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There are no resources for someone like me to help make my decision. I feel like I'm at a loss.

In short, I'm a pervert who wants to get it on with dogs and has since I started my post-pubescent life. For the very first time it's becoming a possible reality, and is something my friend has now acted on for the first time too.

I'm also very sensitive (about sex, and in general), anxious, depressive, and have some deep self esteem issues. I don't see anything wrong with what I might do, but I also don't know if I could live with the shame. I also wonder if I should be with a totally different crew of people if they can't understand this hangup of mine.

What do you think /adv/? I kind of posted yesterday about this, but I still don't know what to do. This is the point where I feel I have to make a decision.
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>>17366352
>I don't see anything wrong with what I might do, but I also don't know if I could live with the shame.

See, this is where your story wears thin.

How does one not see anything wrong with it AND worry that they couldn't live with the shame?

I don't mind people making up stories for /adv/, I just wish they were better writers.
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>>17366360
This is the point of misunderstanding that makes me feel alienated from my friends. I don't understand it either, but it is VERY possible to not feel something is wrong rationally but still have intense (internalized?) guilt about it. Why can't people understand this?
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You want to fuck dogs or be fucked by them?

Either way, just keep this to yourself.
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>>17366372
be fucked by them, I don't think I would fine the alternative moral. And sorry for asking an anonymous question that's been weighing heavily on my mind
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>>17366367

Maybe because you just present the situation so poorly. Also, it's REALLY hard to want to help you, because your problem is such a 1st-world, drama-for-the-sake-of-drama problem.

If you want to do it, do it. If you think it would cause you too much guilt, then don't. If the conflict between these two forces is just all too much for you (and I mean really? Really? The issue of dogfucking is too much? Really?), then see a therapist.

The only real reason to make a thread like this over such a non-problem is to try to shock people with your taboo "problem." But the only thing shocking is how poorly you're able to weave a convincing fiction.
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>>17366378
Go ahead and get knotted every day. But don't tell anyone about it.
If nobody knows about it, nobody will judge you.
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>>17366388
People make fucking threads about asking the other sex questions and wondering how their tinder encounter went and THIS is a non problem? Fuck off man. The fact that you think I'm lying really exposes the motivation for your other comments; you really just can't even imagine this sort of situation and the serious feels that come along with it for me. Thanks, but I'll take the help of other people who actually might understand
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I think you need to avoid extreme porn for awhile, maybe even stop for awhile. Let yourself reset, you have to go through a lot of teirs of sexual arousal to end up at a place were lassie is getting you hot.

Just detox some, you'll eventually find lights off in the missionary position hot again.
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>>17366395
This is a really fucking appealing line of logic, but if the distinction matters (and I think it really does) the only judgement I'm worried about is my own.
>>17366401
It's funny, I almost never even look at beast porn, or really any porn at all
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>>17366400
>People make fucking threads about asking the other sex questions and wondering how their tinder encounter went and THIS is a non problem?

Yes. Exactly.

>The fact that you think I'm lying really exposes the motivation for your other comments;

The fact that I think you're lying really exposes that I know what lies look like.
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>>17366410
Just realize you aren't making a convincing point at all as long as you argue I'm lying and I can sit here and know I'm not
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>>17366409
>the only judgement I'm worried about is my own.
In that case nobody can help you.
It's up to you if your desires are more important than your morals or if it's the other way around.
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>>17366388
>The only real reason to make a thread like this over such a non-problem is to try to shock people with your taboo "problem."

Inclined to agree. Reads like bait.
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>>17366418
Question of my fucking life, but I guess whenever I get down to it, the answer I get is that it's something I have to answer myself. Oh well; thanks.
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Are you male or female?
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>>17366420
>there are certain paths people take that people will only ever consider bait, even on the supposedly most depraved mainstream messageboard
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>>17366426
male
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Tell me again why this advice isn't sufficent?

>>17366388

>If you want to do it, do it. If you think it would cause you too much guilt, then don't. If the conflict between these two is just all too much for you, then see a therapist.
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>>17366421
You have a free will for a fucking reason. Nobody will handhold you through entire life and tell you what is wrong and what is right.
If you don't like then join muslims.
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>>17366467
Did I tell you a first time? It probably is really, aside from all the shit it was sandwiches with. How the fuck do I bring this up with my therapist though? What about my therapy group, would bringing it up there just be insane? I feel like no one understands or even if they did its not worth the admission
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>>17366476
>What about my therapy group, would bringing it up there just be insane?

Nobody mentioned a therapy group. Stay on fucking topic. If you are for some reason incapable of deciding whether you want to do something more than it would bother you to do it, tell your therapist.

>But how???

"Doctor, I want to fuck a dog."

Therapists have heard it all before. If you want help, there it is. I can't do it for you. Fucking millennials...
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>>17366517
>If you are for some reason incapable of deciding whether you want to do something more than it would bother you to do it, tell your therapist
Honestly, I guess this is a big problem in all areas of my life, and out of this context of course, it is something I talk to my therapist a lot. Maybe this is why I deal with this issue so sensitively and strangely though...
millennial as charged I guess.
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For what it's worth, a day on of worries and I'm thinking I'll abstain. I'll have other chances to fuck a doge, but I can't deal with this feeling of urgency and shit going down. I have to stay calm and eventually decide what to do with myself from a calm place, later, and/or at least, as it comes.
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