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Part 1. My cousin who is one of my closest cousins in my life recently told me to stay away from her. The sad news is her husband died from lymphoma on Thanksgiving and now she has to take care of four kids well one is a young adult and the other is almost eighteen the other two are under ten years old. When we would see each other we weren't the closest we always needed a medium in between us like the TV or another talkative person because one on one we could never communicate much. Fast forward when she had her first child she had to move in with my family so I was there for her first child being born second and fourth. I honestly never felt really attached to her but she did, when her and her family moved nearby we would go places for her kids and it was still the same we needed that medium for us to communicate. One time one of her kids who is the teenager asked me if I wanted to go see The VVitch with her which hadn't been released yet, I said sure and asked her to remind me because I don't keep track of movies release dates I don't plan to watch so she never reminded me. When I took her kids to see Star Wars I asked her if she wanted to see it and she said no thank you I'm very picky about the movies I want to see in the theater I told her I feel the same way I barely see any movies at the theater. So I learned something new about her right there, fast forward two months Batman v Superman comes out and I only invite her sister for who I have far more in common with and don't need a medium to communicate with, the movie plays at 9:45 pm so I know not to invite her kids because it would have been well past their bedtime. As soon as I get home I noticed I have a Facebook message from her telling me that I never cared for her or her family and she never had the support from me when her husband died even though I was the only relative outside of her immediate family to visit him everyday until he died.