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Say no to abstinence
2016-07-11 21:02:34 Post No. 17347448
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Say no to abstinence
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2016-07-11 21:02:34
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Gonna try and make this shit quick, looking for advice on what to do about my GFs low libido.
So we been together like 4 years, first year was great sex wise (super kinky yo!) although we'd both just came out of fairly long term relationship. Moved in together but ended up with me starting work late, finishing early hours of the morning and her working standard 9-5 so we basically slept in the same bed and saw each other awake for maybe an hour before I had to go to work. Understably drifted apart and ended up getting non physical with coworkers respectedly (I.e. Sexting and photo's). One day it all came out and we began the process of breaking up
During this time we kinda realised that we really wanted to be together and decided to work on fixing rather than abandoning.
Fast forward almost 3 years and we're closer than ever, really happy buuuuuut the sex never really got back to awesome. I'm like any cold blooded male, wanna do it 24/7 but seriously the planets have to align before she's up for it. We've talked about it and basically, after what happened she says it's as if her brain is telling her sex is a bad thing and although she knows it's not it kinda kills the mood for her. This issue is almost definitely amplified by her really bad anxiety but I kinda get it, it's like if you've ever been drinking or you've had a joint and you get a girl back and it's all going sweet then a little voice in your head going "wanna hope you don't get whiskey dick" then all of a sudden your dick's like "damn, now you mention it..."
So yeah any ideas on how do I fix this and get back to the awesome sex? And finding someone else is not an option as this is literally the only downside.
Tl;Dr used to have great sex all the time, now have lights out sex maybe once a month (maybe I got ugly ha) please help a Bro.
