Sexless relationship

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Sexless relationship 2016-07-14 03:34:35 Post No. 17355174
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Sexless relationship Anonymous 2016-07-14 03:34:35 Post No. 17355174 [Report]

I've been seeing this girl now for a few months now and we've official been in a relationship for the past 5 or so weeks. So far she's given me head but almost everytime she does we stop before I end up cumming because of one reason or another, she's become more comfortable with it now but she won't let me cum in her mouth and I can't imagine her finishing me off with her hands. We're both virgins so I'm okay with not rushing into sex but I just feel like it's never going to happen with her. She's literally never allowed me to touch her vagina, she always stops me when I get too close. She says that she's never ever masturbated so idk how she's ever going to be comfortable with me if she's not even used to touching herself. I don't really know what to do. Sex wasn't really much of a factor before I got with her but I'm a sexual being and don't think I can be in a relationship without being satisfied sexually. I'm still regularly watching porn which I feel quite guilty about because it leads to me fantasising about other girls since my girlfriend isn't giving me anything. Talking to her about it is quite difficult too because although I can talk forever and say exactly how I feel, getting her to say even one word is a mission. It's the most frustrating thing ever. In starting to wonder if she's interested in sex at all. Other than this I really like her. She can sometimes be a bit closed off which is quite frustrating but I work through it because I know what she's actually like. Does it sound like this relationship will be able to last?

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Anonymous 2016-07-14 05:18:16 Post No.17355387
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Anonymous 2016-07-14 05:18:16 Post No.17355387 [Report]

>>17355174
Are you both 14 or something.

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Anonymous 2016-07-14 05:21:19 Post No.17355395
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Anonymous 2016-07-14 05:21:19 Post No.17355395 [Report]

OP, you will never know if you don't ask her about her opinion about sex life in your relation, communication is the key to success in a relationship (also good sex); the thing here is if you are uncomfortable with the fact that you don't have sex, then you will not be happy.
Talk with her about your sexual urges.

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Anonymous 2016-07-14 05:22:18 Post No.17355400
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Anonymous 2016-07-14 05:22:18 Post No.17355400 [Report]

>>17355174
Take her out for a romantic evening, then come home, chill out for a bit, set up some candles, and tell her you'd like to take her places she's never been before. Ask her if she trusts you, and slowly start kissing her, all the way down her neck, really get her going before trying slowly and carefully to touch her.
Sometimes you just gotta set a mood. Asking her if she's interested is one thing, cause she can easily keep herself guarded and say no, but if you show her that you're there for her and that her body wants it, you're sweet. Actions speak louder than words me friend, show her that you want her, and that she wants you.

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Anonymous 2016-07-14 11:25:18 Post No.17356007
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Anonymous 2016-07-14 11:25:18 Post No.17356007 [Report]

>>17355387
Are you asking because I sound like a 14 year old or she does? We're both 19 but I never had this problem with my ex girlfriend