I really need some useful advices, short story:
>1 year ago, crush on a friend
>little friendzoned, we party together for 2 years
>i wasnt strong enough to tell her the feelings
>changed job, started lifting, diet
>--fast forward 12 months later--
>2 days ago, both drunk as hell
>i told her
>she said she feels the same...
>we make out but only kissing and touching
>made her come 3 times with panties on, magic hands
>she is totally into me
>she is visiting me after xmas
so i am 23 yo virgin which became very fit lately and i got no idea how to have sex that wont spoil that i am a virgin or will look awkward...
fast questions:
When do i put condom on?
Should i touch and finger her till she comes before i go in?
When do i put condom off, right away after i am done? It won't be awkward to leave the room just after?
Should i trim?
As virgin - is it really worth masturbating 2-3h before to last longer? Note that probably i wont be drunk
How many condoms should i bring for whole night?
>>16599591
>When do i put condom on?
After she puts down your pants
>Should i touch and finger her till she comes before i go in?
Yes, but not until she cums. Save that for the big action
>When do i put condom off, right away after i am done? It won't be awkward to leave the room just after?
What, is she a prostitute? Of course you pull it off after you're done, why the fuck would you leave the room tho?
>Should i trim?
Shave
>As virgin - is it really worth masturbating 2-3h before to last longer? Note that probably i wont be drunk
No, don't masturbate. You'll have a limp dick and won't "last longer".
>How many condoms should i bring for whole night?
Just bring a pack or something, about 3?
Practice with condoms before the time comes. Jerk off with the condom on. Practice taking out a condom and putting it on fast and smoothly.
Not OP, but how does positioning work? Sex in a bed doesn't sound very natural
>this thread
>>16600100
Sex doesn't feel natural anywhere but at least a bed is soft and doesn't cause skin abrasions.
>>16599617
THISTHISTHIS
Also make sure you have the RIGHT SIZE. Obviously everyone thinks of the condom being too big and slipping off, but being too small is just as big of a problem. I've had too small condoms kill my erection because they cut off circulation. Find your size and get used to how they feel.
>>16600100
Once you get it in, the rest will all come very naturally.
I lost my virginity in the FRONT of my girlfriends car, laying across the console...lol
>>16599591
Cum early isn't a problem if you can get up right after.
>When do i put condom on?
Put it on right before you're gonna dick her. Make sure you put it on the right way.
>Should i touch and finger her till she comes before i go in?
My ex always stopped me when she was close. She wanted to cum from sex, not foreplay.
>When do i put condom off, right away after i am done? It won't be awkward to leave the room just after?
Stay in her for a while, kiss etc because it's romantic, but pull out before you're soft. Just take it off and tie a knot in it, toss it in the garbage. You don't need to go clean up immediately.
>Should i trim?
Yes. Or shave.
>As virgin - is it really worth masturbating 2-3h before to last longer? Note that probably i wont be drunk
If I did that I probably couldn't get hard.
>How many condoms should i bring for whole night?
At least 3. They might break/you fuck up putting it on/you want to go again.
what about getting it up?
Usually when I fap in the morning I cant really get hard again half a day later. I got a girl coming over next week and im assuming she would want a couple of rounds. What do I do doesnt help I cum quick watching porn as well.
>>16599591
fast answers to fast questions
>when do you put condom on?
before you stick it inside and go for gold
>should i touch and finger her before she comes before i go in?
yes thats called foreplay if you can make her cum mutiple times (shuddering) before you have even got dick wet she will think you are the best screw she has ever had
>when do i pull the condom off?
after you cum
>should i manscape?
yes you should makes the tree look bigger
>is it worth it to masterbate to last longer?
nope. you cum better when you go slowly
>how many condoms should i bring?
how many times are you planning on having sex? its better to bring too many than not enough...
sex isnt a race. take your time great lovers are made not born. its better for her and you if you can do a all nighter. forget this leaving early crap unless you are a whore and have to get to your next "client"
>>16600565
dont fap for aboout 3 days before hand the less you fap the better it will last
>>16600605
what about being able to get it up again within like half hour.. when it takes me half a day atm with porn. Is it a different ball game when it comes to real sex?
>>16600616
porn is rotting your mind. Stop it. Right now.
>>16600632
Also speaking of which don't do what you've learned from porn. Communicate with her/try different things and find out what feels the best for her. Pornos usually just want sex acts to "look hot" so viewers can get their rocks off. Whenever I watch porn and see a guy eating a girl out it makes me cringe
>>16600637
>>16600632
I don't quite know how porn is the reason for this - I seriously doubt it. I always assumed it was a internal body problem or something like that.
>>16600651
you said it takes half a fucking day to get it up a second time with porn. Do the math, junior.
A healthy young man should be able to get it up again in less than 20 minutes.
>>16599591
I think anybody who uses the term 'friendzoned' clearly doesn't understand the concept of being a friend, and deserves to get head fucked.
Beware of performance anxiety. It's common so don't flip when it happens.
