Been friends with this one girl for years. Nothing ever happened between us except a nice chill friendship. 2 nights ago we get high and end up hooking up,which is a first for us and she tells me she has a boyfriend. Today we texted, both apologized, but then we both agreed that it was nice, and neither of us feel guilty. She's not telling her boyfriend, and I think us hooking up might be S regular thing.
Should I stay a side nigga?
If you're ok with being involved with a cheater then I don't see why not. Personally I think it's not cool but what matters is what you want.
>>16975612
Hold yourself to higher standards. How would you feel if you were her boyfriend. Plus it's just sleazy. How do you even respect her now?
>>16975612
There are two ways you can go with this:
One option is to decide for yourself who is in the wrong and let the other know. If you feel she is in the wrong, let him know. If you feel as if he is in the wrong, let her know. Do it when the other person is not around. When you act in a way that favors one of them, do not make your intentions apparent to anybody that is associated with the other one in this relationship. This is the riskiest and most complex path to take.
Then again, the implications of this could backfire on you because you are the one that hooked up with his girlfriend, but you have the option to stay silent, as long as you are sure that the boyfriend does not have violent tendencies and will not inflict any sort of physical harm on you. Then you can just keep your distance and say anything about what happened. This is easiest route.
It's up to you. Either way will put you under fire, because please keep in mind that you did fuck this guy's girlfriend and girls can be manipulative.
>>16975646
*pleas keep in mind that you did fuck this guy's girlfriend. Also keep in mind girls are very emotional and she is most likely going to fuck you over unless the guy she's with really doesn't care about her. Howver, if you are not emotionally ready to have someone be clingy and overly dependent on you then she is not worth it because she will probably do the same thing to you.
>>16975636
Pretty much.
>>16975657
She's been on and off with her boyfriend for a year and a half now, and she knows he's no good for her. She has this issue where she wants to keep trying to hopefully make it work, but it never does, which is why they break it off again every 3 weeks or so.
I did once have feelings for this girl, but after her rejecting me in the past I've come in to terms that it'll never be more than i want it to be.
>>16975629
>>16975629
It's funny, because I'm a person who was always against shit like this. I've hated the idea of shit like this happening to me, and I've given lectures and advice to people who think about cheating.
But I don't know why, I just do not feel guilty in the slightest. She said it was something that we both just needed out of our system, we've been really close friends for 8+ years and we never did anything more than just a friendly hug.
>>16975736
Have you 'been' cheated on? I didn't care when my gf at the time told me she was just with someone before, but when she did it to me it backfired.
>>16975736
Have you 'been' cheated on? I didn't care when my gf at the time told me she was just with someone before, but when she did it to me I thought differently.
>>16975746
Once, actually. I'm still cool with the girl who did it. Is that where my problem lies?
>>16975727
She's probably just self-centered. I'd stay around her, but keep in mind that you will never be able to really trust her and she will probably never be able to feel whatever you feel for her.
