>>16629964
I think you've never actually been in love. That's the only thing that comes to mind to me, because every time I actually loved someone, I woke up everyday before them to make their breakfast, cancelled every plan I had if they weren't feeling well to watch them over and shit.

>>16629964

>am I just not built for relationships?

probably. but more like 'not programmed' for relationships. as im sure you know relationships have evolved a lot over time. every year there seems to be a different trend and everyones different. there was a time where youd really only ever know one person romantically for your entire life. and if that feeling faded it didnt matter, cuz like your family they were just one of those random permanent installations in your life that you had to deal with.

thats not the case anymore. the ability to serial date has made it so people DONT need to function in long term relationships, and as a result people dont want to.

the honeymoon phase is the best part, so i do the same thing. i dont see anything wrong with it. whats wrong with meeting someone, enjoying them for as long as you can, then saying goodbye when it fades out? some might call it 'using' i suppose.

but if you met someone that really lit a fire in your heart i am sure that you (and I) would see it through for as long as possible.

Try being good friends first, and do not have sex early on in the relationship.