>get tinder
>get 11 matches in the first 2 days
>week passes by
>haven't spoke to any of them
What form of autism is this? I'm a decent looking guy and kinda feel bad for the girl that thinks, "he's cute, cool we matched" and then never gets messaged. Does anyone else do this? pic unrelated
>>17349074
Wtf where do you live? I tried tinder in my small town and I got 0 matches in days
I even bang hot chicks sometimes so I don't think it should be that low
>>17349094
Southern US, small town but halfway between 2 somewhat large cities so all my matches are 40 miles away
I tired tinder once and the only matches I ever got was when drunk swiping and liking fat chicks. The next day when I took a sober look at them I would get pretty depressed that those were my only options. Then started talking to them when I got drunk again. Only ever hooked up with one and she was a stubby olmeca that stalked me for the next few weeks
Was same boat. You might be overthinking it. These girls obviously at least want you to send them a hello or a corny pickup line. Don't worry about what you say to them, the point of tinder is to cast a wide-ass net and see who is actually interested once it gets conversational. I personally hate texting back and forth with women because it's so easy to misinterpret or overthink, but you can get over it, I did. Best of luck to you
>>17349242
You're right I do overthink it, but mostly it's
>this girl saw my pic and at the very least briefly thought, "ok, I could potentially date this guy". That's a good feeling, no need to ruin it by showing her how awkward I am and having one more thing to cringe about
I know this isn't a healthy thought process
>>17349299
Protip: in any relationship never think about what the other person wants
