how the fuck do you manage to fuck girls from dating websites?
all of them seem to be interested in "serious relationship" only
If i ask them if they want to have fun or sex the conversation up, it's usually a NO
I don't have any problems to get first dates / meet them, but then it seems it would take forever for them to put out, since they are looking for a bf.
so how do you guys do it?
should I look for girls who are not looking for a serious relationship, or meet the ones that are, and try to get sex out of it?
>>16858056
You're on the wrong dating website, mang. Not sure what the hookup ones are, since I've never really done this, but Tinder is a well-known one.
>>16858068
I've signed up on meetic (not sure it's famous in the US, i'm in europe), simply because of the sheer amount of girls.
I've managed to meet 3 of them in a month
>first one I was able to have her meet me at my place and I fucked her
>other 2 I went to a bar with them and they never replied at my texts after that
so I have no idea wtf I'm doing wrong
I'd assume that most girls who say they are looking for a serious relationships would be down to fuck if I manage to meet them and play my cards right... but apparently not
Girls most of the time don't go looking for casual sex because sex comes so easy to them and they don't want to be seen as sluts.
However, if you say you're looking for a relationship, or just to be friends, that doesn't mean she won't put out on the first date.
Seriously, on tinder, okcupid, etc, they all fucking do this shit "not just looking for hookups!!" Is only partially true. They aren't out looking (well most of the time), but if it "just happens" in the heat of the moment, well that's not their fault! It's yours! Girls hate taking responsibility for having had sex. They want it to just happen, so that way they can justify it after as being your fault and they didn't do anything slutty.
>be on tinder
>message cutie, talk for a bit
>I'm not looking for a hookup you know
>yeah just cuddling is fine
>hang out
>cuddle for all of 5 minutes before we start making out and fucking like rabbits
>>16858249
are there girls who seriously say they are ok to meet for cuddling but not having sex?
wtf top kek
>>16858256
>things that never happened
no
>>16858256
What's stranger is that I, as a male initiate this process with women who say they don't want hookups, and carry it out.
I tell them right at the start that 'We aren't going to have sex.. So don't bother trying anything okay?', mix this in with friendly behaviour, massages, cuddles, up to holding them while we sleep in my bed all night.. And then see them get all internally frustrated when I don't take it further.
Obviously don't rape women but their words are more about perception than any kind of actual meaning. They don't want to be perceived as sluts, but if it ~just happens~ then in their minds it's fine.
>>16858256
>>16858256
Yes this is legit a thing, this actually happened to me, I was kind of just as shocked myself
If I believed in a god I would swear to it
90% of girls who say they aren't there for hookups are partially telling the truth, they do tend to want relationships more than hookups, but like I said that's not stopping them from putting out on the first "date"
Don't listen to dumb femanons on this board>>16858692
>>16858702
Are 100% correct and it's just as I said before, they see themselves as sluts and think others see them as sluts if they go out just plainly looking for it, but if it "just happens in the heat of the moment" even though they originally say no, somehow in their mind it excuses them, like they can basically put all the blame on the man, because clearly she said that's not what she wanted.
>>16858754
>just happens in the heat of the moment
>even if they say no
>sounds like rape
>>16858762
Obviously not what I mean
I'm talking about when they're dumb sluts who pretend they don't want it but do like the bitch who insisted she didn't want to do anything on tinder
Then within 5 mins of cuddling with her, we make out a bit and next thing you know shes sucking my cock like she's starving and needs the protein
Or how about the chick who was a virgin and didn't want to do anything, then I get there and she sucks me dry? I wasn't holding a gun to any of their heads lol, not a single threat or anything, they clearly wanted it, they just wanted it to "just happen" because girls who go on tinder looking for sex are sluts! Even though that's like what virtually all of them are there for.
It's just today's society, they want sex almost if not as bad as men, except they have slut shaming to deal with, which ruins a persons reputation, so if she says she doesn't want to get fucked, then blows 20 cocks, she's not a slut, it's the guys fault! She said she didn't want to get fucked!
>>16858056
some girls on there are looking for casual sex but they normally have high standards or are really ugly. i got sex from once from a dating site but that was only because she expected us to get into a relationship. you are probably only going to get it if you pretend you want an actual relationship. girl will probably hate you for using her though.
>>16858249
this is true. i met a girl from POF, she claimed to be looking for friends although we fucked on the first date. fucking women.
>>16858793
>>16858811
how the fuck do you go from "i'm seeing a girl who wants us to be friend" to "she is sucking my cock" ?
>>16859066
Because women's words don't mean anything except to themselves. You don't need dating apps to find friends. It's obvious why they are on them.
>>16859076
yeah I got that, but how do you go from seeing a girl in a bar or somewhere to her sucking your cock?
>>16859085
that's where the gun comes in handy
>>16859076
Well, apparently "you" don't. You just aren't hot or rich enough. If it was going to happen it would be happening all the time, but it isn't because you don't meet the standard to do so. Meet a girl in a bar and thirty seconds later she is sucking your cock? That happens two times friendo, in porn and when you are a rich, handsome, or famous person (or all of the above, honestly). Real life is not porn, soooo....
