>meet Girl on Tinder
>we have an amazing, unique, wonderful connection from day one
>she wants to go out the next day already, I agree
>however she doesn't really trust me
>brings her gay friend with her
>it's awkward
>he just walks behind or in front of us in his phone, we can't really talk, I don't know what to say
>we never even kiss or have some time alone
>go home feeling shitty
>she asks me out again today
>to go to a pub with her gay friend and his boyfriend
>I fucking don't wanna go
>she says I'm being an asshole
>I just wanna have normal dates and get to know her
>I have no interest in her friends
Am I really being an asshole or am I right?
>>16907541
>know chick for like two days
>she's already calling you an asshole
>you're already questioning if this is okay
Jesus, if you can't see the answer already, we can't help you.
>>16907541
So you've only been out 2 or 3 times?
Is she trying to friendzone you, or is she showing that she is interested romantically?
I would try to tell her that you are interested, and would like to work towards forming a more intimate relationship with her, but that its a little awkward with her friends around. Tell her you don't mind hanging out all together, but you'd like some alone time too.
Did she go alone for the first date? it seems like a red flag that she would be fine the first date, and then all of a sudden she doesn't trust you to be alone.
"being an asshole" is probably more about how you phrase it than what you want.
I would be pretty pissed if I agreed on a date and they bring someone else along without telling me.
She may have very good reasons to bring her friend along. It's up to you to decide if that's acceptable to you or not. Just don't be an asshole about it.
>>16907546
This.
You should've been like: "this is Netflix n chill, not gay orgy n chill."
>>16907550
>>16907552
She brought her friend along for the very first date. We've been out one time. She says she's very interested in me romantically and has never felt this way about anybody before, however it seems we can't go out alone.
When she suggested that her friend would go with her the first time because of trust issues, I told her I'd really preffer if he didn't because that'd make things uncomfortable and I wouldn't really wanna go. Then she promised me she'd be there alone. I got there and he had gone along.
I told her today I want to get to know her, just her, before I meet her friends like that, and that we can't form a real connection if every time we go out in groups with her friends around. She really wanted me to go to the pub but I just feel no desire to, I'd just spend money and have no intimacy, no close conversations, no contact.
>>16907567
Just tell her you want to get to know her; you'll get to know her friends when it is more appropriate. Also, lying to you about bring a friend isn't cool. I would address that right away. You should be the one with trust issues.
