Some girls just can't orgasm, OP. I'm one of those girls with an endless libido but an inability to orgasm fully. Penetration generally does not give orgasms. I find that fingering hard helps, and my boyfriend bought a couple of sex toys to use on me, one is a hitachi wand and the other this dildo thing that stimulates the clit at the same time. They usually cause me to squirt.
Girls generally like being dominated and being roughed up. Dirty talking, biting, pulling her hair and holding her hands behind her back works wonders. Nipples are very sensitive too so if you play with them while fucking/fingering at the same time, that feels great too.

>>16614013
Do you really believe it is biologically impossible for you to come? That's pretty good adv though, I've been thinking of roughing her up more and grabbing her wrists and pulling back as I doggy her, but like you said penetration rarely causes orgasm. I might look into some electronic toys...

>>16614040
Just need to dominate her so she feels helpless and submissive just like my man Caesar Milan does with his bitches.

I'm having the same problem with this new girlfriend of 2 months. Thing is, if I previously didnt manage to
make a girl cum during sex id just go oral and finish her off that way. But current GF does not like having her clit licked so Im pretty much fucked. Ill try rough and a more constant rythm.

Ask her if she can orgasm on her own. If she can't, really just focus on making sex as pleasurable for her as possible (and try for an orgasm if you and she would like) but don't make a big deal failing to reach it. Some people literally can't orgasm.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anorgasmia

Aside from that, she might be too anxious or have conditioned herself to orgasm in a particular way that what you're doing isn't replicating.

>>16614013
I don't understand how guys deal with that. This would completely destroy my sexual confidence if this happened to me.

>>16614064
She never masturbated before. My theory is she is just incredibly inexperienced with her own body, and I just need to keep trying new things. She seems to really love the feeling of sex, but hopefully she's not the situation you linked.

>>16614074
It is daunting to be honest. It makes it feel like I'm using her as a personal sex toy.

>>16613968

have you tried talking to her about it? i dont see the shame in this. im very blunt about what i like and what i absolutely hate. people sometimes call me a bitch or demanding about it, but i dont care, i like what i like and i like to like it.

and everyones got little quirks. the easiest way to make me horny is to lay down with your ass in the air a little innocently. easiest way to get me to cum is to slowly move your tongue across my lower lip. no one would guess that second one just from trying to figure me out, so i tell people.

and hwen i want to know how to drive someone wild i ask. nothing wronjg with that.

weird, the girlfriend that I had that had a real hard time orgasming liked to be tied up, too.

>>16614089
Like the previous girl was already difficult since clearly I wasn't enough for her and that already left me pretty broken. I dunno how a more severe case would impact me.

I think this is pretty good starting point though.
>>16614085
Since she has not masturbated before it might simply be her body locking up from straight penetration.
Maybe start from something easy like shower play or letting her finger herself to some porno or something like that.

If only i knew op... I can't have an orgsm with my bf. I would like to be able to get to that point of no return, but i can't. Don't get me wrong, i love to sleep with my bf! It is extremely pleasurable to me. But i can feel it taking a toll on him to not be able to make me orgasm. I masturbate and can get off, so i guess it is mainly a mental blockade. He is very skilled and takes good care of me, so that isn't the problem either. If i had to guess i would say it is tied to my insecurtity. I hate to loose controle. I don't like my body at all. It restricts the way i live my sexulity a big deal. I get closer to the big o if i had a glass of wine. It makes me more relaxed. But it still isn't enough. I too, like rough sex. But i also like to "make love". If only i would finally get over this shit. It is extremely frustrating

>>16614099
This might be a new phenomena with women, now that fifty shades has exploded and most women I've met have read it at some point or another.

>>16614091
I have talked to her about it. I've reasured her well get there some day, but even I'm starting to get discouraged at this point. To make everything worse, she used to get so wet that it would make a distinctive sound when I slid inside her, but now it's only moderately wet. She used to say stuff like (I might have been close that time) but I don't know how true it was.

>>16614323
You have the benefit of being able to orgasm from masturbation though, so at least you know it's not a physiological problem, rather a psychological problem. I'm paranoid my girl has the former problem.

>>16614347
Yeah, that would be a whole other level. But on the other side you would be relieved of the burden that your presence is whats holding her back...