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I have a girlfriend who has gave me a lot of red flags; but nothing seems wrong in our relationship; so I'm worried I'm just self-sabotaging something good because I have a moral high ground.

Some things she's done include

>left an "open relationship" with an old room mate for me, to be in a relationship

>wouldn't put her status on social media we were dating for months until just recently, said because "her mother can be snoopy and cruel"

>at one point said she was having trouble committing to the relationship fully because of an old partner who had passed away in an accident, but went back on this and apologized later

>small little lies sometimes, seemingly about nothing important. Small things she did that are meaningless, even though I WATCHED her do something else.

> I caught her ex-room mate sending her a heart on her cell during a vacation. She said she told him this was inappropriate and I had taken her word for it, even though she was supposed to block off all contact.

Besides this, she is essentially the most giving and polite person i have met. She's always taking us on road trips, or planning huge trips together. She swears she is earnest to me and wants to be together hopefully until we're old. From my perspective it seems like wasting hundreds or even thousands of dollars over the course of a relationship you're emotionally manipulating would make no sense.

However, I'm not so sure how serious I should take her after these things. I would like to believe her, but it leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

These are nearly the only issues I've had in two years. Do I have a reason to be paranoid? Or are these things reasonable?