I'm a 28-year-old woman who just got out of her first relationship. Because I was so focused on school and work and kind of too insecure to be in a relationship, I got into my first one about a year ago and since I was just taking my first steps, the guy wasn't right and it ended.
I don't want to be alone anymore and I want to find someone else but I'm wondering if such a history is something that would weird "regular" guys out? As in should I pretend to be a little more normal or would it be okay for a female to have little experience at my age?
>>16614014
i imagine most guys your age would find it to be an interesting change. they are kinda used to women being jaded and sorta 'used' at this point. finding a woman who has little experience would be refrshing.
that being said, its not anything that has to be explicitly said. i LOVE hearing about my partners dating and sexual history just cuz i find it interesting (and sometimes hot) but most men seem not to like this sort of discussion.
at best you might get a 'so how was your last relationship' or 'why are you single now?' type of deal.
but at 28 no guy is like 'so how many guys have you dated?'. thats more one of those fun questions a guy might ask on a rainy afternoon somewhere down the line when you are already more or less together.
so all in all, dont worry about it. if you are worried, just act confident and like its no big deal. guys dont really care as long as you got SOME experience desu.
>>16614014
Doesn't matter nearly so much for women as it does for men. Many would find such lack of experience as beneficial and many more would not care at all.
If you're a 27 year old man in the same situation, you'd be fucked though.
>>16614026
>on a rainy afternoon somewhere down the line when you are already more or less together.
Yeah you're probably right but I wonder if a long-term partner would feel differently about me once he knew this. It night be a silly thing to say but I don't really know how this love business works. But like you said, if I play it confidently it will probably be okay.
>>16614030
*shrug*
I met my first girlfriend at 26 (for pretty much the exact reasons as OP). I didn't broadcast it at the top of my lungs, but I pretty comfortable and honest about that fact (literally just said, is what it is, the circumstances are what they are) so neither she nor any other girl I dated before that gave a fuck.
In my experience, as long as you don't act like a giant weirdo about it, most people are more than willing to give you the benefit of the doubt.
No, you're fine.
>>16614045
at that point a guy is too invested to break up over something so trivial. its either working or its not and you both more or less know where its going.
>>16614081
Yeah you're right. Thanks.
>>16614014
>Woman
>Trouble dating
Pffffffffft hahahahahahahahahahahahaha
>>16614045
>I don't really know how this love business works.
Yeah, you and everyone else in the world. We're all just figuring this stuff out each in our own way.
I can see no situation where anyone should take offence at the lack of experience in the realm of love. Maybe in porn though, if you can call it love.
Take it easy and enjoy the ride. Relationships can be very much like a wicked rollercoaster.
Enjoy, OP.
>>16614131
I'm just afraid of them thinking I would be too clingy or something but yeah I guess each relationship is different and I will see.
