No sex drive.
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Sorry for the bad english, this isn't my main language.
So, I've been living with my GF soon-to-be-wife for a month now.
Everything is perfect, we don't argue, we don't have problems between us, we have a really happy and stable relationship.
Even in sex, we are really happy on it. We are a kinky couple and fuck almost everyday.
BUT, it's been a while, my sex drive is very low, it's almost killing me, because most of time I just fuck her to make her happy, and it's annoying me.
When she wasn't living here, I used to see x-rated content, porn, hentai fetish and etc (no need for masturbation), and those things got my libido at a high level, but now with she living with me I can't see those things and this is killing the pleasure for me.
I don't have creativity, inspiration and the urge to make sex.
She isn't the problem, I can really be turned on by her at the moment.
I don't know if I should tell her about this problem, I wouldn't blame her if she be mad at me if I say something like that. But I really love her and want to do everything to make her happy.
Any /adv/ices
>>17360239
your sex drive will fluctuate and a month is nothing to worry about. longer you might check if there is something physically wrong. Otherwise suck it up and fuck her. Women fuck their husbands all the time even when they are not in the mood because they love them and want to make them happy.
why can't you look at porn just because you now live with her? i'm going to move in with my bf soon and i sure as hell will continue to watch porn.
>>17360692
Not him but I can't watch porn around my girlfriend because she takes it personally like "What am I not good enough?"
>>17360748
why would you marry a girl with such a immature mindset? talk to her about it. tell her and if she can't deal with it, her loss. i had to learn that guys can watch porn and still think you're the bee's knee's even if you look nothing like the girls he looks at to jerk off. she can learn that too
>>17360754
Your boyfriend is a lucky man.
>>17360754
She's not immature. Okay, the way she worded it was pretty immature. But letting your soon-to-be husband or live-in boyfriend masturbate and climax to women who look nothing like you, makes you a huge fucking cuck. Plus, pornography has extremely detrimental effects towards both arousal and the brain's response to it. His girlfriend is doing the right thing by "banning" or discouraging it. Anyone who lets their boyfriend or girlfriend watch it has GOT to be a cuck, no further statements.
>>17360239
Women and porn - don't mesh. It's the estrogen in their sexuality...like you, they have no imagery. Most of them need the real thing, so its easy for them to get jealous of pornhub.
Sex is overrated anyway.
Blue>red
OP here.
>>17360748
Exactly this.
She nows a little about my "thing" with porn. I usualy would send some videos for her just to poke and make her horny. Sometimes it would be okay, sometimes she would be sad about it. And I don't blame her like >>17360799 said.
But, last night, I put some porn in the pc while she was playing. Not for me, but I was poking her and it worked a little bit, I didn't get that great urge I had, but she got.. I won't try this again soon because she may think the wrong way.
