Found out a girl I was dating is keeping her options open and is dating other guys. I'm going to a pub to drink away. Please guys... I need some advice on not caring so much.. I really don't want to do this ever again.
>>16611698
She's evaluating and choosing the highest status male that's available to her. It's an evolutionary mechanism that's been at work for around 300 million years. You are displaying your worth. There's nothing you can actually do until she makes up her mind. Don't think about it that much, there's tons of women out there and its almost New Years so keep a good attitude.
>>16611698
Did you ever have a conversation with her about being exclusive?
If you didn't then its completely your fault. There is absolutely nothing wrong with dating around and not putting all your fuck-eggs in one basket. Like would you ever put in an application into JUST ONE job and not put in any other applications anywhere else while you waited?
I date around constantly dude. Its kind of the new thing in this here new fangled 21st century.
If you assumed you were the only man on the planet that she was interested in and never bothered to ask her you're a dumdum.
>>16611759
You sound like an escort
>>16611759
This, unless you two talked about being exclusive, you're both ok to date other people.
Bear in mind that you are taking advice from strangers on the internet so take it with a grain of sand, but honestly OP fuck that. Fuck her and her cherry-picking ass. The only winning move is to not play. But again, we don't know the whole deal or how much you like her.
this is one of those things that kills me but is actually kind of fair and to be expected with a decent looking girl with lots of guys after her. seal the deal asap or be hurt
