I'm trying to find myself a woman. I'm not interested in any of the girls within my friend group, so I'm trying to branch out to other friend groups. Here's the plan:
1) Go to party with a friend, one who has friends that I haven't met yet
2) befriend people at the party, get numbers
3) If an interesting woman hasn't been found, go back to step 1
Thoughts?
Also, last weekend I got through steps 1 and 2 with some success: got 2 new numbers, and I plan to invite those people to parties while hoping that the people invite me to their own.
Sounds like a good plan. Good luck.
>>17348576
Good plan, without over thinking it.
You could always try tinder, if i wanted to be a pessimist i'd tell you its better to fuck than date.
>>17348671
I'm really discouraged from trying tinder because there's a lot of disconnect when communicating through messages as opposed to talking in person. I've had poor experiences in the past, where I talked really easily in text, but I couldn't converse well at all in person. I'd much rather just try to talk to people in situations where I need to approach in person, where I force myself to grow in that regard. Women become even more scarce, which is rough, but oh well.
>>17348671
That's more realistic than pessimistic, m8
Its a bad plan. A terrible plan.
The reason is that those things dont need planning, get spontaneous man. If you really wanna try , leave shame behind, talk to women on the streets,
not the glichy "HEY BABE THAT ASS NEED RIMMIN" or stuff like this but throw a compliment like "Hi , do you know you re cute?" Worst thing that will happen is a) you will build confidence for yourself,seeing that talking to them is nothing
b) you will make their day.