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Introverts which have gf or had a long-term relationship, What's
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Introverts which have gf or had a long-term relationship,

What's your story?
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>>17012999
Nice trips

Been married for 20 years, should have stayed single & watched porn

Have to watch porn 9 times out of 10 now anyway
Would have been cheaper & had more time for myself & hobbies

The end
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>>17012999
>glued to girl I liked
>friend of that girl did her best to help me get her
>get her
>have a great time with her, love her and have great sex
>lasts 1 year
>she becomes pregnant
>my son is born
>she doesnt feel like playing mom
>becomes a super whore that wants to party and suck random dick in clubs while I work my ass off for our little family
I left her and our son lives with my exgfs sister now.
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Got married to a young woman who didn't know any better. Lasted for 5 years, then she realized she could pull out of the top 20% of men who I am not. It was nice to be loved for a couple months, definitely worth the crippling financial losses. I'm lucky though.
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>>17013012
That's awful. Are you not able to get custody of your son?
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>>17012999
>met introvert girl online
>we both rebounding off from extroverts
>meet up
>Introvert bubble are compatible and we can freely pass through eachothers/
>still alpha despite being introvert
>get job
>make money
>visit often
>move closer
>get new job
>move in together
>knock her up
>get married
>move to bigger place
>have more kids
>its 10 years after we first met
>introvert bubble feels lonely when we are not together despite all the time that has passed.
>still in love.
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>>17013021
I was about to take care of him, but it looks like I'm losing my job so I've to take care of that first.

Doesn't help that I was just 15 when she gave birth to my son.

I had to finish school first and had a nice job now but they fired my cause they had to reduce staff and I was the last one to join the company.
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>>17013029

You lucky fuck.
I've only dated 2 girls and they were both extraverts. I was an anxiety inducing nightmare.
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Here is how I met my fiance

>grow up as a shy, awkward, nerdy girl who likes anime
>invisible in high school, a "weird kid"
>go to small college far enough away from hometown so nobody knows me
>fresh start, force self out of comfort zone and actually make some friends
>tag along with said friends for party
>get shitfaced drunk
>piss off all those friends I had (lost contact years ago)
>throw self at some random guy I thought was cute
>we make out, I give him my number
>next day get text from that guy
>hang out a couple days later
>he's not so bad
>second date
>third date
>5 years later we're engaged and own a home together

Turns out we're both introverted nerds who like to stay home and watch shows or play video games. He's also my best friend. I think it was fate.
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>>17013076
You lucky motherfucker.

That's a beautiful story though.
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we need more threads like this. I don't know why but I really enjoy listening about other peoples stories. I have no love story besides sad ones so I won't bore you with them.
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>>17013076
>throw yourself at a random guy

Women aren't sluts they said
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>>17013093
Oh boy I have some sad stories about my life but no one wants to hear them so I don't tell.

But blaming the past or other people for not enjoying your life is wrong so man up and change your destiny you little bitch.

I did it once, it broke down and I'm currently working for my life to become good again.
I can, you can.
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>>17013093
Yeah, I agree that there should be more. Though, if you want there to be more, you should be the one to initiate it. :)
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>>17013101
Yeah, it was crazy out of character for me. I was never a partier and was a virgin. He's my first and only.
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>>17013115
I wouldn't want to date someone that only killed one person
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>>17013104
Honestly dude I wouldn't mind hearing some stories tonight whether or not they're sad or happy. Feel free to post I'll listen!

>>17013112
There was a really good thread a few days ago... Had lots of good pickup stories and many many sad ones. Oh I love these kind of threads!
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>>17012999
Met my husband and his ex-girlfriend over an online game when I was a teen. She did bad shit to him, he had to break up with her, and then I swooped in when he was heartbroken. I waited 2 years for the right moment. Been together for about 12 years now and it's amazing. He's like a weird mix of best friend/father figure/lover. We're both a little codependent/clingy, but it works well.
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>>17013195
>nearly 14 years
>online game
What online game was that old, fuck.
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>>17013205
Everquest or Ultima

prolly ultima

I miss 2000s
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>>17013205
Final Fantasy XI. They finally shut down the PS2 servers, but I think you can still play on PC.
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>>17012999
>be introvert
>not socially retarded just dealt with a lot of shit so i'm very closed off
>meet a girl, literally checks all my boxes, couldn't hurt me if she tried
>want her, so i take her
>combination of her issues and my issues drive me insane. need to break it off, stick it out 5 years

So now I'm pretty confident I want to be forever alone out of choice. No one will ever be good enough if you're a picky person and finding happiness in even the best news the world can provide is difficult.
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>>17013143
Will tell how my father wanted to kill my family and how it ended tomorrow if I feel like it, to busy currently.
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>highschool
>socially inept
>have weird but charismatic friend so hes socially acceptable with normies
>charismatic friend is friends with this goth girl
>shes very annoying in a lolsorandumXD invader zim referencing surprise hug you without consent sort of way
>shes obviously interested in me but i cant handle her demeanor
>to my disdain i become friends with her as she agrees to help set me up with this girl i like since shes friends with her
>try inviting girl i like to amusement park with some other friends of mine
>says no
>go with goth girl, charismatic friend and my other friend instead
>other friend knows about goth girl. keeps telling me i should just go for it
>after a while i break down some and start talking to her more at school
>shes not too bad and after a while i end up developing a crush
>she kisses me on the cheek a few times, but wont let me kiss her back
>invite her to hang out at the park by the local card shop
>we are sitting out on the bench talking some and eventually end up kissing then making out
>started dating a week or two later
>never officially said we were dating and ended up cucking my charismatic friend at homecoming cause she was supposed to be his date
>oops
>its okay because he turned out to be gay anyways

We're still together six years later now. Went through me being homeless and really depressed for a while. Her bad habits went away after some time and im a little less socially inept. Now we live in a house I bought with the money from an illegitimate business she runs with me.
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>>17013213
>PS2

Console pleb jesus christ
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>>17012999

>be internet absorbed quiet guy throughout teens
>no real desire to pursue relationship
>know girl online for several years through anime forum
>we get close, eventually she asks me if we want to see each other
>we start a LDR
>eventually go see her
>I'm a quiet, nerdy, weird guy with absolutely no life experience (living with my parents at the time) or relationship experience
>she's a sometimes anxious, sometimes boisterous nerdy girl who swears like a sailor, hasn't lived with her parents since she was 17, has had to live on her own and be an adult for some time
>we meet and connect
>I go home and the strain is too difficult
>make a completely uncharacteristic brash and sudden decision to just up and stay there the second time I came to visit (we lived across the country from each other)
>we go through a lot of bullshit together
>parents won't talk to me for like a year
>deal with crazy roommates, being poor, car troubles, interests and just generally living life together, and bond strongly

It ended about six months ago. I really wouldn't change what I did, given the chance, because I've made some of my best memories with her, and I still love her and care for her deeply, but none of that really makes it any more bearable. And all of this is just confirmation that she was a fluke and that I'm not really that great at or interested in relationships with most people.
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>have circle of friends in highschool
>we're a bunch of nerds
>even though we're all introverts we like hosting events and reaching out to people
>have a club that has mtg tournaments and smash bros stuff
>gets pretty popular and lots of different kind of people come, some staying
>one particular person who stayed was this lonely girl who usually sat by herself
>I felt bad for her and talked to her a whole bunch and she was pretty weird but had really good tastes in music
>I asked her out one day and she awkwardly said yes
>Hit it off pretty well, we are dating for a while
>She's pretty insecure so we don't really kiss or have sex until about 5 months later, but I was cool with that.
>She's having issues with her depression, getting angry at me about trivial things, ends up ignoring me for a week and a half at a time
>Eventually I tell her I can't do this any more and that we're incompatible

Introverted girls can be very slow paced relationships. I really don't know what kind of girl to look out for next, to be honest.
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>>17013236
I didn't play on PS2, I played on PC--PS2 version didn't come out until quite some time after.
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>>17013247
Thats what I thought, I just threw it out there anyway

I played Phantasy Star Online

I might get 2 for the Vita
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>>17013256
My guy and his best friend played that for a while, but I never really got a chance to play it during it's prime. Said friend had a private server that he hosted with his brother. It was better than I thought it would be.
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>>17012999
Idk man, she came onto me.
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She came on to me
it was my best friend at the time's sister
it was fun
I'm glad it's over now though
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