I don't get it guys. I'm not really a very sexual person

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2015-12-29 19:33:48 Post No. 16617918
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Anonymous 2015-12-29 19:33:48 Post No. 16617918 [Report]

I don't get it guys. I'm not really a very sexual person at all, I've never dived that deep into sex stuff.
As a male, I've always been more feminine or beta in person and my most successful friendships and relationships have been with girls, it's a natural demeanor I have around girls in person, being friendlier and more welcoming.

But I recently found out I have a fetish.. And what is it for? Absolute fucking dominance. My friend showed some BDSM and other porn where the guy was doing things like spitting on her, calling her terrible names and the like. Absolute degradation, it was the hottest thing I've ever fucking seen.

But why? I've never thought that way at all towards anyone. When I jerk off to that stuff, it's an amazing feeling, but even while doing so I feel confused. I thought I was a nice guy? Why do I have a fetish for degradation? Aren't fetishes a subconscious thing?

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Anonymous 2015-12-29 19:38:42 Post No.16617935
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Anonymous 2015-12-29 19:38:42 Post No.16617935 [Report]

>>16617918
>never thought this way
That's probably why.
:)

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Anonymous 2015-12-29 19:39:46 Post No.16617942
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Anonymous 2015-12-29 19:39:46 Post No.16617942 [Report]

>>16617935
Can you explain how that works? Am dumb.

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Anonymous 2015-12-29 19:48:26 Post No.16617981
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Anonymous 2015-12-29 19:48:26 Post No.16617981 [Report]

>>16617942
>>16617942
Consider this:
Body is built to bring life into this world.
The ID(ego, superego, id trio, see Freudian psychology for more info) is a pretty primal aspect of our being. It sends all the libido(sexual/creative force) out and our ego tries to clean it up or redirect this energy.
There's no consensus as to how fetishists form their fetish. Maybe you subconsciously want some exciting, high testosterone, high velocity, powerful sex, and are repressing it via ego defence mechanisms.
I could try to figure out which mechanism you're using, but it would be like guessing an illness.

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Anonymous 2015-12-29 23:26:24 Post No.16618803
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Anonymous 2015-12-29 23:26:24 Post No.16618803 [Report]

>>16617918
It's something new that gives you a nice dopamine rush. Keep watching and it will fade with time and you will seek an even weirder fetish. After a year you'll end up masturbating to horse cocks.

Stop while you still can.

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Anonymous 2015-12-29 23:27:40 Post No.16618809
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Anonymous 2015-12-29 23:27:40 Post No.16618809 [Report]

There's not necessarily a link between what you like sexually and how you are otherwise. Less questioning, more enjoyment.

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Anonymous 2015-12-29 23:34:43 Post No.16618825
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Anonymous 2015-12-29 23:34:43 Post No.16618825 [Report]

you can be nice and have a fetish like this, dont overthink it!