I dont belong here
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Maybe someone feels the way I do.
Since I'm a kid I feel like not belonging anywhere. Whenever I'm with my friends or family I cannot forget the feeling of being a somewhat outsider, even though I'm not! I have a lot of good friends, a wonderful boyfriend and I'm actually a pretty extrovert. But something in me calls me to a world beyond, like I'm existing for something else.. Something bigger??
I do know how ridiculous that sounds but maybe I can find someone who experienced something similar.
>>17365464
I feel the same. I think for me it is caused by the fear of and inexperience with intimacy.
>>17365464
I get this feeling frequently and it sucks but one of my theories is that it's probably due to social insecurity of not being able to fit in I reckon.
>>17365529
What are you afraid of?
Maybe,
>>17365531
But the question is why we are not able to fit in. I personally dont have any social insecurities, like I said I'm actually a pretty extrovert person..So this cant be the norm. Are you also afraid of something or where did you get your insecurities from?
>>17365534
Something unknown to me, something I haven't experienced before.
>>17365541
but dont you think that everything new brings a good and maybe a bad thing too? If you never try then you'll never know if your fear was appropriate! I'm not sure what you are exactly afraid of but if it has such a big impact on you then you should really overcome in it some or another way..
>>17365464
There is this. I'm not so sure I believe in it but I do believe in the Creator, and what it says makes more sense than your average religion. I've always felt like I don't belong anywhere, period, at all. So I asked my guardian angel and the angels for some help and I feel better these days, like I'm not so fucking driftless.
>>17365537
I'm introverted as fuck but I can handle myself socially just fine, I think it's more of the fact that I'm self aware that there must be more to life than this.
I have those thoughts usually when I'm out with friends, browsing 4chan etc. I also have the tendency to sit down on my garden bench at night having a smoke and listening to some melancholy tunes whilst gazing at the starry night sky alongside the moon sometimes. Doing this allows me to think about life on a wide scale.
