What do you do when your gf does A LOT for you like brings you food, drives you around, lends you money ect. But doesn't give you an inch of freedom? Everything you do she has to be present. Doesn't trust you as far as she can throw you even though you've never given her a reason not to and is extemely emotionly unatable.. What do you guys think about that situation? Stay in the relationship or break it off?
Break it off. A relationship that doesn't grant you freedom is not a relationship, it is slavery.
Is this even a question? Why be with someone who is emotionally unstable?
You do realize what you just said right?
Let me help you out. You said you're incredibly dependent on your girlfriend. She does a lot for you. This is wrong for two reasons. One you already see for yourself in the fact that she is constantly around you. She's pretty much granted that since you depend on her so much. Two you just shouldn't be too dependent on anyone. It's a horribly dumb thing to do in life. Back to why she's around you constantly. You can't tell her no because you haven't told her no in regards to anything.
You should break it off. Learn to be a little independent. You don't deserve freedom if you're just mooching off someone. Look at it this way. When you lived with your parents. Did you get much freedom. Most likely no because they provided everything for you.
Thanks guys.
It's called being a pussy-whipped cabana boy.
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You ditch her. Yes it sucks. No, it's not good for you. She seems like a typical clingy gf. Clingy people eventually become a burden to have around. They need to work on their self-confidence before going around trying to land a serious and mature relationship, something that'll work in the long run. They aren't bad people at all, but they can't pretend to have you for themselves all the time, and they need to understand that.
