So we've all heard that fapping can make you lazier, drain your energy, etc.
Does the same thing apply to vagina wielders?
Does not masturbating really help?
Is it a myth?
Can someone tell me from experience?
I'm legitimately asking because I'm a nympho who needs to get their shit together on a few personal creative endeavors...
>>17355769
Yes if you masturbate alot as a female you also get lazy and "relaxed" and it gets harder to reach orgasme if you masturbate more than twice a day. Had a year where the only thing i did was masturbate, did nothing productive with my life.
Sex/orgasms doesn't drain your energy or make you lazier. You're being trolled, genuis
>>17355777
Have you ever had sex with a man?
>>17355769
Let's look at incontrivertible facts:
Fapping is a huge timewaste if you do it a lot. You could spend 2-3 hours a day with your fingers in your twat if you fap morn + eve + look for that perfect porno.
I'm not gonna talk about the pseudoscience of it reducing your test or making you tired, except for the fact that masturbation is a physical activity that you often maintain for a while - tiredness after is natural, because you've exerted yourself.
If you want to get shit done, you need to prioritise your time. If twiddling your fingers is important to you then you've gotta make time in other ways, but a lot of people find that reducing the time with their hands down their pants is an easy way to add an hour or two to their day.
>>17355784
Yes of course!
The reason why i had a year of masturbation is because i didn't try it before i was kinda "old" and a former bf bought a vibrator to be kinkey and well i guess i went a little overboard and got addicted so i prefered my vibrator for a very long time and just masturbated and masturbated because it felt so good.
>>17355785
Nobody takes anywhere close to 2-3 hours a day to get off unless they have several medical issues.
For girls? Not really, no. The whole no fap thing applies to men
>>17355794
Crazy how girls feel obligated to fuck. When you have sex with your man
do you also get lazy and "relaxed" and find gets harder to reach orgasme if you had sex more than twice a day?
>>17355795
I regularly masturbated for 2-3 hours a day. Not everyone wanks just to orgasm, some people delay it to enjoy themselves. Two individual hour-long episodes is almost an underestimation for many men. No comment on women, I don't know.
OP here.
To elaborate a bit, I've masturbated near daily since I was maybe eight or nine.
I've tried to tell myself that it isn't an addiction but it probably is. On my days off work I don't get anything done that I want to, and I'm starting to think that I only get thins done at work because I can't just fap at my desk.
The thing is: it's extremely hard for me to sleep without getting off.
Any advice for that portion of it?
Thanks for your help, guys...this is really embarrassing...
>>17355777
I'm not sure I have trouble orgasming, but that sounds about like me...
One summer in high school I hardly left my room and it was my first summer with internet, so I'd just fap the day away.
You should not touch yourself or engage in any sexual acitivy except for the purpose of procreation
>>17355803
You looked at porn 2-3 hours a day before you realized if you just masturbated you'd be done with looking at porn and you wouldn't waste more than 15 minutes? Or is it hard for you to get hard?
>>17355800
Well i have a medical condition so it's very hard for me to have sex, without it feeling like a knife in my vag. so i'm not able to orgasme under sex. But i can orgasme before with a vibrator but it's impossible to put anything inside me before that. and i most likely wouldn't have sex twice a day, maybe to be nice but i wouldn't be to pleasure myself
I do not feel obligated to fuck at all it hurts, bleeds and almost always makes me cry.
>>17355811
Ok well you're abnormal. Why are you giving advice to normal people regarding something you have medical issues with that makes you different from everyone?
>>17355817
Just because its hard for me to have sex doesnt stop me from being able to masturbate and have orgasmes?? You don't need to stuff a dildo inside you to masturbate, girls have a clitorise that can be stimulated without the need to insert anything. Op is asking about masturbation not sex.
>>17355823
Orgasm is an orgasm. Are you saying people shouldn't have regular orgasms? It's healthy regardless if you do it with your partner or by yourself if you don't have a partner
>>17355832
I'm not saying people shouldn't have orgasmes i'm saying you have to be carefull and not let it take controlle over your life. You can be addicted to it and thats not healthy because your drive towards sex will be different, you'll start to feel satisfied with masturbating and therefore not wanting sex.
>>17355805
Sorry I love Lucifer
>>17355823
Seconding this, most of the time I just use clitoral simulation...I didn't buy a dildo until last year and I don't have sex with other people.
>>17355837
I don't touch myself so i have a vibrator for my clit, own a dildo but have never used it. But still it shouldn't controlle your life and if it does you have to distract yourself from it. Like saying i'll only masturbate before i go to bed today. Or i'll only masturbate one time in the shower today
>>17355800
> Crazy how girls feel obligated to fuck.
How is that crazy when guys literally tell you they'll dump you if you don't put out. See anon who gets called abnormal for hurting during sex.
>>17355846
Works both ways. I'm a guy. And every girl I've had since i was 20 wanted to have sex sooner than i did and made me feel bad about it. Pretty much starting on the 2nd or the 3rd date with all of them and in the outside world you'd never guess because they were all good ladies. And no I'm not Brad Pitt or anthing, like a solid 7 boy next door type
>>17355876
Just say no bro.
The vibrator was invented in Victorian times to cure female hysteria.
You could look it up.
Meh.
Masturbation is always better than sex with a man.
>>17355804
how could you have started that early? i didnt even know what sex was til i was in 6th or 7th grade. thats insane. you mustve been in the 3rd or 4th grade. thats crazy dude.
>>17355769
As a woman I find if I masturbate im actually more alert, it's pretty much just men that get weird and sleepy after an orgasm (presumably because they can only cum once)
Orgasms regulate your hormones (meaning fewer mood swings ) and are generally good for your pelvic wall muscles becoming stronger (making it easier to orgasm from penatrative sex)
Don't listen to 'no fap' dudes, they're all virgins who wouldn't know women's health or anatomy if it hit them in the faceb
>>17355939
Sex with a women is pregnancy a decent bit of the time
>>17355795
Male poster detected.
Women can masturbate for ages without cuming or for multiple orgasms. When you've got a vibrator you don't have to do a lot and can lay in b3d with it for hours.
>>17355876
Women assume men always want sex because of media conditioning. Even if we don't want sex we will have sex to demonstrate our value.
>>17355958
Not if you live in a civilized country where birth control is free/affordable americuck
>>17355804
Hey Op it sounds like you're using masturbation as a manifestation of procrastination anxiety. I really urge you to look up the "how to adhd" YouTube channel and look at the symptoms in women video,
>>17355911
> vibrator
> Victorian
Kek
Hysteria was just when men couldn't get their wives to obey them they would take them and get cucked by the doctor fucking them. Raping you is generally something doctors aren't allowed to do anymore so I'm gonna go ahead and call bs on 'hysteria'
Source: 100+ years of science
>>17355795
>to get off
Spoken like a pleb. There's no orgasm like an orgasm with two hours build up. And as someone who easily has multiple orgasms, I absolutely spent ~four hours climaxing eight times.
age 30s Man here and in my experience is once I'm horny, i can orgasm within 10 minutes if i want easily with the help of my partner or hot porn (sure i could edge on either for hours too, all about my priorities at the time). If i orgasm, its only a 5-15 minutes spell of being turned off or "weird and sleepy after an orgasm" before i get all revved up again if i want. i agree as a man that regular orgasm keeps you more alert and normal /regulated and that 'no fap' dudes are all virgins propagating a meme that nobody agrees with outside of the basement 4chan dwellers (internet is your addiction, go outside, exercise, socialize and contribute to humanity by doing/creating...not by doing 'no fap' 4chan, how dumb are you?)
>>17355971
Hysteria is bullshit, it was just a byproduct from living in a time that was extreme suppressive towards emotional and physical needs.
Kind of like how some ADHD/ADD might be legitimate, but it's also partly society putting a medical label on kids not coping well with the literally constant amount of distraction and stimulants around them.
>>17355982
Dork loser detected who has never orgasmed and just reads about tantric sex and lives in his mom's basement where she rapes him with a 8-in strap-on
>>17355988
Alternatively it's called not being a man. For many women it is not hard to have consecutive orgasms, educate yourself it this is news for you.
>>17355992
Virgin detected
>>17355994
Whatever you want to tell yourself.
>>17355997
Virgins gonna virgin. Keeping reading Cosmopolitan and spewing out the same plebe stuff they sell to you and your fellow virgins
>>17355999
>>17356001
Virgin meme pic there. Here's a better one on your level
>>17356005
Ladybeard is surely getting more pussy than you could ever imagine.
Kek.
>>17355794
Fuck vibrators. Reading this makes me sick
I say just go for it. I think many guys would fap the day away (myself included) if we had the ability to just keep going without causing pain/losing the boner. I am honestly jealous of women and their ability to just keep on keeping on.
The only issue that I can think of is the time consumed and that's only an issue if you need to be doing something.
Masturbation doesn't drain your energy and motivation. Addiction and escapism drains your energy and motivation. It just happens that masturbation can be a source of addiction and escapism, like many other things such as eating too much or drinking alcohol or doing drugs or gambling, or even things that seem harmless like shopping or playing video games, and the bottom line is that you have to decide for yourself if your behavior is showing signs of addiction and escapism.
>>17355797
Speak for yourself
>>17356187
are you being cucked by a product anon?
