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Hi /fit/. I recently saw an escort because I've had terrible sexual experiences all my life and wanted to try again with someone Id never have to see again if something went bad. Well it went great. I had fun and it was a huge confidence booster knowing I could get it up and perform well. I'm glad I did this.
I'm going to see escorts a few more times before college is finished. My goal is to become sexually experienced so that I can have sex with a partner without having a panic attack and so I can know what to expect and what happens (although obviously with a partner there's love and affection).
My question for this is, should I see the same escort and practice different positions, try new things, etc or see a new escort each time? Would practicing with the same person multiple times or trying it once with different escorts better prepare me for the future, making me more comfortable with being nude around people and actually having sex and not being way too nervous?
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>>16613542
It sounds to me like your issue is mostly about nervousness and overstimulation. Seeing multiple partners will be the best course to overcome that. Novelty is stimulating. In situations with new 'real' partners there is also additional pressure to perform and create a good first impression. If these have been issues for you in the past, or you believe them likely issues in your future, go for quantity over quality.

If your difficulties are more technical in nature (what to do when where and how), then establishing a working relationship with a good 'personal trainer' is likely more appropriate.

But if you're seriously in this to win it, attack the problem from both sides.
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Why do you have to have an escort for practice instead of another girl you could bang for free?
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>>16613788
Because if I was able or comfortable getting a normal girl or gf I wouldn't be in this situation to begin with
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I'd suggest finding a "semi-pro" on craigslist. They are way cheaper so you could actually afford to see her a few times a week to get a feel for what it's like.
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I don't really see the difference between banging some sloot at a bar and paying a hooker for sex.

Both are equaly bad and equally likely to get you STDs and things like that.

However, society doesn't view it liek that.
They see it like you're using this poor poor girl by giving her money and expecting sex in return, and that no girl wants to be a hooker and that girls can't enjoy having sex for cash, and that hookers never choose their profession, but are forced into it by evil men.

So, never tell anyone about it, especially not your future gf and it should be fine.
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>>16614073
Like for example, when i was in school, they used to tell us that prostitues are usually girls with mental dissorders who get used by men and don't understand their own best interests.
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>Well it went great
Get the same one, or at least keep her number. You can check others for the sake of curiosity, but you'll see that it rarely goes great. Either the pictures have been shopped, or the girl doesn't give a shit. Or both.

I go to the ones I know are good most of the time. I check out new ones too, but the success rate is less than 10%.
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>>16614111
The other one I'm looking at is more highly reviewed than the one I went to so I think it'd be good as well.
The thing is that I have limited $ but want to try and get some experience so need to decide whether to see new ones for the first time to help with nerves or repeat with the same one to try all kinds of positions and get comfortable etc
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>>16613542

Don't see how going to more escorts will help. Whether you go to 1 or 2 or 30 prostitutes, you're still going to have anxiety when you go out with someone who isn't receiving a paycheck at the end of the night.

Save your money, cultivate your social skills and self esteem by asking out non-hookers.
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Sexual experience?

how hard is it to put the damn penis inside a vagina?

you're either born with it or not
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>>16614271
That's like saying practicing speeches in front of friends and family will not help in any way before having to give the speech
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