>>16942007

Adv is the polar opposite of /r9k/

Adv believes in dating single mothers and bringing up other men's children.

>>16942007
>>/adv/ considers the /r9k/ stereotype to be a universal truth.
Not quite. The /r9k/ stereotype only becomes universally true once the redpillers get their claws into a person and bitterness sets in.

People who suck at relationships, but have not yet become embittered, are a diverse lot. Their problems are still self-inflicted; that much IS universal. But there are lots of different problems one might have, and just as many ways to fix them.

But once bitterness sets in, the way they got there ceases to matter. The bitterness very quickly overpowers all other factors, and that's thr point when the stereotype becomes a universal truth. You cannot fix the problems of an bittered person without first fixing the bitterness, which is why we focus on that.

>How can you develop a healthy mindset if you believe this?
This IS the healthy mindset.

>>16942027
>Adv believes in dating single mothers and bringing up other men's children.
/adv/ sees nothing wrong with doing this, but it's quite a logical leap from seeing nothing wrong with the idea to "believing in it". To be the polar opposite of /r9k/ in this regard, we would have to actively encourage it. We do not, though we do not discourage it either. It's just another dating pool.