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2016-02-29 06:31:57 Post No. 16860105
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2016-02-29 06:31:57
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tl;dr worried that my bf is being unfaithful
>dating a guy for the second time
>one of the events spurring the end of our relationship was him sending flirty fb messages to girls asking to date them and shit talking me; most in-depth convo was with KV.
>after about a year of being broken up, bf and I try again and work hard to deal with past shit; finally at a good place
>all of a sudden he starts talking about this girl RB, and texting her constantly and liking and being tagged in her social media.
>when I asked who she was he simply said "my friend R" as if he'd been friends with her forever even though she lives in a totally different part of the country.
>he mentioned she was going to put some of the music he made on her university radio show. I'm excited and happy for him.
> few weeks later ask him when it's going to happen, he says it already did
>ask him why he didn't tell me and he changes the subject
>so my mistrust is coming back and I'm starting to lurk him to see if he's up to shit again
>today, {im out of town}, see he has followed KV on Instagram
>decide to deal with it directly, say it makes me feel bad considering what happened before
>doesn't respond for an hour, then just says "ok" and sends a bunch of questions marks.
>I don't want to get into a fight so I'm nervous to say anything. check to see if he's still following her-he's not. So obviously he's at least willing to unfollow for now which is good
>I explain that him following her makes me feel like somethings wrong. Tell him he doesn't have to talk about it but I wanted to get it out in the open.
>he gives a weak response "I forget how much you dislike her sometimes but I remember now...we r okay".
>so hes not taking responsibility....I don't dislike KV, I don't want him talking to someone he was trying to cheat on me with.
>a few more awkward texts about how we are tired then he stopped responding, prob asleep
>basically I want an outsiders POV because this feels sketchy to me but idk.