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Tara Garrison
2016-04-01 23:10:08 Post No. 16985861
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Tara Garrison
2016-04-01 23:10:08
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I've learned that love is not usually like in the movies, two people falling in love with each other at roughly the same time is pretty unlikely. Last two fuckbuddies I've had eventually fell in love with me and I felt that it would be dishonest to call someone I don't love my girlfriend, so I explained, "sorry, I really like you, but I don't feel that strongly about you", that was that and they eventually moved on to find boyfriends, and that was fine with me.
I eventually figured out that you don't have to be in love from the start and that most relationships start as "convenience relationships", aka fuckbuddies that cuddle, kiss a lot and abuse heart emojis while texting. I recently met a girl I had been chatting with for a couple of months irl for the first time, and she lost her virginity with me and we fell asleep cuddling afterwards. She felt that it was an amazing night and told me that she felt pretty attached to me already (we had some smalltalk earlier about how sex fills you with oxytocin and literally makes you more attached to the person you're sleeping with). I didn't (and still don't) have any strong feelings for her but I figured that convenience relationship I mentioned earlier would be a good idea at this point.
We continued chatting daily and about two weeks later, she said that she really wished this would work out but that she doesn't have feelings for me. She still really wants to meet again and sleep over though (we're talking a 3 hour train trip), and that "It's not impossible that we'd have some heat of the moment sex".
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