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How to become the best version of yourself
2016-04-02 18:51:07 Post No. 16988340
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How to become the best version of yourself
Anonymous
2016-04-02 18:51:07
Post No. 16988340
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hey there /adv/ hope you’re all doing good!
I hope this will become kind of an general useful advice thread on how to become a better version of yourself because maybe some other people can find some good advice here as well...
>recently met ex girlfriend after not seeing her for over 3 years
>haven’t been in a relationship since then, of course its bothering me a little, but I’m ok with it cause I’m just waiting for the right one
>she has a boyfriend for about 3 years now, about to move in together, I am happy for her I guess?
>noticed that I apparently have no more feelings for her, wich is very good cause it took me quite a while to come over it
>still, few days after meeting her stupid thoughts started to rise
these thoughts showed me that I really have some confidence problems, because I questioned myself why our relationship failed but why she’s happy with another one… Here are some examples:
>I am just 21, her new boyfriend is 26 (she’s 21 as well), I am so childish while he or others are already way more grown up
>I still look to young (I actually do, a lot of people guess my age about 18 or 19), probably it’s because of things like my beard is not growing really well (sounds stupid but I actually think that
>Almost every girl in my age are together with older boyfriends, I’ll probably never find a girlfriend
>other guys are way more interesting/confident … than me
These thoughts are killing me, I know thinking in that way won’t bring you anywhere, but still I can’t switch my mind… This lack of confidence is accompanied with my growing lack of motivation, sluggishness and tiredness, so I don’t doing good at all in other parts of my life, I really suck in University and that needs to change cause otherwise I won’t be able to make my bachelor and wasted almost 3 years.
will continue soon