I started talking to someone long distance, text + voice only, without expecting it to develop into anything big. Of course, it did. I actually fell for someone. I'm about 23, so I'm not too young, but it hadn't really happened to me before. Yay, I suppose. We finally exchange pictures, and it turns out I'm not attracted to her. It's an odd feeling, having feelings for someone you're not attracted to.
How do I fix this? Change what I'm attracted to or something. I feel like a very small person right now.
>>17367639
Oh, and to get in before an obvious question, she is thin; it's not a question of her doing something to change herself.
>23 not so young
>Fell for someone
>Not attracted to her
It's prolly cause she's not the way you pictured/imagined her. Tho usually if you fall for their personality you become attracted to them. It's happened to me before, there were guys I didn't like at first but when I got to actually know them they became more appealing
>>17367653
Yeah, I understand the sentiment, but when I see most people here 18 or so, I feel that 5 years is a large difference.
...8 years is a large difference. I guess I was lying just in case she somehow stumbled upon this as it would break her heart. I'm 26.
>>17367696
I already know her. I agree it's probably due to the whole mental picture thing, but I don't know where to go from here, as I can't really get to know her better (within reason). I could spend a lot more time with her IRL, but I'm still uneasy about how this turned out.
>>17367749
>most people
>18
Look outside, I know that you'll recognize,
It's summertime~
