is it me, or are women more easily put off mid-sex? One awkward comment or whatever and I find many will instantly decide they want to stop, even if beforehand she was horny and was engaging in foreplay etc.
>>17362699
I don't know, I really cant relate to that because I'm pretty easily put off myself and I'm a guy. It has happened to me a few times that I lose my erection because of something she does or says, and I need to start it up again and focus before I can continue...
Doesn't happen to me often, of course, but it has happened a few times, while I've only had one experience where she was put off.
>>17362699
What was the comment?
"I wonder if your mom's tits look the same as yours" will probably turn her off
>>17362699
Perhaps you're bad at sex
>>17362732
I just made a comment about a little bit of food between her teeth, and she blushed, felt very insecure and totally killed her mood.
I wasn't bothered by it, I just pointed it out... but it made her feel ashamed and ruined it.
>>17362763
Yeah, don't fucking do that. Deal with it and pretend to notice it later.
>>17362763
Telling a woman anything that could make her seem less desirable during sex probably makes her think you're not focused on the sex, but rather are distracted with something so minor that you couldn't just keep going.
I don't blame her, I personally wouldn't have cared, but still.
>>17362699
I got called a whore, and not in the way you wanna hear. Turned me off pretty fuckin fast.
My girl will start talking about unsexual things when I'm trying to get her in the mood. It's almost like she avoids thinking about sex as we're getting into it. Then I'll go soft because she's put me off, and she'll get mad that 'I don't find her attractive.' Anyone else deal with this shit? It doesn't happen often but when it does it pisses me off so fucking much.
>>17362790
Lol, truth hurts?
>>17362811
Eat her out to get her warmed up, and then go hard.
Everytime I've eaten a girl out before fucking her, she ends up really satisfied.
>>17362699
Yeah, especially if they aren't head over heels in love with the guy.
Sex is supposed to be the little cherry on top of an already big delicious cake.
>>17362699
I am a female and I can confirm this. It's very annoying. I'll be incredibly horny and once we're fucking, lose all interest. My boyfriend doesn't know this because he'd just complain about blue balls. I've started getting anxious about sex overall instead.
>>17363079
I forgot to add I think the seduction is a lot more important to women than fucking/the sexual release. Because women can orgasm multiple times, we put less importance onto it than men.
It's crucial for a woman to feel like the sex is non-commital at every stage and she can stop whenever. On the other hand, it seems like you are not allowed to touch a man unless you're willing to finish him off. I think the best sex tip for a man who lacks in sex from his partner would be to engage only in foreplay and not go any further. Nothing more beautiful than a man wanting you for more than just his orgasm. I wish my boyfriend would tease me a lot more. It would be a treat.
There's your answer.
>>17362896
this is bullshit sex is the end goal its not just some little side bonus
>>17363152
t. Virgin
>>17363177
I hate you
>>17362699
No, I don't get put off mid-sex usually.
I did have one past boyfreind stop sex, turn around, stick his ass in my face, and fart. That was off-putting, but I really hope guys would be off-put if some chick farted in their face too.
>>17362763
Top kek why would you do that during the middle of sex
>>17362699
funny you bring this up because this very thing happened to me.
>be with a girl on the weekend, not dating yet, more of a fling
>really horny, wants me to fuck her
>start to put in in
>as i begin to thrust, she suddenly loses interest
>"anon can we talk about us"
mid-sex and she wanted to stop and talk about feelings. which ended up with her in tears and sex ruined.
>>17363276
I don't see why the chick couldn't pluck the food out and continue, laugh it off. That's really no big deal.
>>17363106
>Nothing more beautiful than a man wanting you for more than just his orgasm
100% this, I sometimes feel like guys only care about getting off, without all the side-effects of emotional closeness and such, which is a huge turn-off in itself to me.
>>17363300
As a chick, physical intimacy, to me, is very meaningful. The emotional closeness, I feel close while having sex. Getting even closer afterwards, it is almost too unnaturally much -- I just want to express my affection with sex. I really like to get a guy off. I like to please him, and it is probably just as satisfying as being pleased myself. Usually, he's going slower than me, and I'll just unbutton his pants because I wanna pleasure him.
>>17362763
Cue "Curb Your Enthusiasm" music.
>>17362790
Which one if them said it? The guy at the front or the guy at the back?
>>17363289
I don't see why the guy couldn't have just waited until they weren't in the middle of sex
>>17363106
I think you need to get a cat and leave the good, sexually-mature men to the women who aren't fixated on playing games with their partner's sexuality.
>>17363288
Congratulations. You are now a rapist.
>>17363351
Sure he could wait. I'm saying personally, I'd rather just have the guy tell me I got food in my teeth so I could clear it, and I'd make a joke about it. No big deal.
>>17362896
This is so fucking true. More people need to understand this.
>>17363359
How is me expressing my feelings about how I enjoy sex playing with my partner's sexuality?
>>17363332
Before that cue, cue the Wah wah wah trombone.
>>17363371
Oh god, you're one of them chicks who sits around wanting to talk about her feelings all night but never puts out.
I like a man who makes me feel like a princess during sex. He needs to constantly compliment me and say I'm the most beautiful girl he's ever seen. I don't like if he says only that I'm beautiful, because I think he's secretly thinking of somebody else who is even more beautiful. He needs to make me know I am better than just "getting laid", and he is there for 100% me.
>>17363377
Not her but where'd that come from? I thought her first post was pretty much fine.
>>17363359
A-fucking-men
>>17363371
Are you single, Anonette? Get a lot of first dates, but guys never seem to stick around long after that?
>>17362699
once a guy burped during sex... i dried up instantly
>>17363377
>>17363405
I'm with my first boyfriend for two years now. As I mentioned, I don't talk to him about it.
> muh reading comprehension
>>17363516
And I enjoy sex. We both orgasm every time. I hate the word "put out", it implies I'm giving something away.
For women as a whole, arousal tends to be much more involved mentally. It's why such a large majority of women read erotica rather than watching porn; visual stimulus tends to not work as well.
And when arousal is so focused on mental stuff, it's easier for things to upset it. Stress, worries, remembering things that you have to do, distractions interrupt the sexual thought process and make it harder to get it back on track. It's like if you're watching porn and all of a sudden there's a shot of some sort of disgusting surgery. Even if it cuts right back to the porn after, it's a bonerkiller and it'll take some work to get it back to where it was before.
