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Don't know if I should message her or not
2016-07-18 16:27:50 Post No. 17369061
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Don't know if I should message her or not
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2016-07-18 16:27:50
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2 girls are in my romantic interests right now. Both are artsy, calm, not that socializing kind of girls. They're not shut-ins or anything, just so I kind of like these calm girls, don't really know how to describe them.
So, there is a problem with both.
The first one, I know her for few months, we've been out once, then had a break, then she contacted me again and we started talking, we went out a second time, but nothing happened, even at the end, a hug or something, nothing. I felt empty and 100 percent rejected. So I let her contact me after this, see if she's interested in me and if maybe she was shy back there, but nothing
Second girl, known her for couple of weeks, hit it off amazingly good, we have lots of things in common, but she seems to be sticked to her ex, who uses her somehow and she calls her monthly when he's drunk, shit like this, don't know the situation too good. We hit it off, agreed to meet, but I was stuck at work, told her to meet again and then she said she is in a situation and she feels weird, something personal etc. etc. So I leave it be, we talk again another day and it seems good until she sees my message and never responds up until this day. This happened one week ago.
So now I'm in this strange situation. I like 'em both, but they seem to not like me, not one of them. I didn't message anyone of them because I thought I'd be clingy and unwanted, plus the ignoring guys get the pussy and shit. Now I feel like messaging both, see if maybe my ugly-ass has a chance.
But nah, one rejected me while on a date by my calculations and the other just likes my instagram photos and that's all
What should I do? Message them again, see if after one week, maybe things have changed or what?