I'm a 27y male graduated but nothing else (I have a thing on teaching going on but it is no masters and I barely go). I made a girl pregnant but we werent dating. Things happened we/I decided to date the girl.
Today, 6 months later we had this huge fight I terrified her because I lost my temper and I have a really bad temper - like punching shit and breaking and shouting. I'm 1,80m+ btw
Long story short she took the baby said we arent together anymore. Thought about suicide but for now wont do. Ill treat myself with drugs and therapy but cant really see the point to be better since she wont be here with me.
my kid wont be here.
I fucked up.
everything
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>>16889343
My father has a pretty bad temper, fucked up my entire childhood, don't let that shit control your actions and NEVER use it as an excuse, you are in full control of yourself and the more often you have that thought the more responsible you will handle it
telling yourself you have a bad temper over and over will reinforce that thought over the years
did you ever hit someone because of your anger problems? because If you can't be sure that you won't harm the women or child you should not even try to raise a kid
>>16889362
the child already has 6 months old so trying to not raise it is off the table.
so you're saying that simply telling myself "i have a bad temper" wont help but rather make it worse? (my english is a little rusty)
I'm going to get psychic help, drugs and shit. I dont like the idea but today I cross all the lines
shameless self bump.
She said she left me and she will never talk to me again. I lost her. what do i do? and about my baby?
Anger management. Do it for your yourself, and for your kid.
>>16889467
yeah... but I think I lost the girl.so its only a half victory I suppose
>>16889343
I have no useful advice, but I hope it all works out.
There's no question?
>>16889343
>I'm a 27y male graduated but nothing else (I have a thing on teaching going on but it is no masters and I barely go). I made a girl pregnant but we werent dating. Things happened we/I decided to date the girl.
>Today, 6 months later we had this huge fight I terrified her because I lost my temper and I have a really bad temper - like punching shit and breaking and shouting. I'm 1,80m+ btw
>Long story short she took the baby said we arent together anymore. Thought about suicide but for now wont do. Ill treat myself with drugs and therapy but cant really see the point to be better since she wont be here with me.
>my kid wont be here.
>I fucked up.
>everything
Man, you're living a dream. Not a nightmare.
She will come back begging for your help when she realizes how shit she is.
Plus, you are finally free. I mean, I lost my fucking virginity at 27 and now feel great. Why don't you take a Working Holiday somewhere nice? Chill out. Put your shit together...
You can sue for at least partial custody of your kid. As for the girl, if she left you for this then your relationship was going to end anyway.
