23 years Virgin
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>Be 23
>Virgin
Should I just fuck a hooker and get it over with?
What do you need to get over with?
>>17366683
The fact that all my friends all have GF and probably getting daily puss.
I just graduated college and have a decent job making decent money. I'm not fat and I don't really think I'm ugly. Just never had a GF or knew anyone that liked me growing up.
>>17366687
Do you think fucking a prostitute will actually change anything?
>>17366677
>>17366677
Yes, but get a good hooker who offers a proper GFE.
>>17366691
It gave me a lot more confidence and I stopped obsessing over sex.
>>17366691
Might help me with the virgin anxiety
>>17366677
Losing virginity to a prostitute is sad and autistic. If you're really desperate for a relationship then look for one, be outgoing and ask girls out. Otherwise stay as you are now, choose to be content. The concept of feeling shame for being a virgin at 23 is retarded.
>>17366701
Fuck off retarded femwhore, you have no idea what it's like.
>>17366699
>might
>>17366696
OP might not have the same experience. There are just as many people who are unhappy with their first sexual experience because they did it just to 'get it over with' and regret doing what they did.
>>17366706
He's 23 and he's a guy you retard, his first time isn't meant to be "special" in the first place and at 23 he should just get it over and done with as soon as possible even if it means getting a hooker.
>>17366711
>his first time isn't meant to be "special"
>he should just get it over with asap even if it means getting a hooker
Why? Saving yourself for someone who matters is much more worthwhile, sex isn't everything, and there's nothing wrong with being late to the party.
>>17366715
Because he's a guy and not a woman you tard.
You'll never understand, so stop giving him shitty advice.
You need to understand one thing
Losing virginity is a matter of three hours. You can be a sad lonely autists, but if you'll go out and pretend to be a super alpha male you'll get laid.
>>17366711
Not that anon but
>He's 23 and he's a guy
And?
>his first time isn't meant to be "special"
>implying
>at 23 he should just get it over and done with as soon as possible even if it means getting a hooker
Nope.
OP you shouldn't listen to any of this virgin shaming. Stop seeing your virginity as a negative mark and instead an experience to be saved for a partner who you love.
>>17366723
>Because he's a guy
Yea okay nigger, nice reasoning. Meaningless sex is fucking stupid and regrettable and will do nothing for him.
>>17366729
Fuck off dumb femcunt.
>>17366677
I'm in the same boat as you m8, and personally, I'd never lower myself to paying for sex. I mean, seriously nigger, you are gonna pay potentially hundreds of bucks just so that some std ridden whore will allow you to hump her for a few minutes. Have some self respect and just fucking masturbate m8.
I'm halfway through 24 and a virgin.
I am not at all bothered by it. It'll happen when it happens. No need to rush anything. Then again, American culture seems to treat it as a much bigger deal than mine.
>>17366677
Do you think shit will change once you bang something?
Because most likely it wont. You will still be sad fuck after and you will probably create even more problems by shaming yourself with the fact that the first thing you fucked ever was a prostitute.
If you are that fucking gelous over your friends fucking than go man the fuck up and ask girls out. If you aint ugly and fat you will probably find a least a shortterm relationship.
>>17366736
Great counter-argument. Too bad I'm a guy.
I think op just baited us to talk about fucking hookers as a first.
I have this gut feeling.
I'm in the same boat as you OP. Seriously going to get a hooker if I haven't lost by mybirthday, I've waited long enough as it is. Don't listen to the retarded femanon, she probably had her share of dick in college and is now looking for a beta to settle for. I waited for the right girl, she cucked me for 19y/o chad who drove a charger and owned a gold Rolex, and who left her after a month.
>>17366745
That's not what sex with prostitutes is like at all.
>>17366753
>I-I'm a guy!
Nice try femcunt.
>>17366778
This.
Women are all trash, some of them are just better at hiding it. All of them are prostitutes to some degree.
You know what, OP? If you want to do it, go for it. Just don't be surprised if nothing changes in your life or you regret it. Don't say you weren't warned
>>17366792
>>17366778
>>17366736
>>17366705
Take note OP, all the people pushing for you to lose it to a hooker like them are broken women-haters. It's total crabs-in-a-bucket mentality. If you want to become like them, then go ahead.
>>17366809
Eat shit femcunt SCUM
>>17366815
Why are you so angry?
>>17366818
He's angry because he knows it's true
>>17366818
>>17366819
Kill yourself dumb whore
FF can't compete
>>17366809
> implying op didnt do ot to bait hard
Notice the lack of responses from him
Also the dont do it or turn like the bad guys argument is geniunly bad. I agree with your point but you wrote it out in an extremely aggresive way.
I'm 25 and in a similar situation to you OP. I am making a six figure salary, not fat, not ugly, but just never had any experience with girls growing up.
I have had friends that were girls but just never had to motivation to pursue them on a romantic level. I'm also thinking about getting a hooker just to see what sex is like. I really don't want to grow up to be a wizard
>>17366825
Get a good hooker.
Read up her reviews beforehand etc. Go see and independent one, don't go to a brothel.
>>17366825
Wizardry is the next level of ascension embrace your future.
OP here. The only reason why I'm asking is because as each year goes by I just get more and more stressed out over the fact that I still don't have a girlfriend. The place I work at does not really have any girls so it makes getting to know women alot harder. Really regret not hanging around girls during my college days.
At this point my life has been sleep, work, eat, workout, vidya, and anime for about a year ever since I graduated. I just don't know what to do with my life at this point and don't really have a clear goal. I just thought having a girlfriend my cheer me up and make me a bit less lonely. To be honest I make a really good salary but money really does not make me happy in the slightest.
>>17366839
Cut down on the anime and vidya and go for walks, go to public amenities like libraries. Take the time you killed from your hobbies and join a club. Talk to girls, be friendly, be outgoing. If you want or feel as though you need a girlfriend, then look for one. Nothing productive happens siting at your desk two hours at a time watching slant shows.
>>17366839
Pick a hobby. Shit like rock climbing. Or pick up pokemon go(no shit). A lot of autists and trend chasers are jumping on this band wagon.
Easiest excuse to socialize with strangers to date. Try tinder.
Or just drop some vidya and anime for some groop hobby shit. Try to increese your social circle.
Stop going about memes. If you fuck a hooker the chances are ýou will regret it and you will have another reason to feel anxious/stressed.
>>17366839
Don't listen to these dumb whores >>17366847 >>17366849
Get a nice escort girl, get it over and done with, realize sex isn't that big of a deal and live your life.
Even if you managed to find a girl normally, she'd be disgusted and creeped out by the fact that you're still a virgin at 23.
>>17366850
>Even if you managed to find a girl normally, she'd be disgusted and creeped out by the fact that you're still a virgin at 23.
Yeah, she isn't exponentially more likely to be creeped out that he has used prostitutes
>>17366809
I'm >>17366778. If I'm a bitter women-hater, it's only because I have reason to be. I did all the cringy romantic shit that women are supposed to like. I really loved her and wanted to be with her. I admit, I made a lot of mistakes, but in the end she threw it all away to be used by some guy who didn't care about her at all.
>>17366855
You really are a stupid femcunt, aren't you?
No man ever tells normal girls that they've used prostitutes, as there's no need to and women would never understand.
>>17366855
>all women have a magical device that tells them he fucked a prostitute
>>17366858
>>17366859
>all women have a magical device that tells if he's a virgin
>>17366862
Yeah, its called "this dude is terrible at sex"
>>17366865
At which point he got laid thus accomplishing his long life wish of fucking.
>>17366865
>thinking fucking prostitutes makes you any better at sex
I am in the same position as OP. But I'm 18 and 6'6. Still a virgin, not fat, athletic. I just don't have a job yet so I want to make sure I am financially stable. I know how to talk to women and even flirt. Also I forgot to mention I took public speaking (speech) for 2 years so I am not really afraid when I talk to large crowds or girls. My advice for you OP is to watch some videos on how to be alpha and take some speech classes. It boosts your confidence!
just dont fall in love with first girl whos willing to bang you, they might turn mentally unstable and stab you in the tight with fork because you ate one of her french fries without her permit and dont like blowing dick, even tho she did it first time and toys with you feelings
>>17366871
Advice on talking with women. All the women I talk to always talk about dumb shit that I'm not remotely interested in. That and I fucking hate small talk
>>17366870
There's a difference you retarded femcunt.
>>17366862
They do you tard.
>>17366869
No you retard, they'll always find out before he sticks it in at which point they'll just laugh at him and kick him out of bed.
>>17366677
Be a wizzard like me
>>17366885
>>17366886
Keep telling yourselves that
>>17366889
Kill yourself femcunt
>>17366886
Hey it happened to me than it means it will happen to everyone in my position.
Also how are you gonna convey that you fcuked a someone without telling you fucked a hooker. You ganna say you had a 1 night stand once and no other relatio ships?. If that aint a red flag for women I dont know what is.
>>17366912
Fucking weeaboo scum
>>17366907
>You ganna say you had a 1 night stand once and no other relatio ships?. If that aint a red flag for women I dont know what is.
Spoken like a true virgin.
Just make up some bullshit story about losing it to a random girl at a college party.
A man who's NOT had a one-night stand is a red flag for women nowadays.
do women care if the man they are dating fucked a hooker? is that a turn off?
>>17366925
Yes, that's why you NEVER tell women about it.
>>17366925
Let me put it this way: I'd rather date a guy who's a virgin than one who lost his virginity to a hooker.
why are girls expected to save their v-card for someone special while guys aren't?
personally I'm saving my v-card for the special girl and not some random whore. have some dignity
>>17366929
Womens virginity is valuable, men's isn't.
A man is always expected to have some experience and guide the girl.
>personally I'm saving my v-card for the special girl and not some random whore. have some dignity
That "special" girl will not want anything to do with a pathetic virgin.
>>17366927
Good thing he'd never tell you that he fucked a hooker, huh dumb femscum?
>>17366677
VR virtual waifu is the future. forget about 3DPD
>>1736924
This. Women want a man who has figured things out, whose gone through the regular series of relationships. You ask a random girl on the street about a guy whose 25 and never had a girlfriend. The first in their mind will be what's wrong with him. Face it OP, you missed your chance.
>>17366929
Its called tradition and possible backwards logic. Male virginity is hard to spot while female virginity isnt. So virginity was a guarantee that the girl will have your baby not a bastard in old ages when paternity tests didnt exist. Thats why virginity for girls is so entrenched in our brains as important.
This bait thread had gone to long im bored of it.
>>17366959
This.
Just fuck a hooker so you can say you're not a virgin.
>>17366677
Also was a 23 m virgin. Sex is nothing special unless your partner is also a virgin. And for males it's even less of a big deal. Or is that just me? Anyways before and afterwards it changed nothing really. I broke up with my first a few months afterwards. I do however kind of focus more on the relationship and less sexually unless she wants to or for procreation though
I'm 23 too
I'd like to try it just once, ever
not sure how to do that without a hooker and hookers are illegal
>>17366677
I'd say no.
The realisation might come in crashing and You'll feel regret backed by some kind of trauma.
Unless You're not that kind of person, then You might be just fine.
>>17366687
So how in your mind do you think getting a hooker will solve your problems? You'll still be the loser that you are today. Putting your penis inside a vagina won't solve any of your problems, if anything it will make things actually worse.
>>17366778
Imagine just how better your life would be if you didn't sound like a broken /r9k/ record making all these excuses as to why your life is so bogus, blaming people who have nothing to do with it or you.
>>17367688
I'm sorry my post triggered you so
>if you didn't sound like a broken /r9k/ making excuses as to why your life is so bogus
Kek. I'm simply telling you what I went through. I never believed in that "alpha faux, beta bux" crap until it happened to me, hence the whole wait for the right one.
>blaming people who have nothing to do with it or you
Who should I blame? Myself? Right, it was my fault that she ran off with chad, it couldn't be because she was a horrible person. Fuck off.
A good hooker is going to give you the best lay you'll experience.
They're also not gonna care that you're a virgin. Let them know you want to be taught, let them break you in. You might learn something.
It won't change you though and if you feel the slightest bit of shame about the moral iffiness of the whole process, don't do it.
>>17367681
lol he went through a list of things that make him not a loser but he didnt have sex so he is a loser
losers
utterly worthless people
have sex constantly
virginity is a big deal until you lose it, and at that point it is nothing. I lost my virginity at 20 to a hooker and have no regrets, it felt like I got over a large hurdle and my confidence was improved. No problems picking up women afterwards. Just make sure you see a quality girl, look for escort reviews.
>>17367807
This anon is giving you genuine advice, don't listen to any buttblasted femwhoress ITT. They have no idea what it's like.
What's funny is that sometimes things simply conspire to make relations with women impossible. Try living in the middle of nowhere, redneck America as someone from outside the area (local women only like fellow hicks), then being homeschooled so no interaction with girls during that period, then having to serve as a caregiver for a parent for a decade so nada contact with women then either.
I'm much, much older than OP and am basically asexual because of the aforementioned. As such, sex to me is a theoretical idea of little reality and of no interest-I spend my time working to amass money and can't miss something so removed.
>>17366677
No.
>>17366677
It'd be way better than with some desperate fat chick. Trust me on this.
>>17368139
Fair.
>>17366677
Sex is overrated OP. You're going to be furiously humping an unenthusiastic whore in silence, wondering why it doesn't feel as good as you thought it would, and wishing you weren't currently burning away a few hundreds dollars for the sake of being able to say you did intercourse.
>>17368201
Dumb fuck, as long as he goes for a nice girl who offers GFE he'll get all the foreplay, moaning, hugs, kisses and leglocking.
Sex is still overrated but you're spouting shit you have no idea about.
>>17368201
I disagree with that so much
>>17367807
Same here. Lost it to escort just before I turned 21. Released how overhyped sex was.
>>17368415
>disagrees with solid advice
>literally an idiot
>>17368414
Semms to me like OP wanted to hear GO AHEAD!!! HOOKERS ARE A GREAT IDEA!! but it somehow did not happen
If you are really that desperate go ahead but what if it won't change anything? If I were your friend and I had a relationship and you told me you had sex with a hooker just to lose virginity, respect-- all the way to the creep level
>>17366677
23 year old virgin in a similar situation here.
Same insecurities and hang ups with sex. Routinely rejected by women for reasons I'm trying to understand, but can't. Hookers aren't an option for me though. I'd rather it happen at 30 than never at all.
>>17368532
>implying I'll ever tell anyone I lost my virginity to a hooker
Dumb femcunt
Don't pay for sex. I have seen some of the ugliest, most obnoxious motherfuckers you'll ever meet get laid enthusiastically. I used to go to fetish parties, and trust me when I say that anyone can get laid.
>>17368532
You say this like men in their mid-twenties who are still virgins have any respect to lose. Pro-tip: as soon as we're outed people lose any respect they had. OP there are really only 2 options. Fuck a hooked and lie about how you lost your v-card, or don't and just never bring it up, if someone asks dodge the question, if you can't then lie (you will probably suck at this as you won't have any idea what you're talking about) or if you must, tell the truth
>>17368634
In short, best option is to just get a hooker.
It won't help at all u will regret it later that u lost it to somebody who cares only about your money.
If u don't go out and try to get a GF then what's the point. After u lose it there won't be girls knocking on your door asking for sex.
I'm 23 too
>>17366677
Bruh, don't bother with a hooker. It took me until I just a few days ago to lose mine and I'm a month from 28 at this point.
The physical act of putting your dick in is nice, sure, but the part that makes the feeling memorable is the closeness you get with the other person. Without that you're better off just getting an onahole or something.
I might have had some help in this regard since the girl in question was into the idea of being my first from the get-go and was patient about how she had to basically teach me to get out of the Deer In Headlights mode that I initially got.
Even if it's a close friend or something like that, if you're gonna fuck do it with someone you can care about and want to be close to.
>>17368634
While it isn't quite so fatalistic and certain, and an individual does have some degree of control, this poster is more or less correct. Being a virgin in your twenties is not something you talk about, whether because you lose some notion of stature you thought you had, or because it garners unwanted attention.
It very much does have quite a heavy impact. The reason people might ask is because they can probably tell anyway, though.
>>17366677
if ur virginity is so unimportant that you could give it away to a hooker, then its not worth paying to lose at all.
