Been going out with this girl for a couple weeks and I really like her but...
Lastnight we were hanging out and I was playing with her tits and she said to go slower.
I said something kind of snappy and she got upset so we stopped messing around. We went for a walk, held hands, made out some more and went to bed. She kissed me when I left for work early thismorning.
I txt her a few hours after I left "sorry for being a dick, but thanks for hanging I really had a good time".
She said she doesnt like it when I get annoyed with her (understandable).
I txt back "thanks for letting me know, il be more concious of it in the future".
She said "okay" and thats it.
Whats my next card to play here? Just wait it out? Il see her at work in an hour and a half.
I seriously feel bad but at the same time said everything I could say. Am I overthinking this?
Sounds like the issue got resolved, OP. I don't know what the problem is.
To be more clear, what was the snappy thing you said?
>>17366130
I was playing with her boobs and she told me to slow down a few times. I just said "yeah" annoyed. And then she said lets stop and I just said "okay" in an annoyed voice aswell.
Im just worried about the "okay" response more then anything. Usually shes more bubbly and flirty then that.
You've dated for a couple of weeks and no sex yet? Not a good sign.
>>17366160
Im rocking my v card still, and we've tried a few times but I couldn't get hard.
She said she was totally cool waiting for a bit.
>>17366174
Get viagra/cialis. Practice using a condom.
>>17366174
Do you masturbate too much? Try to stop a few days before you see her next. Also, like the other anon said, practice using a condom.
Don't get annoyed with her, especially since it sounds like you couldn't get it up a few times. It comes off as selfish.
>>17366158
>Usually shes more bubbly and flirty then that.
She said stop. At first you ignored her, then you got all mad as though you'd been entitled to do whatever you wanted.
You're going to be VERY hard-pressed to find a woman who doesn't consider these to be major red flags. That's why the bubbles all popped and the sunshine dimmed; you just scared the fuck out of her.
>>17366274
She didnt say stop. She said slow down as in don't go fast.
>>17366274
No, there are plenty of girls with bad judgement. If you want better though then avoid those because stupid bitches be annoying af
Well saw her at work today and everything seems fine. Going to hang out again tonight.
Thanks everyone
