I have my first john tomorrow and then i'm booked most the week
How did this happen? well i'm naieve and put all my eggs in one basket
>be a par college student
>be geeky girl with a bit of chub
>super hot med student wants me
>super critical of this cause i'm not that hot but he convinces me to purely depend on him and fall in love
>move in quit my job at his insistence
>get dumbed and tossed out after 6 months
>broke, depressed little to no self worth
so advice before i become a whore?
Well, if this advice doesn't fall on deaf ears it could help. However, it most likely will.
The steps to problem solving are thus:
1. Identify the problem
2. Determine solution for the problem
3. Develop a plan to enact the solution
You need to get your life together, and if being a whore is going to help you do that, then by all means sell that pussy.
However, if you're just using this as a stall for yourself to build your confidence while you wallow in pity because your "love" left you. Then you're better off being homeless; or going to live with your parents.
All in all you need to be more self aware and open to solutions. However, that's just a strangers opinion of you.
Honestly though, come up with a game plan, don't be an indefinite whore. If you're smart enough to go to college you're smart enough to fix your life mistake.
Have you asked your parents for help? I don't think they'd want to see their kid turn to prostitution.
>>16995189
>>super hot med student wants me
>>super critical of this cause i'm not that hot but he convinces me to purely depend on him and fall in love
>>move in quit my job at his insistence
Posted all the red flags that you missed lady...
Bitch there's a reason I avoid hot girls that are interested in me. That's a red flag right there. A fucking trap if I ever saw one.
Secondly, the whole "purely depend" thing... yeah, never but that much faith in someone - people are assholes.
Lastly, if he insist that you have to quit your job, then that's a bad fuckin' sign. That is literally him making you completely dependant on him, in this situation he has all the power.
Don't give someone that much control over your life mate. Keep options open, because people aren't dependant at all.
Kill yourself. You're worthless.
The whore game is tight. Literally no one is going to want a chubby whore. You'll end up having to drop your prices and fucking the slimiest shit. And people who go to whores are pretty nasty to begin with.
>>16995220
well i have lost weight and improved my hair and make up, my plan is more escort than just selling myself but i'm open to that
i don't see many other options, jobs here don't really
give me the money i need right now to get a palce
>>16995266
Ok so now my next bit of advice for you.
Don't make excuses. One job won't pay your bills? Get two jobs. Two jobs won't pay your bills. Get three or move out of town.
So what's the advice you might be asking.
Well here it is: Determine what in your life you can truly live without.
You gave up your whole life. You need to build it back up. In this case almost literally from scratch. Live in a car for awhile. Save up money. Unfortunately for you, you're in a position to fucking struggle. Your life for probably the next year or so (if you're lucky) is going to be fucking hard and shitty. That's what happens when you let someone else have your life (people can barely run their own lives, let alone control an entire other one).
Let me put it this way, there's nothing wrong with being a prostitute or escort or whatever you want to do. My advice to you is to get your shit together, come up with a game plan, and then work towards it. This "escort" job of yours is just that, a job. Use it to save money and get to where you want to be. That's it. That's all there is to it. You have to deal with bullshit, until you amass enough resources to eliminate said bullshit.
ok, ok to summarize
1. read again the steps to problem solving and implement them
2. realize that you're pretty fucked right now and do whatever you can to reach your solutions
3. Don't be a complainer. People who complain never get far in life. Just deal with it.
>about your weight loss congrats if that's what you wanted. Make sure you're getting plenty of vegetables and water. Don't eat too many carbs. Avoid meat if you can, mainly beef and pork.
>>16995288
Honestly I think escort works for me despite the stigma any advice on safety and best ways to get big spenders? I need some regulars.
>>16995294
How much are you willing to do in bed? Anal? A2M? Some bondage? Piss/shit play etc. ?
>>16995304
Anal vaginal oral multiple that's about it, I've not done 2 out of 3 but I'm open
>>16995294
can't you, like, do camshows?
less disease risk, and it's not like those don't pay, just maybe not as much.
>>16995306
2 out of 4 that is
>>16995294
Then do what you gotta do. Like I said, have a plan. If you fall in love with what you do, then it can be your plan. Just in general have a basic idea of what you want to do.
as far as safety goes, get a small gun ASAP. Learn to attack the soft spots swiftly and accurately (groin, eyes, ears, throat).
Attracting big spenders is about one of two things. Exclusivity, or niche fetishes.
Be incredibly good and incredibly hard to book with great advertising and hype, or commit to a secular fetish with a very distinct customer base. Maybe something like balloon play or some other deep underground non-commercialized fetish like feedism or foot play. The more specific you get, the more they will be wiling to pay.
That's how to attract big spenders but that doesn't mean they will be frequent buyers.
If you want customer loyalty pick a popular fetish and get really good at it. Also remember the names of your regulars, it's a nice touch and will make them want to come back.
>>16995307
I don't really have the set up, had to pawn most my stuff to survive
>>16995310
I'm kinda going for the yellow fever demographic here in bum fuck texas
>>16995189 Be your own boss. No pimps!
>>16995316
Wait, you're Asian?
>>16995316
That's a pretty standard thing. Guys who like Asian girls. It'll bring a wide variety of customers, so be careful of who you are around and where you decide to meet up with them and have your outings.
Flip side of the coin, try to have fun with it. If you know ANY Asian languages, use them while you have sex. If they are into the Asian thing, playing that shit up can very quickly turn into dividends.
Don't do it OP. You'll most likely get some STD, get beat up, raped etc. Do whatever it takes but don't become a hooker. That isn't a world you can just escape. Do you even know controls the trapping in the area where you live? Don't be surprised if you start selling that pussy and that person is going to knock on your doors, asking for "their" money.
>>16995326
I'm 4 th generation but I can say some random phrases. As for the trappings, I live in a one bedroom apt on campus, doubt this college has a designated pimp
>>16995337
Ok, well at this point it's less life advice and more escort advice in which I have no experience. So good luck to you. Stay safe, use protection as often as you can, and remember
GET A GAME PLAN. DON'T GET COMPLACENT. FEAR STAGNATION.
>>16995344
Yea I'm also getting back in school during all this so I am moving forward just need a large cash infusion
>>16995288
Grabbing jobs like that isn't as you think. Its not the 90s anymore. Do you live in America?
>>16995374
I think you're missing the point of my post anon.
It's more about sacrificing comfort and doing what you can to survive than it is about how easy it is to get a job.
>>16995384
I think becoming a whore is the epitome of sacrifice as far as getting a "job" goes. Working at mcdonalds has more dignity than that.
>>16995400
You may not have read my other posts.
>>16995220
>>16995288
>>16995310
>>16995326
>>16995344
but I'm neither advocating or disparaging the escort service. I'm giving the objective advice of having a game plan and being safe.
Things like this are rather subjective. The sacrifice may mean more to you than it does to her. However, ultimately the decision is hers to make. Our purpose as advice givers is to be as objective as we can and allow advice seekers to make their own decisions while being given as much useful information as they are willing to listen to.
>>16995316
>Texas
What city?
I'm looking for a regular escort.
>>16995409
It's always refreshing to see someone take this seriously. /pol/ and /b/ seem to leak here more often lately.
>>16995294
Im not a whore but from where I stand the way to demand a good price is to think of yourself as worth a good price. Your expectations will shape your world. This attitude of not being hot is a a problem
>>16995400
I think that largely depends on the customers. I'm sure there are escorts who only sleep with guys they want to sleep with and so there is a lot of dignity there. I also think that is probably a minority of escorts
>>16995189
Don't become a whore. Do whatever it takes to NOT BE A WHORE. There is no happy ending for whores OP. Get a job waiting tables or flagging for a construction company or ANYTHING OTHER THAN BEING A FUCKING WHORE. You are better than prostitution.
Why not sell drugs instead? You'd make a killing on campus.
>>16995189
>be a par college student
>>be geeky girl with a bit of chub
>>super hot med student wants me
>>super critical of this cause i'm not that hot but he convinces me to purely depend on him and fall in love
>>move in quit my job at his insistence
>>get dumbed and tossed out after 6 months
>>broke, depressed little to no self worth
damn, sorry OP
what are your plans for the future, ie what are you going to do with the money from this? what degree are you working on?
Fuck, I'm so sorry for what happened to you, that's really terrible.
Anyway, you seem to have pretty much chosen what to do, and other anons already gave you their advices and alk the different opinions, but let me add just a couple of things that I think are important:
>>16995304
I guess the two you never did are anal and multiple. In this case, if you are sure you want to go with it, be safe. I'm a straight dude who is not interested in putting anything in his ass, but I know that if I ever happened to stick my dick in a girl's butt I would have to pay a lot of attention with it. 10000% more if that happened to be her first time. I would not be too sure about your clients way to behave in this case. So, before you risk hurting yourself, be sure you can take it. Literally.
Still about health:
>>16995316
>Murrica
I know you need the money, but please spend the necessary to get a good medical insurance, if you don't already have one. You may never know, and it's something fundamental in general and expecially in your case.
Good luck, anonette.
>>16995263
this, you should gain 50 pounds so you can get a niche market
>>16995189
There's nothing wrong with being a prostitute and there's great money to be had there. That said, you do realize this isn't the only option, right? Like you could totally walk to the nearest restaurant or grocery store and walk out with a normal job then go find a small but comfortable apartment (results may vary based on location, if you're in NY or cali you're kinda fucked). It will take effort but it's not really that difficult to turn the situation around.
>>16995420
Austin>>16996033
Pay rent, get a wardrope(ex threw away mine) my degree is in software dev
Hi OP, first of all, I'm really sorry to what happened to you.
I don't know if you heard of it in but there has been this project : http://www.optimistic-traveler.com/?lang=de
(I don't know why lang says de for Deutsh but still…), the site seems unanswering for the moment but I hope it'll be online soon enough.
In case it's not, it's just people who take their balls (or guts or whatever they have) and decide to go around the world without spending a cent. They just travel for free. Maybe you could move somewhere like this, somewhere more helpful to you since you seem to hate Austin ^^
I'm speaking without really knowing but I have a friend who does it regularly and who traveled from switzerland to Sweden, to the USA, to Turkey and other countries for free… Come to Switzerland ! We could be in the same cursus in informatics ^^
Here students fees are really low (I'm paying 1000 CHF for a whole year (Almost the same amount in US $)) but life may be a little expensive unless you live in France and study right next to the border…
The only problem I could see is for the demarches to get to school since Optimistic Traveler is not the usual way to do and since Swiss people are really regarding to who is who and where they are… And why they are there…
This is only another option because I'd not be good with myself if I had not said it… But it may not be a good option… Don't be too confident about what a stranger student, who probably knows nothing about life and who speaks badly english with too long sentences, on the internet told you ;)
>>16995189
pprostitutes make good money but make sure you do your research and stay safe.
>https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?134-Other-Work
So OP did you do it?
>>16995189
Stay safe OP, and remember, black guys are exponentially more likely to give you a STD and/or rob you.
PS. You should consider being a sugarbaby instead of a prostitute. Less vaginal wear, and nicer men and more respectable.
