my biological father and step father have both called me a faggot to my mother behind my back.
I'm currently 21 years old and have had a number of girlfriends that they've known about (various degrees of seriousness) since age 14, so what's the probable implication here? That my mannerisms are feminine?
Basically I don't care so much about their opinions of me, but because it makes me think this is how most people perceive me and that that will have a net negative impact on life.
>>16897687
If both of your fathers called you a faggot, then you probably are.
Be grateful because you have parents that will look down on you and probably let you know.
>>16897687
>called me a faggot
>had a number of girlfriends that they've knowm about
>what's the probable implication here?
That they both hang out on 4chan too much.
>>16897687
>my biological father and step father have both called me a faggot to my mother behind my back.
Your biological father and step father are pieces of shit.
>because it makes me think this is how most people perceive me and that that will have a net negative impact on life.
You live in a golden age, my friend. Unless you live in one of those bassackwards southern states no one gives a shit if your mannerisms are feminine.
I have a friend just like you and he pulls more tail than a fucking dog catcher.
You're fine, just distance yourself from pieces of shit and you'll feel better about yourself. Associate with people that lift you up, not bring you down.
>>16897701
I mean yeah I'm looking for advice on 4chan desu
>>16897711
thanks for the affirmations
the big worry was that I wasn't being objective about whether or not how I present myself is fucking me over