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2016-07-16 02:07:06 Post No. 17361373
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Anonymous 2016-07-16 02:07:06 Post No. 17361373 [Report]
K so there's this guy in college I've known for like 3 years now. We were never that close, we just often talked in college and that was pretty much it. A few weeks ago he randomly asked me if I wanted to go for a beer and pizza, I said yes cause "why the hell not", and now he keeps asking me to meet for drinks, vidya, going dancing and stuff. For the way he acts I think he's into me, but I'm not interested in going out with him. Problem is I suck at rejecting ppl cause it makes me feel bad so I tell him I'm busy a few times but always end up going cause he won't give up. Wat do I do. he's a nice guy and i don't wanna hurt his feelings. Also I don't wanna make things awkward since I have to keep seeing him in college for 2 more years. (Srry for pic not being entirely related)
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Anonymous 2016-07-16 02:13:41 Post No.17361379
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Anonymous 2016-07-16 02:13:41 Post No.17361379 [Report]
Stop that. Get better at turning people down, or you'll have to live in this 'string them along' existence hell forever.
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Anonymous 2016-07-16 02:13:52 Post No.17361380
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Anonymous 2016-07-16 02:13:52 Post No.17361380 [Report]
>>17361373
you're not going to be able to not hurt his feelings. stop stringing him along. Jesus fucking Christ.
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Anernermors 2016-07-16 02:16:05 Post No.17361387
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Anernermors 2016-07-16 02:16:05 Post No.17361387 [Report]
The longer this goes on, the worse it will be. Even more so for him and shame on you for not doing so earlier. Be upfront, but not negative. You need to be firm but gentle too. <hehe> anyway, if you want to stay on good terms, do it asap or risk his resentment. But, on the other hand... If he's nice, why not? Say it's the fact that you're too nice to say no and eventually go anyway... Sounds like charm to me. If he was a cave troll you'd say no in a heartbeat no? Just food for thought that last bit.
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Anonymous 2016-07-16 02:26:05 Post No.17361417
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Anonymous 2016-07-16 02:26:05 Post No.17361417 [Report]
All right thanks for the replies guys. This was helpful
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