.
>>17014879
And you just implied that single/teen moms are worse than whores. I think you might need a reality check soon.
>>17014958
>being this bad at reading comprehension
I really need to consider suicide.
>>17014978
Stop trying to take the easy way out
Are you op?
>>17014978
No, just do things for yourself that you can feel good about. Find a path out that doesn't compromise who you are. Take some job to start interacting with the normal world again.
You'll survive this and be fine. Use your experiences to realize your strength. Tell these bitter spoiled virgins here to fuck off.
Stop hooking tho.
>>17015091
Nope wasn't me, I'm not suicidal
